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Lucass -> Worshiping a woman (5/20/2008 9:17:13 PM)

Women are a mystery . A puzzle to be solved by every man. once you break that code, you feel complete. I know for a fact that the right lady is the better half of any man. However, that journey to find that queen , that princess whom will take you to the next level and complete you is damn hard and confusing .

Infact, i dont even know why am writing this right now. I am even questioning why i came into this lifestyle in the first place. Maybe its strong woman, goal oriented ladys, a female that knows what she wants without the meaningless mind games.
I know for a fact that a strong relashionship is the only place that can be driven by two leaders, both knowing eachothers weaknesses and strenght and yet they lead their own emotions. confusing again.

Am i in the right place? maybe am meeting the wrong people. who knows!!

Again i dont know what am seeking by writing this. maybe someone who went thru the same confustion as am going thru right now. Its hard to keep asking these questions in a taboo world that demands prefection . Even though am lost, i still have the right to dream and find that angel of mine, my better half , my lady, the woman i will worship.

PS : sorry for the run ons and bad spelling , maybe am blowing some steam i dont even know

Keep on dreaming
Luc





DiurnalVampire -> RE: Worshiping a woman (5/20/2008 9:21:07 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Lucass

I know for a fact that a strong relashionship is the only place that can be driven by two leaders, both knowing eachothers weaknesses and strenght and yet they lead their own emotions. confusing again.

A strong relationship does not have 2 leaders, if you are in this lifestyle. It has one leader, and one follower.
I missed your question entirely. What is it you want to know from all this ranting?
Are you asking if you re in the right place? To do what, worship someone, yes, but to do that you ahve to realize you wil not be a leader. The submissives worship, after all.



MissMagnolia -> RE: Worshiping a woman (5/20/2008 9:26:15 PM)

Yes, women are a mystery. Men are too. Not only that, but we're all individuals with different personalities, viewpoints and life experiences, just to make it all a bit more confusing!

It sounds simple, but sometimes we need to stop running around looking for answers, to find the answers. When we try to catch a butterfly, it flutters away. But if you sit very still, one might just land on you.

I don't know if you're meeting the wrong people or if you're in the right place. I do know that if you stop desperately trying to fit into a box, find your label, you will find they comes to you.[:)]



hopelesslyInvo -> RE: Worshiping a woman (5/20/2008 9:28:08 PM)

you know some odd facts...




Lucass -> RE: Worshiping a woman (5/20/2008 9:34:24 PM)

I mean a succesful lasting relationship, and i mean fiancial success, a high lifestyle . A man that has no control at all in his life not in private of his home, dont mix those two parts. He will become a broken man with time. and cant fight for his rightful place in a racing society.  Dont get me wrong but i believe in that, its my opinion

actualy you helped me a bit, its where do you draw the line? i mean worshiping a woman is also providing her with a life style of a princess . not tribit crap . i mean a forever bond



GreedyTop -> RE: Worshiping a woman (5/20/2008 9:43:10 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Lucass

I mean a succesful lasting relationship, and i mean fiancial success, a high lifestyle . A man that has no control at all in his life not in private of his home, dont mix those two parts. He will become a broken man with time. and cant fight for his rightful place in a racing society.  Dont get me wrong but i believe in that, its my opinion

actualy you helped me a bit, its where do you draw the line? i mean worshiping a woman is also providing her with a life style of a princess . not tribit crap . i mean a forever bond



Wouldn't that depend on the woman? I mean, for instance, I don't need a princess lifestyle.. I'm perfectly content to have a modest lifestyle - bills paid, a bit to play with, etc.  Some women don't WANT to be put on that kind of pedestal.

just sayin....



FangsNfeet -> RE: Worshiping a woman (5/20/2008 10:26:51 PM)

As with any serious relationship, timing and placement is important. In just about every case, it's about meeting the right person at the right time. You have to be ready and wanting that relationship and they have to be ready and wanting the same thing as well. Sooner or later, you'll get there. For now, just enjoy life and continue to grow and prepare yourself to be with the right one for you.



IronBear -> RE: Worshiping a woman (5/21/2008 12:18:23 AM)

I worship a Woman, well infact a Pantheon of Women in my Religious/Spiritual belief system. Than is sufficient. I honour and even venerate some women should they prove worthy.

