DominantJenny
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I posted an intro a few weeks ago, but then I ended up jumping into the forums with both feet, and I feel like I'd like to do another one.
Like the handle says, I'm Jenny and I'm a dominant person. If you view my profile, you'll see that I'm bisexual and hoping to have my cake and eat it, too, by looking for a long-term, part-time relationship with a woman to complement the full-time, long term relationship I already have with a man. That man was vanilla till I came out to him and he very bravely did not run away and instead agreed to see if we could fit D/s and S/M into our lives. Years and years of dealing with socialization issues followed, but, fortunately, I'd chosen well, and he, today and for several years, is both my submissive/slave and a masochist. In all, I've been practicing D/s and S/M live and in person, though only with the one person, for about 12 years now. I was, in the early days, very active in an online community as well, including having online and LDR relationships of varying length and quality. I haven't been involved with someone (beyond "getting to know you" periods that didn't work out) for many, many years now.
I moved away from a BDSM focused online community and put my kinks behind a door that I only let friends I like and trust through. I spend most of my time and energy with a social circle I built using Livejoural. But after enough years of not conversing regularly about kink-related topics, I started to feel the urge again. I looked in a few places before finding CollarMe, where I decided I liked it enough to stick around for a while.
I'm an introvert, and communicating in writing is easier for me than verbal communication, so the internet is very much my friend. I don't WANT a bunch of people local to me that I have to, you know, see all the time and stuff. I like my space.
I'm currently 7 months pregnant with our second child (we have an almost 3-year-old as well), and after he is born, my involvement level will probably drop, so I've kind of been getting in as much involvement as I can while I can, trying to get it all out of my system for a while. That said, I'm flat out a talker/thinker and even when I don't have time, I tend to somehow find time.
I'm way over to the left of the opinion/political scale and am even going to far as to immigrate to Canada, which has a "lefter" middle than the States. I'm a realistic optimist (pessimists will say there's no such thing, but they'd be wrong), a person who goes out of her way to be kind and helpful...but without a submissive bone in her body. I hate conflict, but love discussion. I'm sensitive and emotional, but nevertheless have a deep appreciation of logic and reason. I believe it's all about balance.
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