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HardToTame -> Slaves are Hotter? (5/24/2008 4:00:08 AM)

Is it just me, or generally speaking is there alot more physically stunning slaves out there than there is dommes?  Now, I know I'm going to get slammed on this by a bunch of ugly dommes far too secure in their looks telling me "It's not about looks and if you think it is you shouldn't be here you should just find a whore with a whip"
and all that jazz, but please note, I'm not talking very generally.  I know theres a bunch of butt ugly slaves out there aswell, but yeah...  I was looking at photos on this site and just thought to myself theres alot of pretty slaves out there.




Domin8tingUrDrmz -> RE: Slaves are Hotter? (5/24/2008 4:03:52 AM)

Beauty is subjective.  Your hot is someone else's butt ugly and vice versa.




christine1 -> RE: Slaves are Hotter? (5/24/2008 4:08:00 AM)

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MladyHathor -> RE: Slaves are Hotter? (5/24/2008 4:40:45 AM)

Congrats! Between this post and your profile, I am sure only the most beautiful Dominas will beat your door down. 




thetammyjo -> RE: Slaves are Hotter? (5/24/2008 4:55:32 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Domin8tingUrDrmz

Beauty is subjective. Your hot is someone else's butt ugly and vice versa.


This is very true.

I have never thought of myself as beautiful let alone pretty.

However my husband and my slave think I'm stunning and sexy and cute all at the same time. My husband has told me on several times that co-workers and friends who haven't been introduced to me but see me with him will ask him who that lovely redhead is or something along those lines.

I don't see it at all though I do admit I have wonderful hair and great eyes and always have, hope it stays so as my hair goes white too.

As to my body shape and size, other than what a professional nutricianist told me years ago, I have no idea what I should look like because I grew up in a household where I was assaulted for being too fat in the morning and by dinner that night I was told I was too skinny and needed to eat more. When I look in the mirror all I see is confusion.

When I'm in dom mode though I feel sexy and strong and powerful and I think that overrides almost everything else.

That was probably TMI.




HardToTame -> RE: Slaves are Hotter? (5/24/2008 5:24:25 AM)

God, trust the Dommes to get all narchy about this [:D]

Damn straight only the hottest will beat my door down.  I don't settle for second best. 

MladyHathor, if your reading my profile you have too much time on your hands.  Surely you could tell by the dickhead presented forth to you in my posts that my profile would  reveal the massive knob I truly am?  (And I mean that metaphorically, not literally)

DominatingUrDrmz, nah DERRRRRRRR.  Everyone knows that. But lets just say, theres certain, qualities that society holds in assosciation with the word 'Beauty'.  If your a guy, and you like chicks with side burns and mustaches, then, fuck, thats your fetish, go for it.  Personally, my definition of beauty is generally the same as what society deems beautiful... Whats the problem with that?  Because I think hot chicks are hot, suddenly I'm a passive consumer, a typical guy, a chauvanist (I think thats how you spell it) and all the rest right?  And all the feminists are going to get their arm pit hairs into a dread lock and start picketing outside my house because I wont kiss their hairy assholes? Bah who cares.   It's not the end of the world to coform to one of societies definitions.  Maybe society gets it right sometimes?  Maybe, if the majority likes it, its not THEM who has bad taste but you?  But fuck, if a hot chicks hot I'm gonna call her hot (in the most respectful of ways), be her slave or domme or no mans meat.   And the truth is, theres more hotter slaves than dommes, by what society measures as hot.  If you can't beat them, do us all a favour and join them [:D]




GoddessTeaze -> RE: Slaves are Hotter? (5/24/2008 5:31:15 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: HardToTame

Is it just me, or generally speaking is there alot more physically stunning slaves out there than there is dommes? 

And you think this attitude will be apriciated by any Dominant?

It's always a matter of taste & atraction, "one can't eat of a goldenplate " is a saying in dutch.
Just looks isn't it either young one..
(that's why it's so simple see?)

and now Wwe're talking,
where on earth is your pic?

GoddezzT`




HardToTame -> RE: Slaves are Hotter? (5/24/2008 5:43:51 AM)

My pic?  I refuse to share a picture openly because my career is very public.  I've been stalked over the internet and in real life with people taking photos of me I never knew existed and all the rest.  Privately, some people recieve it, and don't get me wrong, I'm the ugliest slave/sub what ever it is I am that you will most likely never see, but, I try to maintain myself a bit, to a standard, as I'm sure alot of dommes do, how ever, a domme would fix me up good and propper and maintain me to HER standards, where as, what, shes going to sit there and turn into a portrait of a cattles asshole just because she thinks she's so good because she has a slave worshipping her? 

Thats the line between reality and fantasy.  Some things are left for the bedroom, this to me is one of those things, therefor, if a domme isn't sexually appealing, I'm not going to offer what I have to her.  As vain, arrogant, ignorant, self centred and selfish as that sounds, bottom line is, if your going to judge me because of the level I choose to live this life, and because of who I choose to live it with and why, then, I'd have to wonder how you manage day to day. 

Theres nothing wrong with less attractive people.  I still respect them, if they gave me a command as a NORMAL person, in a NORMAL situation, I would still obey it, as I would a normal person.  Ie: If  we were working together and someone asked for a pen I wouldn't say 'No' just because I don't want to have sex with her.  .... (though if she asked like a bitch no matter how sexy or ugly she was she wouldn't be touching that damn pen)  but, do you understand what I'm saying? 

