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MsMillgrove -> RE: how to find a mistress in real life (6/1/2008 12:43:15 AM)
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Well, I am a real life mistress who signed up on CM last week, with a specific goal in mind. By using my real age (60) and no photo, I thought I would limit the number of replies. Good thing I didn't use a photo because the mailbox is jammed with male replies. Sadly, not one female responded. (heard from some lovely sissies or tvs)
So far I think I have sent a polite reply to each. But the muddling with tools unfamliar to me has resulted in deleting some I think I wanted to consider and .. oh well.. botton line: confusion.
I will eventually meet some of the best candidates, I will select a few to accompany me to local events after we get acquainted, meet for coffee etc. Maybe one or two will turn out to be special. I will also make a few friends in other parts of US or world.
That's my plan. I usually meet the goals I set for myself. Maybe takes awhile, but I get where I want to go.
Only reason for this post: to show there must be 'hope' for some who come to meet a real person here.
Other posters already mentioned good ideas. Piggy backing on them: There is a fine line between being pushy and keeping yourself in the eye of someone you think you'd like to know better here. I plan to reward those who
follow my simple instructions, ie " would you write to me tomorrow?" If they do that.. then I know they are trained or worthy of training. One boy sends very short pleasant messages each day. He's on the keeper list. Others take the time to read what I replied and to answer my questions. Those who wrote me long fantasies of what they want/need as a conversation "opener" or who demanded immediate attention or insisted on yahoo chat now or meet me tomorrow.. went right out the window.
I am not a pro-domme tho I have friends who are pro and have been super with advice. I don't ask for anything, don't expect it and am delighted, if something small and personal is presented by a person I've known awhile. If this is "tribute" so be it. I receive and give little suprises to friends and family all the time--seems rather normal to me.
Hope this helps.
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