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Any ideas for starters? - 5/20/2008 8:26:35 PM   
westendsgrrl


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Status: offline 		Hi to everyone out there.

i am very new to this, although i have been curious about the lifestyle for quite some time i have recently just bagane experimentation.

Does anyone out there have any ideas of fun and interesting things to try.

The person i have come into contact with has brought the best out in me, but i am looking to others for any advice as to things you might suggest, try, or look into.
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RE: Any ideas for starters? - 5/20/2008 8:45:06 PM   
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Status: offline 		Inside yourself is best really, just keep your eyes open.

And don't make any commitments to anyone for at least six months.

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RE: Any ideas for starters? - 5/20/2008 8:51:44 PM   
xBullx


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Status: offline 		Both Napa and Auto Zone have a really good selection of starters. Make sure that if your car is older your don't forget shims to measure the starter gear up true with the flywheel. If you don't you'll keep going back to the store to get starter after starter.

In other words make sure you know what you need before starting the car.

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RE: Any ideas for starters? - 5/20/2008 10:11:34 PM   
FangsNfeet


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Status: offline 		Read and watch some Erotica stuff. Read threads. Watch some of the previews on the Kink.com stuff. Things like that will help you think about what you like and dislike.

Hopefully, you find the right person or people who will take things slow with you and help you discover your potential and how far you really want to go.

Already being curious is a great start. So think about what you're ready for now and what you want to try later after some trust has been established.

Best wishes and good luck.


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RE: Any ideas for starters? - 5/20/2008 11:49:25 PM   
breatheasone


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Status: offline 		replay some daydreams you have that turn you on... watch porn maybe..... be lucky enough to find or have a partner you can tell ANYTHING to.... enjoy the ride! 

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RE: Any ideas for starters? - 5/21/2008 5:10:29 AM   
MadameXTC


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Status: offline 		When i first found out I was interested in BDSM I found as much info as possible from books, friends, the internet, etc. You can always find online "support groups" for just abouyt any kinky fantasy you have. My idea when I started was ,try anything once and if you like it try it again.. lol

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RE: Any ideas for starters? - 5/21/2008 5:51:23 AM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		Google BDSM checklists. Rank the things you read about in order of what appeals to you and how highly. Start with the activities you both rank the highest. And do some research on it to determine if more research or other methods of learning are required to do this safely.

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RE: Any ideas for starters? - 5/21/2008 7:55:33 AM   
antipode


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Status: offline 		Aruba, or Puerto Rico, if you want to stay Stateside. BTW, where is Ottawa, in the UK?

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RE: Any ideas for starters? - 5/21/2008 7:59:59 AM   
kinkypuppy2


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Status: offline 		First step. read some good boooks on the subject. Jack Rinella is great, go to a local munch and get involved with a "new persons" group if they have one. Here in Portland their called "Whippersnappers"

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RE: Any ideas for starters? - 5/21/2008 7:34:30 PM   
Huntertn


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Status: offline 		Read, read and reread, talk to others, find a local group...and for gods sakes never do anything with out first thinking it thu..just like you would in a a normal date....

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