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softbutchdom -> Dom or Domme? (5/22/2008 7:18:17 PM)
As a novice here I dont know which one is correct. I am a soft butch lesbian. I am definitely the dominant one in all things. So would I be a Dom or Domme? What is the difference? Any help would be appreciated

DiurnalVampire -> RE: Dom or Domme? (5/22/2008 7:21:09 PM)
The only difference is spelling, really. Dom is typically a man, Domme a woman, but there is no "rule". I refer to myself as a Dom as often as I do a Domme. I am just dominant, regardless of the tag.

GreedyTop -> RE: Dom or Domme? (5/22/2008 7:21:13 PM)
Whichever you prefer :) There's also Femdom (to distinguish you as a female, not to imply you're not butch *grin). Top is another..

faerytattoodgirl -> RE: Dom or Domme? (5/22/2008 7:29:39 PM)
quote: I am a soft butch lesbian. butch are usually Syr. (y instead of i due to being female born) but you are not likely male id'd. since you said "soft". so i would just use "dom" dom is universal to me... D/s = dom/sub

antipode -> RE: Dom or Domme? (5/22/2008 8:49:38 PM)
Yes

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Dom or Domme? (5/22/2008 8:59:52 PM)
Domme is a made up internet word that makes a lot of people cringe in despair. If you use it, know that it is pronounced exactly the same as "dom" Dom is a shortened form of dominant, so it applies no matter sex or gender.

GreedyTop -> RE: Dom or Domme? (5/22/2008 11:32:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross Domme is a made up internet word that makes a lot of people cringe in despair. If you use it, know that it is pronounced exactly the same as "dom" Dom is a shortened form of dominant, so it applies no matter sex or gender. thank you, LA.. I was thinking that, but was afraid I wouldnt be able to say it right LOL

IronBear -> RE: Dom or Domme? (5/23/2008 12:16:47 AM)
Forget those bloddy abreviations and use the full word DOMINANT!!! There, that settlkes your problem.. Next? Iron Bear Master of Bruin Cottage (A Victorian Lifestyle poly home) "I judge a Man by what I see him do and not by what others tell me he does." (Captain Sir Edward Pellew of the HMS Indefatigable to Midshipman Hornblower ~ C.S. Forrester)

GoddessTeaze -> RE: Dom or Domme? (5/23/2008 12:40:10 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: softbutchdom As a novice here I dont know which one is correct. I am a soft butch lesbian. I am definitely the dominant one in all things. So would I be a Dom or Domme? What is the difference? Any help would be appreciated Welcome to Cm, and welcome to forum softbutchdom, Nice to see such a friendly & helpfull people here :D It's which ever you prefer ! Have a great day. GoddezzT` ~ just know that dom means stupid in dutch [;)] ~

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