Toe the line

Collarspace Discussion Forums

Home Login Search

Toe the line

View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest

All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Ask a Mistress >> Toe the line

Page: [1] 2 next > >>

Login

Message

<< Older Topic Newer Topic >>

Toe the line - 10/22/2005 3:06:28 PM

gimpboy27

Posts: 19
Joined: 9/30/2005
Status: offline

Good evening everyone,

I've been a lover of feet for as long as I can remember. I just love to worship the feet of a woman (not tried another man's yet), whether they be clean, dirty/sweaty.
However, most women I've been with (well all actually) seem to have foot phobias. Some hated having their feet touched, while others would let me worship them out of curiosity but didn't particularly enjoy the feeling.
Of course, I would never impose my views on any of them. If they didn't want their feet licking then I wouldn't push the subject.
I just wonder if women (or men) do enjoy this act of male submission? I find it a great way to pay homage to my superiors....I've just yet to find anyone who agrees.

slave chris xx

Post #: 1

RE: Toe the line - 10/22/2005 4:12:33 PM

KCMOLucky

Posts: 121
Joined: 4/10/2005
From: Kansas City, Missouri
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: gimpboy27

I've just yet to find anyone who agrees.

slave chris xx

You've obviously not done your homework then. There's a huge fanbase for foot fetishs, all you have to do is google 'foot fetish', and viola! more info than you can imagine. Message boards, groups... you name it. You'll also be hard pressed to find a Domme on this site who's opposed to at least SOME form of foot worship.

Foot fetishists (sp) aren't few and far inbetween. All it takes is a trip to Yahoo, MSN, or IRC. Who knows, they might even be in your church. That's where I met my hubby, and personal foot boy. :)

_____________________________

I don't have PMS, I just disagree with you.

(in reply to gimpboy27)

Post #: 2

RE: Toe the line - 10/22/2005 4:49:12 PM

gimpboy27

Posts: 19
Joined: 9/30/2005
Status: offline

Thanks. However, I know there's a huge fanbase of foot fetishists on the internet. What I meant was, I've never actually met a woman who likes her feet being worshipped.

I was just curious if any women on here like their feet being adored.
You do obviously......what a lucky hubby you have!

(in reply to KCMOLucky)

Post #: 3

RE: Toe the line - 10/22/2005 5:10:28 PM

AAkasha

Posts: 4429
Joined: 11/27/2004
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: gimpboy27

Good evening everyone,

I've been a lover of feet for as long as I can remember. I just love to worship the feet of a woman (not tried another man's yet), whether they be clean, dirty/sweaty.
However, most women I've been with (well all actually) seem to have foot phobias. Some hated having their feet touched, while others would let me worship them out of curiosity but didn't particularly enjoy the feeling.
Of course, I would never impose my views on any of them. If they didn't want their feet licking then I wouldn't push the subject.
I just wonder if women (or men) do enjoy this act of male submission? I find it a great way to pay homage to my superiors....I've just yet to find anyone who agrees.

slave chris xx

There are probably not very many women (except the extremely ticklish) that would not accept a free pedicure or foot massage from a fine spa in their city. What's the difference between that and a man "worshipping" her feet?

I think the problem many subs run into with vanilla women is that they "gross out" their partners by being too self indulgent about it and losing sight of the main goal. If the goal is to massage and worship your lady's feet, then you need to start off slow and not leap right into your fantasy and have your tongue between her toes moaning and drooling. I exaggerate to make a point, but it's an important point.

If a woman receiving a foot massage starts to feel like she's just a foot for a guy to get off on, the massage doesn't feel good any longer. If he's being overzealous or sloppy, it's obvious he's not into it for her pleasure, he's just indulging his favorite fantasy.

I've known a man for many years as he is a close friend of the family, sort of like a brother. When we've been at parties together, he's often offered me a foot massage at the end of the night and I've never turned him down. Now, I get a sense he definitely has a foot fetish. He gives the BEST foot massages in the world and the ladies in my family LINE UP for it.

You have to separate your fantasy a little bit and realize that women will enjoy it so long as you do it tastefully, tactfully and with class. Once you have set that foundation, you can move on to more, if she is comfortable, including kissing and sucking toes, etc. It's all in your approach.

Example -- girlfriend comes in from a long day on her feet in high heels, exhausted. You immediately say, "I would love to worship your sweaty, dirty feet." Her reaction -- eww, gross.
Instead, if you said, "Hey, you look exhausted. Sit down, let me give you a nice foot massage."

