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MstrTiger -> RE: Gifts (5/26/2008 4:07:41 PM)
Amazon wish list only gives out your city and name it does not tell people anything beyond that so it should still be safe for you to use if you are wanting to keep most of your private info from him.

Politesub53 -> RE: Gifts (5/26/2008 4:10:35 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LovingWhip I have a boy who is insisting on giving me a gift to prove that he is serious. I'm willing to let him, but I'd rather not give him my personal information yet. What is the best way to do that? I'm thinking that there must be a way on amazon, but I am open to anyone's suggestions or recommendations. Surely if he is offering a gift, and you dont trust him enough to give him your details, then taking the gift should wait until a more appropriate time ? This may work in your favour as you wont feel under any obligation, and he wont be able to say " I gave you such and such "

Politesub53 -> RE: Gifts (5/26/2008 4:17:03 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MsStarlett (FYI - Anyone who ever sent me anything got pics of me IN the shoes, boots or dress. I can provide referrals. ;) ) Hi Ma`am, does this mean if i send You nothing, i get a picture of You wearing ....errrrrrrrr nothing ( smiles impishly ) Hey the whole world loves a trier right :)

submgreenbay -> RE: Gifts (5/26/2008 4:32:25 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LovingWhip I have a boy who is insisting on giving me a gift to prove that he is serious. I'm willing to let him, but I'd rather not give him my personal information yet. <snip> I took a look at your profile. It says you are "looking to meet people and talk".. "I'm not looking for a real time submissive at the moment." While I understand your situation... Trust is a two way thing. And that is essential if you ever do plan to meet anyone. You seem to be looking to get some sort of bearing of that with this guy. It starts with small things. i.e. moving from closing a message with your screen name to your real first name, for example. Moving from "fetish talk" to snippets of how your weekend went. Try those and see how he shares small snippets of some of his own personal info... Thats how you build/establish trust. It all takes time. Else I'd say the postal box is the next best thing.

RumpusParable -> RE: Gifts (5/26/2008 5:18:36 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MstrTiger Amazon wish list only gives out your city and name it does not tell people anything beyond that so it should still be safe for you to use if you are wanting to keep most of your private info from him. Except if the item is through a third-party vendor, then they sometimes release all the info in the receipt email.

submale4u2spank -> RE: Gifts (5/26/2008 6:00:16 PM)
Forget about him, your in MA, I'm in MA. Lets go to dinner together! I'll be waiting for a pm from you Lovingwhip.

DreamyLadySnow -> RE: Gifts (5/26/2008 6:58:05 PM)
Northbound Leather out of Toronto has an area where Dommes can register for gifts. The boy goes there, sees the list of things you like, buys one, and they ship it to you. The boy never knows your real name, address or anything. Another great feature, their stuff is stupendous! Besides your dollar is on par with ours now, so buying from Canada should be no big deal..lol. LS

faerytattoodgirl -> RE: Gifts (5/26/2008 7:11:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DreamyLadySnow Northbound Leather out of Toronto has an area where Dommes can register for gifts. The boy goes there, sees the list of things you like, buys one, and they ship it to you. The boy never knows your real name, address or anything. Another great feature, their stuff is stupendous! Besides your dollar is on par with ours now, so buying from Canada should be no big deal..lol. LS hmm..i should go there...post a list...even though im not dom...free gifts!

Lynnxz -> RE: Gifts (5/26/2008 7:15:08 PM)
You should try wishlist.com. It's freaking awesome, doesn't let the sender see your info, and you can rate things as to how much you like them. When browing other sites, and you see something you like, you just hit bookmark and a little window pops up, letting you grab the pix, price, and description in like 5 seconds.

TermsConditions -> RE: Gifts (5/26/2008 7:27:50 PM)
I like the way you think Faery. We could just d/l some evil looking domme pics from somewhere, create profiles and start cashing in! [:D] If you can't beat 'em join 'em. Right? [sm=crop.gif] And if you can beat 'em then maybe you've been cheering for the wrong team? As it were. I wonder if any of my subs will be suspicious that I register at Callawaygolf.com? My Warbirds are a little whippy, does that count? quote: ORIGINAL: faerytattoodgirl quote: ORIGINAL: DreamyLadySnow Northbound Leather out of Toronto has an area where Dommes can register for gifts. The boy goes there, sees the list of things you like, buys one, and they ship it to you. The boy never knows your real name, address or anything. Another great feature, their stuff is stupendous! Besides your dollar is on par with ours now, so buying from Canada should be no big deal..lol. LS hmm..i should go there...post a list...even though im not dom...free gifts!

faerytattoodgirl -> RE: Gifts (5/26/2008 7:47:18 PM)
yes well all i have to do is post my catsuit pic on the wall...with my list of wants..like a greyhound ticket, new digicam, leather pants...etc... northbound leather is only 30 mins from where i live [8\|]

redcell -> RE: Gifts (5/26/2008 8:46:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: pixelslave quote: ORIGINAL: LovingWhip I have a boy who is insisting on giving me a gift to prove that he is serious. I'm willing to let him, but I'd rather not give him my personal information yet. What is the best way to do that? I'm thinking that there must be a way on amazon, but I am open to anyone's suggestions or recommendations. Hmmm... You're the Domme here right? If you don't want to give him any way of discovering your personal information at the moment, then I suggest you tell him "NO" at this time. The bottom line is how comfortable do YOU feel in exposing yourself to this person's further electronic investigation? Do you have all of his personal information? If so have YOU checked him out? Again, you're the Domme, so it's your decision as to how much you want to expose yourself to what sounds a bit like his topping from the bottom. You can choose to set a boundary for now and change it at a later time. [&:] - pixel i totaly agree with that. it's all about You, if you are not feeling comfortable with giving any personal information, which seems to me reasonable in this case, You shouldn't give any. You don't really know who is this person. Akasha's idea is a great !!!

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