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suggestions with stripping?? - 10/22/2005 11:18:21 PM

nycpure

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i would love to strip for Sir, i know He would love it, but how to do it without seeming too agressive or too shy? i just find it very hard to have control over my own body like that when i'm in His presence. any advice would really be appreciated. thank you.

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RE: suggestions with stripping?? - 10/23/2005 1:18:05 AM

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there are web sites if you google, with strip/belly/lap dancing classes. This is where id like to head.

Sir once asked me if id like to go to the strippers with him, and see how its done properly

So now i feel im a bit against the clock. So ill be watching this thread. Feeling self concious is a killer of the motivation for me.

Good luck,
im going to attempt a dummy run tonight. Ill see how far i can take it. Ive chickened completely on a previous attempt.

Gotta love them quiet nights in.

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RE: suggestions with stripping?? - 10/23/2005 2:57:10 AM

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Don't worry too much about being to agressive - as long as you are not 'forcing' yourself onto him you will be fine.

Take it slowly, watch his reaction and adjust your strip accordingly!

I'd also suggest adding in some sort of tease (nipple tassles or similar), that way when he *THINKS* he will see the good stuff there is that extra element of tease.

Relax, move with the music and enjoy yourself.

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RE: suggestions with stripping?? - 10/23/2005 6:18:12 AM

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fix him a wonderful supper of his favorite food...
put some blues on the stereo, light some candles,

after dinner bring him 2 fingers neat(or whatever).............

slowly start moving to the music, as you capture his attention, take the clothes off ...w/ the beat to the music and
wear plenty of sexy underthings to gently toss at him,

and always appear confident and sexy even if you have the worst case of butterflies in your belly.

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RE: suggestions with stripping?? - 10/23/2005 9:32:10 AM

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Check the net there is a "workout" video called strip aerobics that takes you through the basics. To see if it's something he's at all interested in I'd see to his needs for the evening then turn on your "workout" & follow along. Something tells me he'll find the remote & ask for a private show.

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RE: suggestions with stripping?? - 10/23/2005 11:46:10 AM

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Do a net search on google.com and you'll find a lot. I searched for learn to strip. Hope these help.

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RE: suggestions with stripping?? - 10/23/2005 12:39:09 PM

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find something that you like to listen to with a good beat with bits that will allow you to move allitle faster and slower and vary your moves and make it intresting does your sir like breasts or asses more if he likes asses use moves that display it as well as the tease this drives men wildstradal him and refuse to allow him to touch you if he'll allow it cause i know some doms have an your mine and if i want to i'll touch you kinda mind set but being so close to the girl you want and not being able to touch he is maddening for a guy

a good song is voodoo by godsmack

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RE: suggestions with stripping?? - 10/23/2005 12:54:49 PM

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quote:

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a good song is voodoo by godsmack

Ohhh, that is a good song. I love listening to that one.

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RE: suggestions with stripping?? - 10/23/2005 3:01:03 PM

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If you are so Paranoid about stripping, then try the reversal for your Master....Instead of taking clothes off...walk out naked and then begin putting them on...one garment at a time.

A sock....then another....panites...then a bra....a blouse...then a skirt....before you know it ...you will be all dressed up and him aroused, ready to strip you! Trust me!

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RE: suggestions with stripping?? - 10/23/2005 4:15:11 PM

kinkiminx

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Keep it flowing and use lots of hips circles and body waves.. run your hands over your body in the way that he might want to touch you and if you don't want to come across as too agressive then stick to keeping it "cute and sexy" with the tease element still in there with a more "i'm being naughty by teasing you" attitude rather than a "you can't have it yet" one. Floorwork helps you get down below his level so you're still coming across as sub.. get really really close and try to keep everything flowing... as for moves DrkAngl put some good links in... look for videos put up by strip club websites too, and the best idea, if you're up for it is to go and watch some strippers dancing in a club!
If you're naturally sub, you probably won't come across as aggressive anway, but don't be shy becuase the more you let go and enjoy yourself the more he'll probably like it.
If you want to tease some more the nipple tassels sound like a good idea, and wear two pairs of knickers!
Have fun!

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RE: suggestions with stripping?? - 10/25/2005 8:07:31 AM

harleygirl72

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ORIGINAL: nycpure

i would love to strip for Sir, i know He would love it, but how to do it without seeming too aggressive or too shy?

