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Cunninglinguist -> Facesitting anyone? (5/25/2008 5:30:06 AM)

I seem to be obsessed with finding a woman who loves to sit on my face.  I guess I am submissive, because I just can't see myself demanding any type of sex for me, but yet I yearn to lick a woman for hours all the time.

But the thing is, I am not realy into much pain at all, or other slavey-type things.  I like to think of myself as submissive, but maybe I am just a fetishist?  I see most submissive types here are into more abuse.  Is it possible to just be an oral slave?




Prinsexx -> RE: Facesitting anyone? (5/25/2008 5:41:36 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Cunninglinguist

I seem to be obsessed with finding a woman who loves to sit on my face.  I guess I am submissive, because I just can't see myself demanding any type of sex for me, but yet I yearn to lick a woman for hours all the time.

But the thing is, I am not realy into much pain at all, or other slavey-type things.  I like to think of myself as submissive, but maybe I am just a fetishist?  I see most submissive types here are into more abuse.  Is it possible to just be an oral slave?


It's possible to just be an ..................................
You fill in the blamk.
If that's what you are and you know what you are then rejoice!




CruelDesires -> RE: Facesitting anyone? (5/25/2008 5:47:23 AM)

Its called "Queening". Do a search on it. Here are two threads that talk about it.


definition of queening

Perfect Queening

CD





Prinsexx -> RE: Facesitting anyone? (5/25/2008 6:30:02 AM)

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ORIGINAL: CruelDesires


definition of queening

CD



As to the definition above. I have experienced this act both in my role as a dominant partner to a woman and sat on her face.....and as a submissive to a male partner and been instructed to queen him. (Anf btw when he realised that as a Dom he could instruct me to top him it seemed like the gates of heaven had opened....so he said).
I have just had a discussion with a friend who is a dominant male whosounded tired of being the one 'giving' to a submissive. He loved being sat on during his so-called vanilla sex life. Well if he's the dominant why would he have to five up anything?
Queening is an act independent of  the dynamic.





slaveluci -> RE: Facesitting anyone? (5/25/2008 7:35:27 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Cunninglinguist
....yet I yearn to lick a woman for hours all the time

I have that same problem[8D].  Find the right woman and you'll never be happier[:)].
quote:

Is it possible to just be an oral slave?

Why not?  Anything's possible, pretty much.  Go for what you want.  Forget about others' labels and expectations and just have fun...............luci 




subexploring -> RE: Facesitting anyone? (5/25/2008 7:42:49 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Prinsexx

As to the definition above. I have experienced this act both in my role as a dominant partner to a woman and sat on her face.....and as a submissive to a male partner and been instructed to queen him. (Anf btw when he realised that as a Dom he could instruct me to top him it seemed like the gates of heaven had opened....so he said).



LOL. You really have to wonder how many male doms are actually switches or subs who are just desparately trying to please all those sub women out there. I run across submissive women all the time when I'm dating vanilla.




lronitulstahp -> RE: Facesitting anyone? (5/25/2008 7:51:14 AM)

umm...as a submissive women who enjoys occasional cunnilingus...i see no problem with this...also OP, please note that i live in Fl...so if you ever feel hungry....anytime...just sayin'...[;)]

disclaimer:folks some of my posts are based in humor...i am not as slutty as i portray myself to be on these forums, and have not blown nearly enough of the CM guys that i would like to blow......sadly.  Anyone willing to correct this situation...please send me cmail with cock pics...."on your knees slut" commands and your secret cell phone #...you know the one your wife doesn't know about....




cjan -> RE: Facesitting anyone? (5/25/2008 7:57:21 AM)

Tulip, you know where I live and have my secret cell phone #. If, on ocassion, you feel the need...come on over and gimme some o' that yummy brown suga'... Just sayin'2...Not that you are as slutty as you seem or anything. I promise to still respect you in the morning and wave goodbye as you stumble to your car with that dreamy vacant look in your eyes.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Facesitting anyone? (5/25/2008 8:00:50 AM)

Okies, I haven't finished my coffee yet, and my hives are semi-annoying, so I will leap in and say HEY! DUDE!  Get a freaking girlfriend!  Since when does sex have to have diddlysquattyPOOP to do with being dominant or submissive?  A person who likes and accepts you should be willing to do things that please you both. 




lronitulstahp -> RE: Facesitting anyone? (5/25/2008 8:39:52 AM)

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ORIGINAL: cjan

Tulip, you know where I live and have my secret cell phone #. If, on ocassion, you feel the need...come on over and gimme some o' that yummy brown suga'... Just sayin'2...Not that you are as slutty as you seem or anything. I promise to still respect you in the morning and wave goodbye as you stumble to your car with that dreamy vacant look in your eyes.

You are a prince among men.[8|]  Let me warn you...i can become addicting.  Are you on any meds for your heart or anything?  my vagina might give you angina...yes it's THAT good!!!!![:D]




cjan -> RE: Facesitting anyone? (5/25/2008 8:46:17 AM)

*sings*
Nuthin' could be fina' than to suck on yo' vagina in da mooooanin"...etc.

Don't worry about my heart, darlin', I have the heart of a young lad...it's sitting in a jar on my desk right here. (Ok, I stole that from Steven King )




TysGalilah -> RE: Facesitting anyone? (5/25/2008 8:54:10 AM)

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ORIGINAL: lronitulstahp

quote:

ORIGINAL: cjan

Tulip, you know where I live and have my secret cell phone #. If, on ocassion, you feel the need...come on over and gimme some o' that yummy brown suga'... Just sayin'2...Not that you are as slutty as you seem or anything. I promise to still respect you in the morning and wave goodbye as you stumble to your car with that dreamy vacant look in your eyes.