If she says, "Oh, god no. My feet are so sweaty and disgusting..." do not say "That's great, mmm, tasty!" -- instead, say "Why don't I run you a hot bath, you can soak for a bit, then I'll give you that foot massage."

Just a few ideas.

Akasha

_____________________________

Akasha's Web - All original Femdom content since 1995
Don't email me here, email me at [email protected]

(in reply to gimpboy27)

Post #: 4

RE: Toe the line - 10/22/2005 5:13:54 PM

gimpboy27

Posts: 19
Joined: 9/30/2005
Status: offline

Thank you. Some very useful advice there.

(in reply to AAkasha)

Post #: 5

RE: Toe the line - 10/22/2005 6:23:17 PM

thetammyjo

Posts: 6322
Joined: 9/8/2005
Status: offline

I was introduced to foot worship (in a non-sexual way) by one slave and I love some attention to my feet.

Kissing, massaging, washing, painting my nails, all wonderful.

Turn to think of someone coming on my feet though but that's me, not a statement that it can't be hot.

_____________________________

Love, Peace, Hugs, Kisses, Whips & Chains,

TammyJo

Check out my website at http://www.thetammyjo.com Or www.tammyjoeckhart.com

And my LJ where I post fiction in progress if you "friend" me at http://thetammyjo.livejournal.com/

(in reply to gimpboy27)

Post #: 6

RE: Toe the line - 10/22/2005 6:27:33 PM

TexasMaam

Posts: 1467
Joined: 6/22/2005
Status: offline

gimpy,

as with most fetishes, you simply need to find the right Domme.

TexasMaam

(in reply to gimpboy27)

Post #: 7

RE: Toe the line - 10/22/2005 6:31:04 PM

thetammyjo

Posts: 6322
Joined: 9/8/2005
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: AAkasha

Example -- girlfriend comes in from a long day on her feet in high heels, exhausted. You immediately say, "I would love to worship your sweaty, dirty feet." Her reaction -- eww, gross.
Instead, if you said, "Hey, you look exhausted. Sit down, let me give you a nice foot massage."

If she says, "Oh, god no. My feet are so sweaty and disgusting..." do not say "That's great, mmm, tasty!" -- instead, say "Why don't I run you a hot bath, you can soak for a bit, then I'll give you that foot massage."

Just a few ideas.

Akasha

Very good examples.

Here's what Fox and I did last night.

I told him on Wednesday that my feet needed his attention on Friday night. Post "Numbers" (which we both like) he got up, got the towels, the foot care products, and the foot tub. He set out the towel, filled the tub with water and some foot soak oil. Then he got naked and knelt for me in the bedroom. He removed my shoes and my socks and kissed each foot lovingly. Then he gave me a five step foot treatment, massaged them and kissed them. While he did so he told me a wonderful story he'd been working on since Wednesday as well. It took over two hours for this entire wonderful time.

That's what I like about our "foot time" -- it's about me and he is completely focused on me as a full person even though he's primarily touching my feet.

_____________________________

Love, Peace, Hugs, Kisses, Whips & Chains,

TammyJo

Check out my website at http://www.thetammyjo.com Or www.tammyjoeckhart.com

And my LJ where I post fiction in progress if you "friend" me at http://thetammyjo.livejournal.com/

(in reply to AAkasha)

Post #: 8

RE: Toe the line - 10/25/2005 1:54:10 PM

Sardaxia

Posts: 54
Joined: 10/22/2005
Status: offline

thetammyjo :

quote:

He removed my shoes and my socks and kissed each foot lovingly.

..funny how I'd prefere to put the highest heels on each foot & THEN kiss each one!!

(in reply to thetammyjo)

Post #: 9

RE: Toe the line - 10/25/2005 3:34:10 PM

Cloudz

Posts: 836
Joined: 9/13/2005
Status: offline

Akasha,

"tastefully, tactfully, and with class" well said, and hopefully well heeded by our submissive friends.

~Cloudz
the lover of all foot pampering

(in reply to AAkasha)

Post #: 10

RE: Toe the line - 10/25/2005 3:36:12 PM

GoddessDustyGold

Posts: 2822
Joined: 4/11/2004
From: Arizona
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: Sardaxia

thetammyjo :
quote:

He removed my shoes and my socks and kissed each foot lovingly.

..funny how I'd prefere to put the highest heels on each foot & THEN kiss each one!!

But is it about your preference?

