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Does this happen to anyone else?... - 10/23/2005 5:04:09 AM

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I did not want to hijack the caning thread, but it got me thinking about this a bit more.
I love canes...they keep me in the here and now...which is exactly where i want to be. I do enjoy getting to space from time to time, but it's not where i need. I need to feel each delicious blow of a toy, i need to continually feel the pain. Here's the problem: I am one of those type of people that don't require a warm up, just start swingin'!. I have found out that over the years, whether it be my back or butt, the more strikes on them, the more numb i get. It's not like i don't FEEL the pain any longer, it just feels...well, numb. It's just not as intense as when He first started swinging. It has been some time since we have played...life is busy right now....but i wonder why it is after a bit into a scene that this happens?

Gawwdd i hope someone understands what i am typing, i am seriously caffeine defficient at the moment, so who knows how this will turn out *chucklez*

Happy Sunday y'all!!

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RE: Does this happen to anyone else?... - 10/23/2005 5:33:42 AM

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I think thats called pain management........lol

I suspect the nerves get tired of screaming, and can live with levels of pain that they couldn't before. Kinda like you wanna cum and they just roll over and go to sleep.

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RE: Does this happen to anyone else?... - 10/23/2005 9:26:44 AM

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Its true that the body does get used to pain, espically as we get older. I am the same way, I don't really need a warm up. Master has said on many occasions that He has never been with anyone who can take pain as well as I do. He says that He has hit me quite hard at times, and I don't remember feeling it. I think, at least for me, that because of injuries that I received 2 years ago has made me that way. I was in excurciating pain when I crushed my legs, but I found a way to channel it into something else. I hope this makes sense to someone here

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RE: Does this happen to anyone else?... - 10/23/2005 11:43:48 AM

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quote:

I think thats called pain management........lol

I suspect the nerves get tired of screaming, and can live with levels of pain that they couldn't before. Kinda like you wanna cum and they just roll over and go to sleep.

LOL

Ron

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Its true that the body does get used to pain, espically as we get older.

I absolutely refuse to be any older than i am now then. Think that will work? *grinz*
I don't want to get used to it dang it!!

Thanks for the replies....hope y'all have a great Sunday.

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RE: Does this happen to anyone else?... - 10/23/2005 2:35:27 PM

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free your mind and the rest will follow.....

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RE: Does this happen to anyone else?... - 10/23/2005 2:56:44 PM

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It gets harder and harder for me to reach ogasim too....why? My dick seems to get numb after fucking for a long time.

Some things are not as bad as they sound, so stop complaining!

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RE: Does this happen to anyone else?... - 10/23/2005 11:32:18 PM

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quote:

....but i wonder why it is after a bit into a scene that this happens?

It's your body's normal reaction to pain. If you've ever had any lasting type of pain you'll know that after a while it doesn't specifically go away, but you get used to it. The pain becomes at least psychologically less because you've become accustomed to the way it feels. The thing that helps me in scene is for master to vary his strokes. After working on my butt for a while he might switch to my back, or to my feet. By varying your strokes it will keep things feeling just as painful (i.e.- fun) as when you started.

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RE: Does this happen to anyone else?... - 10/24/2005 5:11:15 AM

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I have run into this problem with a few of my clients. Something that does help is to vary the size of cane being used. Some give quite a deep thuddy blow while other can be more "on the surface" and stingy. So, varying the sensation can help. Hope this helps.

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RE: Does this happen to anyone else?... - 10/24/2005 7:19:25 AM

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Not only do others experience it, there's a term for it- leather butt.

The solution most people talk about is either switching to new toys/sensations for awhile, let your body heal itself and work on another type of pain. Perhaps nerve pains or needles or something else. Then you can learn to enjoy those things and then return back to your initial pleasures.

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RE: Does this happen to anyone else?... - 10/24/2005 2:42:32 PM

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Thank you all for the replies. I knew that there had to be a reason for what i was feeling. Emerald, i had no idea THAT is what it was called though *chucklez*.... guess i learned something new today...yay!

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RE: Does this happen to anyone else?... - 10/25/2005 7:51:29 AM

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Hello There,
I'm just the opposite from you. When my skin starts to swell and get numb I love the spanking better at that point.
I enjoy the whipping or cane much better as it does not sting so bad then. With the numbing sensation comes the hot one. It actually is a good warm up then heavy impact play that I enjoy. I'm not into the sting so much so I like when the nerves go on vacation after about ten minutes.

I agree leather butt can cause your butt to go numb, but if I'm getting spanked hard it's not a leather butt numb. It's just over sensatized numb. If the numb feeling is still there the next day then I'd consider it may be leather butt.
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