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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

You are welcome!

My dad (RIP) was doctor with a PHD in pysch and my girlfriend is a PHD in industrial pysch and teaches at a university.  I don’t even think either of them could help you “understand a new sub in the future” with the information you posted in the OP of your other thread muchless anyone here at CollarMe.
 
There are 3 “submissive type test” links in my profile.  But I didn’t post any of them them in your other thread because they are not true pysch evaluations and will do nothing to help you “understand a new sub in the future.”  The type of thing you are looking for is used by HR for employment position evaluation.  I doubt if any of them are geared to rate submissiveness or help you “understand a new sub.” 
 
Even if a submissiveness insight test existed, it would not help with “a new sub” because they don’t know who they are yet and are still exploring.  By the time “a new sub” took such an intensive and introspective test, the self discovers made would likely change their perspectives and who they were… the results would be tainted by opening their mind to ask effective questions.  At best you could learn who they were before the test started. 

So, “a new sub” is affected by her environment which is the Dom’s job to provide.  You fertilize her mind, make her feel secure to explore and shape her growth with that exploration.  She becomes a collective of her past and what you now present to her.  Hence the term “molding a submissive.” 

A Dom that isn’t a “want=a-be” will even take the bull by the horns and do the work and research.   A Dom that isn’t a “want=a-be” wouldn’t expect a forum to hand out a non existent answer on a silver platter and then whine and stamp his little Domly feat in a THANKS thread when he discovers it doesn’t exist. 
 
And now you have the answer you wanted and it is served to you on the silver platter you requested.  So get off your lazy ass and read the books in this -=BDSM Book List=-  thread if you are in the least bit serious about trying to understand the lifestyle, another person or the role of a Dominant. 
 
My last advice is not to bite the hand that feeds you and insult the very people of which a majority posted sincere responses in your original thread.  You have made an ass out of yourself in front of this community and such a test will not drop from the sky no matter how much you cry about it.
 
You are welcome.
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To quote Usako:

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ORIGINAL: Usako
"Ask a stupid question, get a stupid answer."

[edit: fixed type-o, repeated word]

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ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance

I think it was dragon who caught on to something I'd missed.  It DOES seem now, in retrospect, that the question was asked by someone else FOR DaddyDom.  The question, the way it was worded, and the seemingly imature response makes more sense if read in light of it being posted by a DaddyDom's babygirl.  Maybe not a great deal more sense but at least some sense.  I wish I'd taken the time to read the post a bit more closely and responded initially with a bit more consideration and kindness. 

Now I have to go ponder why I'd be gentler and kinder to a babygirl than a Daddy Dom under the circumstances....(sighs)

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ORIGINAL: dragon2760

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