Iron Bear
Master of Bruin Cottage
(A Victorian Lifestyle poly home)

"I judge a Man by what I see him do and not by what others tell me he does." (Captain Sir Edward Pellew of the HMS Indefatigable to Midshipman Hornblower ~ C.S. Forrester)




steviemichael -> RE: Worshiping a woman (5/21/2008 12:35:05 AM)

 i have spent a lot of time looking for meaning looking for answers  to many things include just what makesup a woman  why  because i think the next answer will change something !
But this is my wisdom and this is it that
one day i will run out of questions and its not only will questions stop the answers will stop also and then you will also stop hope.
and in our walk in life one only has Hope!



petpete -> RE: Worshiping a woman (5/21/2008 1:40:55 AM)

i would say to Lucass that MissMagnolia has a very valid point, along with all the other positives that most have added. (Just keep the worship part for the alter....) There's more to life then just worship and no need to get over exited.



steviemichael -> RE: Worshiping a woman (5/21/2008 1:56:31 AM)

not sure the word 'Worship' is a correct usage  maybe adore a woman for all her qualitys but worship nah



MissMagnolia -> RE: Worshiping a woman (5/21/2008 2:00:24 AM)

Perhaps Lucass has used the word worship, because that is what it means to him. This isn't about terminology, it is about a feeling. You may not use that word, steviemichael, but that is the word Lucass chooses to use. He has every right to use whatever word he wants.



Justme696 -> RE: Worshiping a woman (5/21/2008 2:13:04 AM)

give up trying to understand life, males and females....and you will have it a lott eassier.
just follow your thoughts and heart.



Dnomyar -> RE: Worshiping a woman (5/21/2008 3:35:31 AM)

Perhaps Lucas is just TROLLING.



petpete -> RE: Worshiping a woman (5/21/2008 3:40:52 AM)

On second thought Dnomyar maybe right!!



cjan -> RE: Worshiping a woman (5/21/2008 7:34:31 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MissMagnolia



It sounds simple, but sometimes we need to stop running around looking for answers, to find the answers. When we try to catch a butterfly, it flutters away. But if you sit very still, one might just land on you.




MissM, I particularly love the way you put this. And so true... And, imo, it takes some life experience and maturity to understand this.



MladyHathor -> RE: Worshiping a woman (5/21/2008 8:59:48 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Lucass

I mean a succesful lasting relationship, and i mean fiancial success, a high lifestyle . A man that has no control at all in his life not in private of his home, dont mix those two parts. He will become a broken man with time. and cant fight for his rightful place in a racing society.  Dont get me wrong but i believe in that, its my opinion

actualy you helped me a bit, its where do you draw the line? i mean worshiping a woman is also providing her with a life style of a princess . not tribit crap . i mean a forever bond



First of all I see some mixed signals and some mixed elements---so here is My wisdom:
 
quote:

 A man that has no control at all in his life not in private of his home, dont mix those two parts. He will become a broken man with time. and cant fight for his rightful place in a racing society.  Dont get me wrong but i believe in that, its my opinion


You generalize---D/s relationships just like those in your racing society take negotiation---defining what you do or don't want and then finding someone who agrees--I have no problems with a successful man--bu as DV said, in the family unit there is one leader and one follower--I don't follow---NOTE: I did not say in an occupation---huge difference.
 
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and cant fight for his rightful place in a racing society. 


Such an alpha beat the chest statement---so do you want to be seen as a big dog and come home to nothing meaningful--or do you want to a relationship that fulfills you----you better decide. What's more important, the size of the penis at the urinal or the devotion of an adoring woman?
 
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I mean a succesful lasting relationship, and i mean fiancial success, a high lifestyle


Not one in the same---rich people get divorced, poor people get divorced--- a lasting relationship doesnt have a damn thing to do with money, if it did--you'de have a line in your checkbook.
 
quote:

 i mean worshiping a woman is also providing her with a life style of a princess . not tribit crap . i mean a forever bond


You appear to equate devotion with financial status----been at the water cooler too much--money and things don't buy a forever bond and stuff doesn't mean devotion.
 
Seems you need to separate your financial objectives and your relationship---I haven't met many "Trophy Dominas".


 
 


 



windchymes -> RE: Worshiping a woman (5/21/2008 12:51:48 PM)

When I hear you using words like "worship", "queen" and "princess", it makes me wonder if you haven't set the standard so high for yourself that it's unattainable for anyone to reach.  That you've decided that you're going to provide a fabulous and wonderful life for someone filled with wealth and status and yes, worship, and that to be deserving of so much splendor, she must be the equivalent of royalty, an ultra-supermodel, Miss Universe,  in every way. 

You might even find her, great, but the chances are that she'll be so high-maintenance and spoiled that she'll never be happy with anything you provide her with anyway.  Spoiling and pampering someone usually just makes them more spoiled and harder to please, not grateful and loving.  I know a lot of men who would attest to that.

There has already been a lot of good advice and suggestions posted about possibly re-evaluating what you're looking for.  I hope you'll read them and give them good consideration.



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