_____________________________

Dusty
They that give up essential liberty to obtain a little temporary safety deserve neither liberty nor safety
B Franklin
Don't blame Me ~ I didn't vote for either of them
The Hidden Kingdom

(in reply to Sardaxia)

Post #: 11

RE: Toe the line - 10/31/2005 12:56:09 AM

Sardaxia

Posts: 54
Joined: 10/22/2005
Status: offline

How do you mean?

(in reply to GoddessDustyGold)

Post #: 12

RE: Toe the line - 10/31/2005 1:57:51 AM

KCMOLucky

Posts: 121
Joined: 4/10/2005
From: Kansas City, Missouri
Status: offline

I think she means that you, being the submissive, are there to give your Mistress pleasure, and that might not always mean "putting the highest heels on each foot & THEN kiss each one". God knows I'd MUCH rather feel the kiss on my feet than have to wear some huge high heels just to turn someones head.

The point I believe they're trying to get across is, if you keep acting like Her feet are your masturbatory receptacle, that can annoy and insult your Mistress. Once in a while (sarcastic smile here), it's nice to have the submissive put aside his desires and just give a nice, relaxing footrub, without you asking to cum on them...lmao

_____________________________

I don't have PMS, I just disagree with you.

(in reply to Sardaxia)

Post #: 13

RE: Toe the line - 10/31/2005 2:01:59 PM

Sardaxia

Posts: 54
Joined: 10/22/2005
Status: offline

Whoops! erm thanks for clarifying that one.

Good point but that was just a flippant remark about how my fetish is shoes/boots rather than bare feet.

I wish my partner would be my Mistress but she sees being a Dom as just being lazy & selfish despite delicate (on my part) and long talks on the subject. I respect her point of view...oh, and she still does get the occasional foot massage!

(in reply to KCMOLucky)

Post #: 14

RE: Toe the line - 10/31/2005 2:32:07 PM

GoddessDustyGold

Posts: 2822
Joined: 4/11/2004
From: Arizona
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: Sardaxia

..funny how I'd prefere to put the highest heels on each foot & THEN kiss each one!!

quote:

ORIGINAL: KCMOLucky

I think she means that you, being the submissive, are there to give your Mistress pleasure, and that might not always mean "putting the highest heels on each foot & THEN kiss each one". God knows I'd MUCH rather feel the kiss on my feet than have to wear some huge high heels just to turn someones head.

*S* Yes, that is exactly the point I was trying to make. All I could imagine, when I read the post, was having aching feet after being in high heels all day, and then having to put even higher heels on in order to get a kiss on the shoes from a needy sub.
Like most, I would rather have a nice soak and foot massage. Afterward, given your particular fetish, and if you were a good boy, I might permit you to give My shoes a good cleaning before, lovingly, putting them away in My closet.

< Message edited by GoddessDustyGold -- 10/31/2005 2:33:49 PM >

_____________________________

Dusty
They that give up essential liberty to obtain a little temporary safety deserve neither liberty nor safety
B Franklin
Don't blame Me ~ I didn't vote for either of them
The Hidden Kingdom

(in reply to KCMOLucky)

Post #: 15

RE: Toe the line - 11/1/2005 12:57:43 AM

cinnfulhussy

Posts: 135
Joined: 1/30/2005
Status: offline

I'm no Domme, but I do love having my toes, feet and ankles nibbled sucked and licked. Neither of the two men who have done this with me were submissive. The first one introduced me to the concept of foot love. I'll NEVER ever ever forget it.
We were sitting out in the commons under a tree with folks from the Pagan Student Alliance. As I recall, I was skipping class to chat and enjoy a nice lazy afternoon. One of the members of the group asked if I'd like a foot massage. What better, I thought. So he whips out his oil and goes to down. I laid back and stared up at the sky, through the branches of that beautiful tree and just started daydreaming. Every now and then I'd contribute to the conversation. He really was good, I felt so blissful and relaxed. Next thing I know, he's licking my toes. I sat up and before I could say a word, he said "Relax, its edible oil". I was worried about dirt, the smell, all kinds of things, but he obviously wasnt. And it DID feel ever so interesting. He must have nibbled and sucked for about 20 minutes before the campus raving lunatic, some dude claiming to be a Jesuit priest, came walking by. He stopped, and saw my toes being sucked, my blissful grin, heard my giggles and moans, and started preachin' about the second coming and "those heathen, wanton pagans" I think I moaned in response. I couldnt do much else. I had to go home and change my panties. And this was from a guy who I had no sexual attraction for, no relationship with.... other than friendship. Bless his heart for opening my eyes. I was really quite stunned at my response. After that I started adding foot play into my own repertoire and found that I enjoyed the giving almost

as much as recieving. It really was in his approach. He was confidant, to me he almost seemd a wee bit dominant, but I was pretty young and naive. When I want to worship Master's feet, <Masters like this too!!> I will sometimes soak them, give him a pedicure, a massage, then worship. I do have to be careful not to tickle, though. Pity. Tickle play is SO erotic!!!.

