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Masters additude turning very cruel - 5/22/2008 10:51:58 AM   
slave4Master44


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Status: offline 		Ihad a Master whomi adored for almost 2  yrs, I was loyal obiedent, studied positions did rituals, etc and raising  three children at my home. We didnt live together.  He allof a sudden become  extremely obsessive, accusatory, had to call every 1/2 hr , answer phone on third ring. or i was cheating.  I had to leave him he became nasty,  on and off, he says a slave tolerates all and I had no right toleave regardless...I should just always tolerate???  i felt as if i was nervous all the time and walking on eggshells?  He was attached as am i...Was he right ??? saying i cant and shouldnt ask to be released. I loved him and never cheated,
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RE: Masters additude turning very cruel - 5/22/2008 10:54:30 AM   
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Status: offline 		pffftttt...do you want to serve someone with serious mental issues? (or at the very least, someone who hasn't matured?)

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RE: Masters additude turning very cruel - 5/22/2008 10:55:11 AM   
Lynnxz


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RE: Masters additude turning very cruel - 5/22/2008 11:02:11 AM   
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RE: Masters additude turning very cruel - 5/22/2008 12:12:25 PM   
akisha


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Status: offline 		Step one. engage your own common sense and thought process.

Step two. Read what you wrote and answer your own question.

Step three. Pull head out of ass and do what you feel is best for you and your children.

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RE: Masters additude turning very cruel - 5/22/2008 12:33:34 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lynnxz
Edited out because I can't take clueless submissives anymore. -.-


  painful isnt it!! 

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RE: Masters additude turning very cruel - 5/22/2008 12:50:16 PM   
GreyWulfen


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Status: offline 		Remove the D/s from this.. and you have a classic abusive situation

add it in.. and you have a classic abusive situation.

Unless there is a medical reason for the sudden personality shift... its a bad situation.
If his entire personality has changed, not just to you, but to everyone and everything, it might be medical.
If not.. time for you to leave.

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RE: Masters additude turning very cruel - 5/22/2008 12:56:10 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: slave4Master44

Ihad a Master whomi adored for almost 2  yrs, I was loyal obiedent, studied positions did rituals, etc and raising  three children at my home. We didnt live together.  He allof a sudden become  extremely obsessive, accusatory, had to call every 1/2 hr , answer phone on third ring. or i was cheating.  I had to leave him he became nasty,  on and off, he says a slave tolerates all and I had no right toleave regardless...I should just always tolerate???  i felt as if i was nervous all the time and walking on eggshells?  He was attached as am i...Was he right ??? saying i cant and shouldnt ask to be released. I loved him and never cheated,


A man in control of himself has no need to continuously call his property or even accuse them of cheating. That is guilt. He would be doing something wrong (in his mind) that made him feel guilty and thus you got the negative energy. I've seen that happen multiple times and it isn't just in the lifestyle. In either case, why question the actions as you've already left him. A slave does indeed have the right to leave at any time, slavery is a consensual practice (for most unless you're into the whole kidnap a woman and chain her up gig, which to me sounds like fun until you're caught!)

Move on.

< Message edited by Saffleur -- 5/22/2008 1:03:25 PM >

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RE: Masters additude turning very cruel - 5/22/2008 1:15:27 PM   
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Status: offline 		I'm convinced some people are drawn to this lifestyle, thinking they will find some easy slave girl that will put and deal with their bullshit (dysfunctional behaviors).

In all honestly, you need to understand the lifestyle a little more, before agreeing to become somebody's NO LIMIT TPE slave girl.   You Need to Pick and have a Master that you can become a reflection of.

As a Human being living in the US, you have every right to excerise your legal right to tell him to Go fuck off!  This is reality!

BDSM relationships with Consent, and at any point in time, you can invoke your right as a Human Citizen of the US or whatever country you friggen Live in!


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RE: Masters additude turning very cruel - 5/22/2008 1:33:56 PM   
Owner4SexSlave


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Status: offline 		This thread kind of reminds me of another thread, around 6 monthes ago or so.

