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.saliva. - 5/30/2008 7:19:25 AM

RCdc

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I was reading the whole post MR wrote about The Money Shot and was interested in the reactions to semen - some saying it resembles snot.
Like I said - interesting.

So, it got me thinking - how do people feel about saliva? To clarify, not snot, gobbing or hocking up phlegm - but;
Drooling, dribbling and gaging.
Being spat on.
Using saliva as lubricant.
Having saliva slowly dribbled into your mouth from your SO? (Which we personally think rocks).

Does it have postive or negative reactions?

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RE: .saliva. - 5/30/2008 7:25:19 AM

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to be spit on, saliva used as a lubricant, et al is very intimate to me. I agree with you, it rocks.

When I'm gagged and have no control over drooling I feel very helpless, vunerable and controlless. I personally love anything that makes me feel a lack of control.

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RE: .saliva. - 5/30/2008 7:29:05 AM

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quote:

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Drooling, dribbling and gaging.
Being spat on.
Using saliva as lubricant.
Having saliva slowly dribbled into your mouth from your SO? (Which we personally think rocks).

Saliva is a fabulous as a lubricant... although you have to keep reapplying it, and it really isn't good for anal sex.

The problem with being spat or dribbled on or into isn't the saliva, it's the distance... The best part about "swappin' spit" is getting deep, incredible kisses.

But saliva can also be incredibly hot. It can be lovely to see someone with their mouth held open by a gag, trying not to drool. I have loved to have my partner fuck my face. To pound it so hard that I do gag and drool uncontrollably, not just because it feels amazing. But it also a good thing to go beyond propriety.

Great question!

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RE: .saliva. - 5/30/2008 7:38:44 AM

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i have always been grossed out by the site of saliva or feeling it when kissing someone. i have no clue why i have this reaction. i just don't like it. just me.
i will use saliva to clean with,,,

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RE: .saliva. - 5/30/2008 7:54:32 AM

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i will use saliva to clean with,,,

... All I can think about is when my mother used to grab my head, lick her thumb, and proceed to viciously attack some random smudge on my face.

MOMMMM NOOOOOO STOOOOP!!!

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RE: .saliva. - 5/30/2008 7:56:27 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Darcyandthedark

I was reading the whole post MR wrote about The Money Shot and was interested in the reactions to semen - some saying it resembles snot.
Like I said - interesting.

So, it got me thinking - how do people feel about saliva? To clarify, not snot, gobbing or hocking up phlegm - but;
Drooling, dribbling and gaging.
Being spat on.
Using saliva as lubricant.
Having saliva slowly dribbled into your mouth from your SO? (Which we personally think rocks).

Does it have postive or negative reactions?

the.dark.

I'm not big on most of the things listed, except we have found it really hot if he spits on whichever hole he's planning on using (in particular spitting on my ass to lube it up for a particular purpose).

C~

Edited to add: Ditto on fungasm's point on face fucking and the drooling, etc that can happen if you are way into it.

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RE: .saliva. - 5/30/2008 8:04:17 AM

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I will never, ever, ever forget the time years and years ago,when while I was tied up, a Domme told me to open my mouth. I honestly thought she was going to gag or even kiss me, but she then spat into my mouth. I was so taken back, surprized, rocked and socked that I have never ever forgotten it. It was amazingly hot/submissive feeling/humiliating/intoxicating all at the same time.

My current Mistress loves to take a drink of water (or wine) and squirt/dribble/flood it into my mouth. Sometimes she is sharing, sometimes just filling me because she thinks I need a drink. Sometimes I think she just enjoys doing it. Sometimes I think she just intends to kiss me and she surprizes me and I have to recover quickly and drink it. Sometimes I know she is about to do it and that I must obligingly and obediently open my mouth for whatever she wishes to put into me.

She's never done just spit or saliva, but one time...... it was my own semen.

To me, being "fed" this way by one's Dominant conjures up so many different feelings at once and at different times: submission, helplessness, obedience, acceptance, openness, even a few times feeling like a baby bird or animal being fed by one's mother.

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RE: .saliva. - 5/30/2008 8:40:07 AM

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There's something intensely erotic, hot, nasty, dirty, intimate and oh so yummy about Him holding me down and whispering in that sexy, husky voice...... "Open your mouth." and then spitting in my mouth. *swoon*

Sometimes I just swallow it and other times He kisses me hard and passionately afterwards.

He also uses spit as lube, and that is hot as well.

I didn't comment in the "money shot" thread, but there's just something so intimately nasty and erotic about body fluids. I just become a puddle of hot goo

when He spits, pees or cums in me or on me. *more swooning*

Is it just me, or is it warm in here? *fans herself*

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RE: .saliva. - 5/30/2008 8:50:25 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: WalterRego

My current Mistress loves to take a drink of water (or wine) and squirt/dribble/flood it into my mouth. Sometimes she is sharing, sometimes just filling me because she thinks I need a drink. Sometimes I think she just enjoys doing it. Sometimes I think she just intends to kiss me and she surprizes me and I have to recover quickly and drink it. Sometimes I know she is about to do it and that I must obligingly and obediently open my mouth for whatever she wishes to put into me.

This reminds me of something very fun. Bind your naked parter to a chair- ankles to the legs, wrists loosely bound to the sides, Legs spread slightly. (women need to scooch up so they are on the edge of the chair for better access. Blindfold. Take a mouthful of hot tea (or coffee) and hold it in your mouth until it cools off. Slide a cock (or clit) into your mouth while still holding the warm liquid. Suck and swallow. Repeat. Every once in a while- just to throw things off, go to different parts of the body, including the mouth, where you can suck and swallow together. It's yummy.

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RE: .saliva. - 5/30/2008 8:59:41 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Darcyandthedark

So, it got me thinking - how do people feel about saliva?

