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ElanSubdued -> RE: Cuckold (5/26/2008 2:14:53 PM)
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moki1984:
to me cucking falls into the same category as chastity... it very much so sets a slave into their place, establishes a great mindset of this is where you belong, and this is where the true men belong ie the bull. bull being the man that the cuckee would watch engaging in activities with the Dominant
I always find it interesting how different each group of kinky partners interprets things. For example, there was a thread a few weeks back asking whether receiving intercourse was an inherently submissive act. Some found it inherently submissive (due to the fact that the fuckee is opening their body to the person doing the penetrating), others found it very dominant (under the auspices that the person opening their body is getting what they want), and there was a large number of people who found it open to interpretation based on the negotiations, symbolism, and power exchange dynamics between the partners.
So, on to cuckolding. Myself, I don't put cuckolding into the same category as chastity at all. Likewise, as a submissive, I never consider myself anything other than a "real man". Were a bull brought in to "put me in my place", I'd probably laugh. And then I'd eat him for breakfast, medium rare of course.
Side note: apparently, for a submissive boy, I'm occasionally a capable of being a switchy bitch. Who would'a thunk it? :-)
More to the point, none of my Dominas would ever just bring in a bull because they know I'd consider this cheating. Now I'll admit, there is something extremely hot about the idea of watching my partner enjoy herself with someone else. But this is where, in my case, fantasy and reality collide and make for very poor bedfellows. I'm monogamous with room for a little flexibility. Thus, if a Domina and I ever did engage in a cuckolding type of scene, this would only happen after much negotiation and careful consideration of all parties physical and emotional safety, and enjoyment. Even then, I'm not sure if I'd want this to take place for fear of permanently damaging the sanctity of my relationship with my Domina. And yes, I'd be concerned about my Domina's feelings, but I'm equally concerned about my own. Envisioning someone else fucking my partner is one thing. Actually watching someone have sex with my partner is an entirely different thing and would likely bring on a slew of unexpected emotions (possibly good and possibly extremely damaging for either of us or both of us).
Elan.
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