Where the slave was having issues with the Master wanting to punish her by fucking her with barb wire.

 

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RE: Masters additude turning very cruel - 5/22/2008 1:37:33 PM   
OmegaG


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Status: offline 		eww, I remember that one-- that was an on-line thing as she was in the states and he was overseas.

How people can put someone else so high above them that they will endanger their own health to please that person is beyond me, but battered women's shelters are full of women who think this way.  So are the cemetaries.

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RE: Masters additude turning very cruel - 5/22/2008 2:05:13 PM   
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Status: offline 		Have to agree with everybody and today, I had a lousy day with being rejected by a potential dom but this makes me feel good and puts everything in perspective. 

Although dominance is control, you are better off to be without this type of individual.  For someone is not mature that you are busy with raising three children, along with having other routine, every day things to do on a daily basis, he does not deserve you. 

Block, delete and ignore.  I would never allow myself to be placed in that situation with anybody.  So tell Mr. Clueless dom to seek psychiatric help and to leave you alone!

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RE: Masters additude turning very cruel - 5/22/2008 8:47:27 PM   
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Status: offline 		Very weird for you guys to be together for a significant period of time and THEN snap.  I'd say either mental imbalance, some other life external change, or he's self-sabotaging the relationship for some reason.

No matter what the reason though, if he can't be reasonable and shift things in a productive manner, it's not going to work.

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RE: Masters additude turning very cruel - 5/22/2008 9:30:55 PM   
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Status: offline 		Without knowing any details I would be concerned about things like his testosterone level. If its disappeared he is going threw the male version of a bad period.

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RE: Masters additude turning very cruel - 5/22/2008 9:31:40 PM   
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Status: offline 		There could be 8 million reasons why he flipped.   As with just about all the replies so far, perhaps you should determine if there is a constructive solution or just get out.

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RE: Masters additude turning very cruel - 5/23/2008 5:59:59 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: kinkypuppy2

Without knowing any details I would be concerned about things like his testosterone level. If its disappeared he is going threw the male version of a bad period.


Good point!
This is exactly what happened to my ex (before he became my ex)! It was like dr jeckell and mr hyde!
There are alot of muscle building supplements that increase testosterone production and/or contain derivatives of it and guys don't realize how aggressive it makes them!

< Message edited by dawntreader -- 5/23/2008 6:01:20 AM >

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RE: Masters additude turning very cruel - 5/23/2008 8:28:38 AM   
slave4Master44


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Status: offline 		is it necessary to reply with a nasty additude... how sad, im far from stupid, but i loved him....

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RE: Masters additude turning very cruel - 5/23/2008 8:31:15 AM   
slave4Master44


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Status: offline 		akisha....wow  ur a nasty person..im far from stupid  so dont judge me....lookin the  mirror..ever beeniin love before  or are u a dom too

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RE: Masters additude turning very cruel - 5/23/2008 10:34:33 AM   
sambamanslilgirl


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lynnxz

Edited out because I can't take clueless submissives anymore. -.-


i'll say it for you.

OP, BDSM doesn't translate checking your bains at the door. you have children to be concerned about not some verbally abusive wannabe with a childish temper tantrum. there are only two simple choices - either live walking on eggshells with this creep or dump him.

good luck...


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RE: Masters additude turning very cruel - 5/23/2008 12:45:53 PM   
akisha


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quote:

ORIGINAL: slave4Master44

akisha....wow  ur a nasty person..im far from stupid  so dont judge me....lookin the  mirror..ever beeniin love before  or are u a dom too


Wow sorry

Didn't reallize you were just here as a drama troll. So Sorry, my fault, I forgot there were alot of you around this time of year

As for the "far from stupid comment" you might just want to go and review your grade 2 spelling manual


I look in the mirror every day and always smile at what I see looking back

Ofcourse I have been in love before. Hell I don't live locked in my mothers basement for cripes sake geez.  I happen to be delightfully in love now. But if he ever did anything to jeapordize myself and my lil bit I'd kick his ass to the curb so fast his head would spin.

Be Well  

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