Does it have postive or negative reactions?

the.dark.

Bodily fluids that are white, yellow, clear or, even red, that are exchanged between me and the person i am in an amorous or sexually intimate relationship with, whether they are sprayed or wiped on me or into me, are a huge turn-on for me. The first time my first husband spit on my face and, ever since then, i have loved being splattered with spit.

Saliva is a wonderful lubricant and it's completely natural. One time i tried Vaseline as a lubricant for anal sex and i hated it. Since i don't like any 'artificial' or chemical lubricants put inside my body, i stick to saliva, pre-cum, vaginal secretions and semen for lubrication, when needed.

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and it really isn't good for anal sex.

It's always worked well for me.

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RE: .saliva. - 5/30/2008 9:05:59 AM

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I love his saliva, wherever he puts it - on me, in me, wherever. Sometimes he'll yank my head back hard and spit on my face or in my mouth when I'm gasping and that just makes me spin.

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RE: .saliva. - 5/30/2008 9:20:01 AM

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I don't like getting spit on (or in) but I do submit to it.

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RE: .saliva. - 5/30/2008 9:55:00 AM

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if our kissing gets a bit too sloppy, he will wipe my mouth clean. i have never thought to ask why but i merely presume out of common courtesy and being the gent that he is.

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RE: .saliva. - 5/30/2008 10:04:10 AM

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Getting my face spit on is an instant orgasm for me while in the heat of hard fucking. So great. Alpha loves to watch me drool with a gag in my mouth, he says he likes watching me lose control of myself in that way. Usually I'm pretty finicky about my appearance so that definitely breaks me out of it.

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RE: .saliva. - 5/30/2008 10:06:25 AM

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For me it's a real turnon and something which I have incorporated into play more and more - and I have preferred it as a lubricant for as long as I can remember. - Spitting on and in my partners mouth - hard and repeatedly - I find that extremely sensual - and not the least watching the reaction - or letting the spit slowly dribble into an open mouth and/or all over the face - and slowly rubbing it into the face with my fingers/hand as well - something which also leads to REALLY wet kisses - followed up with wet licks all over the face and neck - or anywhere else on the body, and of course the ass - and spitting into the ass as well - and on the genitalia certainly - I also like facefucking my partner until there is excessive drooling - and feeding the drool slowly back in with my fingers... the wetter the better as I see it... not necessarily always, but on those times when I first get started there sure ain't no stoppin me...

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RE: .saliva. - 5/30/2008 10:29:24 AM

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Okay, saliva has actually been a topic of discussion in my own life lately and i have a definite love/hate relationship with it...
As a lubricant its fantastic....and its sexy to watch him just spit on me without regard, to use that way...

Years ago, i spit on my girl's BACK for no apparent reason during sex...STILL dont know why i felt compelled to do it and we occasionally laugh about it when reliving old times.

i recently was kissing a man on a playdate that came after several successful but chaste more vanilla meetings. It was our first kiss and it was literally as if his tongue became some sort of firehose and it was being used as a saliva delivery device directly into my mouth. i hitched up my skirt and fled without sufficient explanation and was unable to do so days later...how does one diplomatically say that a persons kissing was so repulsive that it required such an immediate exit? Poor guy still wonders.

And then there is the kind of saliva that is produced during cock worship that is so thick and wonderous. You know, the one that when you lift your head and move away it retains its hold on the both of you and acts as an organic leash....i swear that chain wouldnt break if it you left the room and shut the door on it. The wetter the better as they say....

So you can see where i would be conflicted....

As a mother, i have to admit with a hanging head, that, i indeed do spit on my thumb and go after his face or cowlicked hair right before he leaves the car for school...its as if when i had him i actually BECAME my own mother in this and so many ways. i hope my son has decent insurance as a grown up so he can get the therapy he is definitely going to require.

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RE: .saliva. - 5/30/2008 10:30:25 AM

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God, all below is just hot.

quote:

ORIGINAL: Darcyandthedark

I was reading the whole post MR wrote about The Money Shot and was interested in the reactions to semen - some saying it resembles snot.
Like I said - interesting.

So, it got me thinking - how do people feel about saliva? To clarify, not snot, gobbing or hocking up phlegm - but;
Drooling, dribbling and gaging.
Being spat on.
Using saliva as lubricant.
Having saliva slowly dribbled into your mouth from your SO? (Which we personally think rocks).

Does it have postive or negative reactions?

the.dark.

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RE: .saliva. - 5/30/2008 10:34:52 AM

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Have always been disgusted by it, to the point that I come close to throwing up.

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RE: .saliva. - 5/30/2008 10:35:05 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Darcyandthedark

I was reading the whole post MR wrote about The Money Shot and was interested in the reactions to semen - some saying it resembles snot.
Like I said - interesting.

So, it got me thinking - how do people feel about saliva? To clarify, not snot, gobbing or hocking up phlegm - but;
Drooling, dribbling and gaging.
Being spat on.
Using saliva as lubricant.
Having saliva slowly dribbled into your mouth from your SO? (Which we personally think rocks).

Does it have postive or negative reactions?

the.dark.

Even thinking about it makes me very nauseous. I have a weak stomach for that, so much so that I was really worried about how I was going to handle having a baby...fortunately, my brain/body apparently makes an exception for baby drool. But that's it.

(I didn't post my opinion on the money shot thread, so I'll just throw it in here for the record...I don't care for cum on the face at ALL. Just blech. Breasts or belly is different, though; either can be quite hot. And I love ordering my slave to consume his cum, mostly for the symbolism.)

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RE: .saliva. - 5/30/2008 11:02:53 AM

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I have done the drooling, and have been spat on while having sex. I love it. I was surprised by my own reaction when I first did drool; it excited me.

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