You are a prince among men.[8|]  Let me warn you...i can become addicting.  Are you on any meds for your heart or anything?  my vagina might give you angina...yes it's THAT good!!!!![:D]


{my vagina might give you angina...}

[sm=biggrin.gif]
Priceless!




Floggings4You -> RE: Facesitting anyone? (5/25/2008 9:03:49 AM)

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ORIGINAL: subexploring]

LOL. You really have to wonder how many male doms are actually switches or subs who are just desparately trying to please all those sub women out there. I run across submissive women all the time when I'm dating vanilla.


I know you used the word 'desperately', but do you really believe that pleasing O/one's partner (whether or not one is trying 'desperately' to please) is not (and perhaps, you believe that it cannot ever be) a Dominant act? 





Prinsexx -> RE: Facesitting anyone? (5/25/2008 9:22:29 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: lronitulstahp

umm...as a submissive women who enjoys occasional cunnilingus...i see no problem with this...also OP, please note that i live in Fl...so if you ever feel hungry....anytime...just sayin'...[;)]

disclaimer:folks some of my posts are based in humor...i am not as slutty as i portray myself to be on these forums, and have not blown nearly enough of the CM guys that i would like to blow......sadly.  Anyone willing to correct this situation...please send me cmail with cock pics...."on your knees slut" commands and your secret cell phone #...you know the one your wife doesn't know about....

oh fuck.....I love your disclaimer (even though i had to ctrl forward scroll to read it}.....do yo own the copyrights?? or are you twuelly too subby to own anything [:D]




Prinsexx -> RE: Facesitting anyone? (5/25/2008 9:28:00 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Floggings4You

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ORIGINAL: subexploring]

LOL. You really have to wonder how many male doms are actually switches or subs who are just desparately trying to please all those sub women out there. I run across submissive women all the time when I'm dating vanilla.


I know you used the word 'desperately', but do you really believe that pleasing O/one's partner (whether or not one is trying 'desperately' to please) is not (and perhaps, you believe that it cannot ever be) a Dominant act? 



I agree. [sm=applause.gif] Send me a desperate Dom anyday and if he's too tired of being in control he doesn't even have to say sit on my face. He can just give me that certain look......




dragon2760 -> RE: Facesitting anyone? (5/25/2008 1:12:31 PM)

For me it's not just about facesitting, although that is fun, i just love to giving oral sex to a female.  [sm=bust.gif]




lronitulstahp -> RE: Facesitting anyone? (5/25/2008 1:21:17 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Prinsexx

quote:

ORIGINAL: lronitulstahp

umm...as a submissive women who enjoys occasional cunnilingus...i see no problem with this...also OP, please note that i live in Fl...so if you ever feel hungry....anytime...just sayin'...[;)]

disclaimer:folks some of my posts are based in humor...i am not as slutty as i portray myself to be on these forums, and have not blown nearly enough of the CM guys that i would like to blow......sadly.  Anyone willing to correct this situation...please send me cmail with cock pics...."on your knees slut" commands and your secret cell phone #...you know the one your wife doesn't know about....

oh fuck.....I love your disclaimer (even though i had to ctrl forward scroll to read it}.....do yo own the copyrights?? or are you twuelly too subby to own anything [:D]
we haven't met, have we??? LOL
~tulip©




AAkasha -> RE: Facesitting anyone? (5/25/2008 2:19:05 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Cunninglinguist

I seem to be obsessed with finding a woman who loves to sit on my face.  I guess I am submissive, because I just can't see myself demanding any type of sex for me, but yet I yearn to lick a woman for hours all the time.

But the thing is, I am not realy into much pain at all, or other slavey-type things.  I like to think of myself as submissive, but maybe I am just a fetishist?  I see most submissive types here are into more abuse.  Is it possible to just be an oral slave?



I am curious if any men ever thing having such a high, selfless kind of sex drive could ever become a problem for a woman. Is the OP basically an ideal man - all he wants to do is worship pussy, and really does not want any sexual attention himself?  This has got to be female nirvana right - is this the ideal man?

Submissive men - or men, in general - do you think women find the the attitude in the OP to be ideal?

Akasha




PsyVamp -> RE: Facesitting anyone? (5/25/2008 4:12:18 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: AAkasha

quote:

ORIGINAL: Cunninglinguist

I seem to be obsessed with finding a woman who loves to sit on my face.  I guess I am submissive, because I just can't see myself demanding any type of sex for me, but yet I yearn to lick a woman for hours all the time.

But the thing is, I am not realy into much pain at all, or other slavey-type things.  I like to think of myself as submissive, but maybe I am just a fetishist?  I see most submissive types here are into more abuse.  Is it possible to just be an oral slave?



Is the OP basically an ideal man - all he wants to do is worship pussy, and really does not want any sexual attention himself?  This has got to be female nirvana right - is this the ideal man?

Akasha



My 2 cents?   It's only good if he's good at it...otherwise it's just boring and a waste of my time. 
Lady Jag




cjan -> RE: Facesitting anyone? (5/25/2008 4:14:53 PM)

Aakasha, I'm sure there are as many opinions on your question as there are women and men, for that matter.

For me, "worshipping" pussy is never totally selfless, in fact noy selfless at all. Even though my  focus is primarily on giving my partner all the pleasure possible, I share in that pleasure as well. In fact, it delights me and turns me on completely. It's very satisfying for me too

Put the shoe on the other foot, as it were. Don't you totally delight in the pleasure that you give your man ? And, btw, I don't think that this attitude has anything to do with being dominant or submissive, although I know, from reading threads and posts, that many here would disagree with me on that point. I don't really care about that. I do what pleases me and my partner.




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