If he is asking or demanding there is no reason to feel shy or aggressive. What type of music do you like? Do you like to dance at all? I use to work in a Gentleman's club and envied the confidence the dancers had to do what they did. You are not dancing for a stranger, but for your Sir. Find music you like and dance sexy to it. Be you and don't worry about the clothes coming off, just feel the music. Dance, let him come to you or tell you to come to him. You aren't being aggressive. Most guys like shy so don't let that bother you. If he hasn't asked or demanded and you would like to surprise him, go for it girl. Do you know what time he would normally be there? Just start out dancing and let him catch you stripping to the beat. Nothing-aggressive there and let the shyness work for you.

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RE: suggestions with stripping?? - 10/25/2005 10:58:39 AM

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All I can add to the above; excellent advice, is stay away from the World Series

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RE: suggestions with stripping?? - 10/26/2005 3:57:27 PM

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I really encourage you to sign up for some belly dance classes. I know they arent "strip" classes, but belly dance is amazing for geting you in touch with your body and helping you learn to embrace your sensuality.

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RE: suggestions with stripping?? - 10/26/2005 4:19:14 PM

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I really encourage you to sign up for some belly dance classes.

I hate them naked beer bellies dancing at the football games with the name of the team on them...yukky....NO, NO, NO<

Just get drunk and strip...we've been doing it for centuries now, thanks to the Romans!

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RE: suggestions with stripping?? - 10/27/2005 3:46:14 PM

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Fastlane,
that is a wonderful idea i never thought about doing it backwards! That's great.

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RE: suggestions with stripping?? - 10/27/2005 5:00:54 PM

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If you decide to go the route of taking a class- i would like to also put in a good word for belly dance classes- alot of people have pre-conceived notions about the dance; it's history, etc.

I've taken classes on and off for a few years, and as a woman found it really empowering and very sensual.

All of the above seem like great ideas, not just for stripping, but for physical activity, feeling attractive, etc.

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RE: suggestions with stripping?? - 10/27/2005 5:09:53 PM

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ORIGINAL: cherrygrl

If you decide to go the route of taking a class- i would like to also put in a good word for belly dance classes- alot of people have pre-conceived notions about the dance; it's history, etc.

I've taken classes on and off for a few years, and as a woman found it really empowering and very sensual.

All of the above seem like great ideas, not just for stripping, but for physical activity, feeling attractive, etc.

i love your picture with the pink background! i agree on the belly dancing classes. they teach you a lot, are fun, and are all of the things you say.

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RE: suggestions with stripping?? - 10/27/2005 8:59:08 PM

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If you decide to go the route of taking a class- i would like to also put in a good word for belly dance classes- alot of people have pre-conceived notions about the dance; it's history, etc.

I loved my beladi (aka belly-dance) dance class. It was held at a local community centre, was cheap, and unlike the pole-dance and stripping classes so trendy right now, it's not aimed at women who are athletic and thin.

Beladi was actually an ancient form of dance/excercise performed only in the presence of other women and part of its intent was to teach young women how to strengthen the body for childbirth.

Its very mystery is part of what made it so erotic to males.

That being said, I'd still love a pole of my own. The little opportunity I've had to dance with one was sooo much fun!! ::grin::

Cin <~ now fantasizing about having a pole in a cage...

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RE: suggestions with stripping?? - 10/28/2005 10:31:53 PM

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Funny that this post should appear just at the time My Lord has asked me if I would dance for him and that it should be my first post in the forums.

The odd thing is I used to be an exotic dancer, way back when, but I am feeling rather shy about it. Maybe it was because when I was a pro. I had the stage, the lights and the pole as a barrier between me and the clientele. Whereas this is just between My Lord and myself. However, I will do it as we are on a quest to overcome my fears and he will not let me hide behind them anymore.

So to do so, and I offer this as advice to others as well. I am going to call up what it was in me that made it possible to dance in the first place. I felt powerful, sexy and exhilarated and I always had my favorite songs playing. Here in Vancouver, a strip show consisted of 3 or 4 songs, lasting about 20 mins. two songs were faster and two were slower, for the floor show.

Lots of eye contact is a must and in private, a little bit of "up close and personal" will go a long way. Some bump and grind, slowly removing your clothing, all will enhance the mood. And of course candles and good lighting will make it that much better for you both.

Just an example of what I would use for music. If you would like other suggestions I am happy to offer those as well as I do like all types of music but I prefer the heavier stuff...

Perfect Drug - Nine Inch Nails
Burn the Witch - Queens of the Stone Age
#1 Crush - Garbage
Edie (Ciao Baby) - The Cult

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RE: suggestions with stripping?? - 10/29/2005 6:15:20 PM

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Here in Vancouver,

Welcome to collarme from another Vancouverite...Glad to see you here!

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