For those of us who see this as a sexual pass time, there has to be a level of sexual attraction, and it's only fair because we're allowed to like who ever and what ever we like just as you are, but, it appears to me, the number of attractive slaves (attractive as defined by tradioanally attractive, vanilla traits) greatly outweighs the number of attractive dommes.




MladyHathor -> RE: Slaves are Hotter? (5/24/2008 5:58:58 AM)

Then perhaps you should become a Dominant and then you can have them all?
 
As for reading your profile, I find it in poor taste to post to someone I have not read about--tsk tsk, do not equate manners with boredom--I did not write to you---nuff said about My valuable time.




HardToTame -> RE: Slaves are Hotter? (5/24/2008 6:03:03 AM)

stop being so bored.  You don't know me and my profile won't suddenly grant you some secret insight to me that will let you decode me, despite what alot of you may think. 

Anyways..  Dominant doesn't work for me.  I'm an asshole in reality so in the bedroom is where I get to fantasise about being a nice guy once in a while.  [:D]

No, dominating is just... Too easy in my books.  I've seen midgets hold power over giants, it's all, psychological...  I like a challenge.




phoenixinchains -> RE: Slaves are Hotter? (5/24/2008 6:06:38 AM)

[sm=popcorn.gif]
*watching the show while behind safety of cerial box fort*




DianeB -> RE: Slaves are Hotter? (5/24/2008 6:07:02 AM)

I love reading threads like this.....[:D]


Diane




MladyHathor -> RE: Slaves are Hotter? (5/24/2008 6:11:01 AM)

Do not mistake dominance for domineering, self confidence for arrogance and wisdom for buffoonery---lesson number one for grasshopper.




HardToTame -> RE: Slaves are Hotter? (5/24/2008 6:24:02 AM)

If a wise man kisses a ugly cows ass is he full of bullshit?






Domin8tingUrDrmz -> RE: Slaves are Hotter? (5/24/2008 6:24:12 AM)

"Personally, my definition of beauty is generally the same as what society deems beautiful... Whats the problem with that?  Because I think hot chicks are hot, suddenly I'm a passive consumer, a typical guy, a chauvanist (I think thats how you spell it) and all the rest right?  And all the feminists are going to get their arm pit hairs into a dread lock and start picketing outside my house because I wont kiss their hairy assholes? Bah who cares."  

Since this was in reply to me, I will state for the record, that I did not call you a chauvinist or any other such name.  You did that to yourself, and I won't correct you on your judgments of yourself, I'm sure you are correct.

"a domme would fix me up good and propper and maintain me to HER standards, where as, what, shes going to sit there and turn into a portrait of a cattles asshole just because she thinks she's so good because she has a slave worshipping her?"

Though this was in reply to GoddessTeaze, I will reply to it as well.  Some women, Dominant or submissive, are heavy.  Some men prefer that.  If it isn't your thing, so be it -  move on.  What is the point of berating them?  I am not stick figure thin, nor would I want to be as being underweight comes with it's own health risks.  I am not morbidly obese either.  I am comfortable in my skin, and I am confident in my appearance.  Often, that confidence and comfortability attracts more people than say the insecurities of some people who worry whether or not if they gain a pound or two are still attractive.  I have more than enough men telling me I am beautiful, whether or not it is by 'societies' standards or not, I don't really care.




HardToTame -> RE: Slaves are Hotter? (5/24/2008 6:36:27 AM)

Relax I know you didn't say anything insulting to me, I was just trying to portray the image I'm sure some pissed off chicks with whips are assuming of me right now [:D].  I'm sorry if I disrespected you personally.

By the way, I don't care if your beautiful or not.. As I said, I'm not going to think less of anyone because they're unn atractive, just, I'm not going to have sex with them [:D]




MladyHathor -> RE: Slaves are Hotter? (5/24/2008 6:36:51 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: HardToTame

If a wise man kisses a ugly cows ass is he full of bullshit?





No, he is full of cowshit, cows can't produce bull shit and bulls can't produce cowshit- ( keep your sexes straight)--and we need to get back on thread---you were talking about gorgeous slaves and ugly Dominas.




DominantJenny -> RE: Slaves are Hotter? (5/24/2008 6:37:59 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: HardToTame

Is it just me, or generally speaking is there alot more physically stunning slaves out there than there is dommes?  Now, I know I'm going to get slammed on this by a bunch of ugly dommes far too secure in their looks telling me "It's not about looks and if you think it is you shouldn't be here you should just find a whore with a whip"
and all that jazz, but please note, I'm not talking very generally.  I know theres a bunch of butt ugly slaves out there aswell, but yeah...  I was looking at photos on this site and just thought to myself theres alot of pretty slaves out there.


Alright, I'll give you an answer.
Submissive people are more likely to take more effort to conform to societal norms than dominant people. There you go.




JohnWarren -> RE: Slaves are Hotter? (5/24/2008 6:40:02 AM)

Just remember there is no guaranteed correlation between a person's looks and the picture they post.  You'd be on a lot more solid ground if you took part in some offline events and discovered what the community really looks like




HardToTame -> RE: Slaves are Hotter? (5/24/2008 6:48:37 AM)

so your telling me your actually a super model?

Sorry, I have no intention of revealing myself to the scene.  It's not THAT important to me.  Its a sexual pass time is all. 
I don't want to share my life with people involved, I just want to have sex with them and thats it...  Though not even really that.

For me, this is all a "if it happens it happens" kind of thing.  Theres alot more to life than having your ass paddled. 




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