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experienced newbie - 5/25/2008 2:53:41 PM

lordax

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Joined: 4/25/2004
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Hello all,

first, for those who may think it's about time I introduce myself since I joigned in 2004, I should explain that I never been active then because I met someone local on another site. Since I've met the one who has been my slave in R/L for almost 3 years, and my online life went down to zero...
A few month ago, I have opened her collar, and wished her good luck... And now, here I am, back on the market, if I could say so!

I've never been really involved into the « scene » before, partially because here in France there's not a lot of events, and the BDSM French online scene, is, to say the least, far behind the English speaking one...
But mostly, I started my journey through BDSM a little more than 20 years ago, when there was no such thing as the internet...

We were watching that movie 9 ½ weeks with my girlfriend, and while discussing it afterward, we just said: Hey, looks like fun, let's try some of those games! So we played, liked it, played some more, loved it, and with the time the games became hotter, then harder, then deeper... I guess a lot of you know how addictive this lifestyle can be... We finally parted a few years later as she wanted the games to remains inside the bedroom while I felt the need to widen my dominance... From then on I focused more on the lifestyle, without letting the fun, the sex, nor the kinks aside... There have been a few short term « adventures » since, and two 24/7 LTR with marvelous girls who deserve proudly to have been entitled as Slave.

So, here I am now, a newbie to this internet scene, maybe not so aware of all the rules, definitions, and protocols that seems to be the norm around here, maybe different cause I've not been taught nor cautioned by established Masters or Mistresses, but open to share my first hand experiences and slowly matured reflexions...