(in reply to GoddessDustyGold)

Post #: 16

RE: Toe the line - 11/1/2005 1:39:58 AM

Sardaxia

Posts: 54
Joined: 10/22/2005
Status: offline

Thankyou GoddessDustyGold, KCMOLucky & cinnfulhussy,

Please forgive my ignorance, the replies on this thread are a learning experience for me & I'm pretty naive to what is right and wrong here. I'm slowly being educated .. this is a great forum! My partner has tonnes of high heel shoes (I admit I buy them for her) but does not wear them hardly at all so I guess I get a bit 'needy' quite a lot.

(in reply to cinnfulhussy)

Post #: 17

RE: Toe the line - 11/1/2005 8:06:32 AM

cinnfulhussy

Posts: 135
Joined: 1/30/2005
Status: offline

If you keep buying them for her, and she doesn't wear them, perhaps shes feeling too pressured or objectified? Not all women like objectification ;). If she's feeling that its all about you, she might never come around. Have you discussed this with her?

(in reply to Sardaxia)

Post #: 18

RE: Toe the line - 11/1/2005 8:59:19 AM

WalterRego

Posts: 276
Joined: 12/28/2004
Status: offline

quote:

Good point but that was just a flippant remark about how my fetish is shoes/boots rather than bare feet

I think that this statement is the root of the problem with You and this woman. She may very likely be viewing this as a fetish on your part, one that could just as easily be satisfied with any pair of feet, not just hers.

You started this thread asking if many women like this act of male submission. What you are (seemingly) offering her is not your submission, but rather an opportunity to indulge your fetish. Indeed, by continuing to buy her shoes, you are almost insisting on on it. And she is subtly, perhaps, indicating that she is not excited by the prospect of just filling a role and a pair of shoes.

There's nothing intrinsically wrong with having a shoe fetish, and I suppose one could be a bare foot fetishist and be equally as oblivious to the rest of the woman attached to the foot. But if it is only the fetish you seek to have fulfilled, you will need to find a woman who is also into the fetish (for whatever she gets out of it) or perhaps a Pro, where we know what she gets out of it.

If it is submission with a heavy leaning to shoe fetish, then you will have to learn how to communicate to her that it is HER feet in shoes that turns you on.

< Message edited by WalterRego -- 11/1/2005 9:01:47 AM >

_____________________________

A person should not choose the form in which he wishes to perform the service, but he should perform it in any manner the opportunity affords. He should be like a vessel into which anything may be poured - wine, milk, or water.
-Abraham Joshua Heschel

(in reply to cinnfulhussy)

Post #: 19

RE: Toe the line - 11/1/2005 2:06:37 PM

Sardaxia

Posts: 54
Joined: 10/22/2005
Status: offline

Thats is all good advice and thankyou. (I did not start this thread by the way..) I'm lucky enough to be married to someone who listens & understands my kink but it just doesn't do anything for her. 99% of the time that is fine & it would only be a little (OK a lot of!!) icing on the cake of our relationship if she was more into it

WalterRego said :

quote:

What you are (seemingly) offering her is not your submission, but rather an opportunity to indulge your fetish.

That is right! I suppose I am. Thing is I won't submit although I'd like to, because my wife does not want to Dominate me. It would not work, just lead to frustration probably for both of us, certainly for me I know.

It's the same old story of the submissive husband with the vanilla wife. But are a great team, best friends & still lovers so I wouldn't give up my relationship for anything or anyone else. Certainly I would not ruin it for my perverted wants. We believe it's easier to discuss (like it or not) everything that we feel & that helps keep relationship strong.
Thanks again for advice people - now I shut up

< Message edited by Sardaxia -- 11/1/2005 2:14:31 PM >

(in reply to WalterRego)

Post #: 20

Page: [1] 2 next > >>

All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Ask a Mistress >> Toe the line

Page: [1] 2 next > >>

Jump to:

New Messages	No New Messages
Hot Topic w/ New Messages	Hot Topic w/o New Messages
Locked w/ New Messages	Locked w/o New Messages

Post New Thread

Reply to Message

Post New Poll

Submit Vote

Delete My Own Post

Delete My Own Thread

Rate Posts

Collarchat.com © 2025

Terms of Service

0.094