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A Question for Bi-Men - 5/28/2008 5:56:52 PM   
fungasm


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Status: offline 		I don't want to make a generalization, so I'm not asking what you think is the standard or typical answer, but rather what you personally prefer.

If you are a man who is bisexual, do you prefer to date women who are bi as well? 

If yes, why?  For that matter, if no, why?


Thank you!

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RE: A Question for Bi-Men - 5/28/2008 5:57:56 PM   
Asherdelampyr


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Status: offline 		I honestly cant say that I have a preference either way, im not dating a woman so that she can sleep with other people, so all I care about is whether or not she is attracted to me

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RE: A Question for Bi-Men - 5/28/2008 6:01:23 PM   
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Status: offline 		I've never noticed a preference either way in men.  They are interested in that person, not whoever else they may be interested in.

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RE: A Question for Bi-Men - 5/28/2008 6:02:40 PM   
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Status: offline 		but LA, you are not a bi man... at least I hope not after the way I have been lusting after you...

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RE: A Question for Bi-Men - 5/28/2008 6:03:40 PM   
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Status: offline 		Yes but I've a fair amount of experience with bi men.  Take my opinion and add it to the pile or not as you wish.

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RE: A Question for Bi-Men - 5/28/2008 6:05:51 PM   
Phin


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RE: A Question for Bi-Men - 5/28/2008 6:47:37 PM   
HornyToadsMI


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Status: offline 		Wow...that is a good question to ponder on.....although it might be to the Bimale's benefit if his female partner is not bi.....lol. 

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RE: A Question for Bi-Men - 5/28/2008 7:11:38 PM   
underworld026


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Status: offline 		Hm, I'm not a bi man. But I would think it doesn't matter, as long as they loved you or whatever you wanted out of it. You know?

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RE: A Question for Bi-Men - 5/28/2008 8:11:32 PM   
raynravyn


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Status: offline 		Not a bi man, but lived with one for quite a while. In our situation, he requested a open relationship with the stipulations that if one of us went to another, that it would be of the same gender, and that it was made known before hand.

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RE: A Question for Bi-Men - 5/28/2008 9:02:58 PM   
fungasm


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Status: offline 		The reason for the question is that scenario seems very prevelant to me.  The idea of dating a bi-male appeals to me, but as I look through profiles and personals; many mention that when they seek a female partner that she be bisexual as well.  Which bites for me.... I like women for entertainment, but the kiss-to-process ratio is never in my favor.

I wanted to get more tangible data- so I asked here.

So if you are male, and bisexual, and you seek a female partner- do you prefer your partner to be bisexual as well.  Why or why not?

Thank you for participating in my survey- have a lollipop.

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RE: A Question for Bi-Men - 5/28/2008 9:31:01 PM   
FangsNfeet


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Status: offline 		I never cared if the woman was straight or bi. My sub/wife is straight and we both druel over Johnny Depp and Orlando Bloom together. We also like the husband in ghost whisperer and Mick the vampire in Moon Light. Male Gay Porn is also a turn on for pet.  

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RE: A Question for Bi-Men - 5/29/2008 1:19:13 AM   
Skully7000


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Status: offline 		I'm a Hedonist. if you find someone attractive you should enjoy them. if you enjoy a particular kink then do it.

do I prefer my women to be BI. sure. it just means more opurtunities for fun.

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RE: A Question for Bi-Men - 5/29/2008 5:29:45 AM   
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Status: offline 		No real preference other than my partner be honest about who they are, and what they are all about. It's not that fact that they have a "versitility" in whom they can relate to, it's that they can tell me the truth about what they are feeling, and what they want in their life.


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RE: A Question for Bi-Men - 5/29/2008 7:34:54 AM   
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Status: offline 		not a bimale here ethier, but my ideal partner is bi.  Like Skully said, more oppurtunities for more fun!

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RE: A Question for Bi-Men - 5/29/2008 9:05:53 AM   
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Status: offline 		Not a bi male, obviously, but those who I have had the pleasure of keeping company with have never minded that I was straight.  However, there have been a couple of bi females who were disappointed in that fact.

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RE: A Question for Bi-Men - 5/29/2008 10:59:20 AM   
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ORIGINAL: bipolarber

No real preference other than my partner be honest about who they are, and what they are all about. It's not that fact that they have a "versitility" in whom they can relate to, it's that they can tell me the truth about what they are feeling, and what they want in their life.


"It's NOT "anything that moves"... it's anyONE who moves ME."  -slogan from the defunct magazine.


I like the quote alot!!!
I agree with your point and that one must be honest. and I agree with that in all things. there are to many people who feel pressured to be Poly, or be Bi, or entertain fetishes that are not their kink... and I think that is said. I like your quote because it explains me... I want to experience "anyone who moves me" but if someone whants to look or that one person who will make them happy and never have to sleep with another person every again then awesome. good luck finding what makes you happy.

what is often said in the munches I attend: If all you are looking for is someone to give you a few quick spanks before you fuck then awesome. enjoy your kink.

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