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Mind Games - 10/25/2005 8:03:31 PM   
Vancouver_cinful


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Status: offline 		A female dominant friend of mine is looking for some good mind games to play with her male subbies.

I'm wondering if anyone has any classics they'd like to share or websites that would inspire some evil fun.

She's done the sharp knife/dull knife switch, and the burn/ice switch...She's looking for further ideas now.

Thanks, Cin.

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RE: Mind Games - 10/26/2005 12:04:51 AM   
JustaTop


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Status: offline 		Make him go into a crowded drug store to buy a package of "depends" in HIS size. He is not allowed to buy anything else.

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RE: Mind Games - 10/26/2005 11:09:10 AM   
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Make him go into a crowded drug store to buy a package of "depends" in HIS size. He is not allowed to buy anything else.

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after 3 wives........i have done it all. i have bought everything you can think of...i doubt seriously if any domme can find anything for me to buy that would bother me.
i am SO used-to getting things for the wives i am not bothered by anything. i started buying mom's pads for her when i was old enough to ride a bike.

hmmmmmm........sometimes i wonder and worry about the outside world.

am i the ONLY one used-to these things?


wow

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RE: Mind Games - 10/26/2005 11:14:15 AM   
JustaTop


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Status: offline 		Or make him wet his pants,and THEN go in and buy the diapers.

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RE: Mind Games - 10/26/2005 11:43:20 AM   
WalterRego


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RE: Mind Games - 10/26/2005 1:28:36 PM   
Cloudz


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Status: offline 		Mind games? I'm not sure if this qualifies...although it blew his mind. I had a sub who wanted to be forced bi, and was so nervous about it that he requested I surprise him rather than inform him in advance. I made him wait several months before I arranged this scenario.

He was waiting for me blindfolded and restrained. Ever the creative one, he had found a way to connect himself to spreader bars top and bottom by himself, although getting loose would have been a definite struggle. So, he prepared for my arrival by putting on the music, candles, wine, blindfolding himself, and waiting attached to spreader bars in the doorway.

As usual I was late, the better to allow him to wonder just how he would get down...if I failed to arrive. I arrived (with a cd) and proceeded to verbally taunt him and drink my wine. Finally, after he begged, I consented to touch him. I ran my hands over him for a bit, applied some clamps and clothespins, and then motioned for the cd to pleasure him.

You would have thought I applied electrical shocks when he felt the cd's mouth. He KNEW it was not me, LOL. Once his heart beat slowed a little I pulled off the clamps and pins, then let him down. I allowed him to sit on the floor where he continued to receive pleasure from the cd, only now it was easier to feel her long flowing hair.

In time I released his hands and he was instructed to touch her hair, her satin corset, her fishnet stockinged clad legs. It was only when I allowed him to 'return her favors' that he found out ...the rest of the story. I suspect it still goes down as one of his favorite experiences.

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RE: Mind Games - 10/26/2005 4:08:52 PM   
fastlane


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Status: offline 		This is done all the time, but still blows me away. Make him go into the lingerie section and ask for help in finding him a nice pair of panties that go with his bra.



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RE: Mind Games - 10/26/2005 4:27:36 PM   
LadyAngelika


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ORIGINAL: Vancouver_cinful
A female dominant friend of mine is looking for some good mind games to play with her male subbies.


I'm quite a fan of POW role play. I love the interrogation part! But it doesn't work with every boy. It does work with boys that have been in the military, and even then, you have to be careful not to open up a can of worms.

As in any mind game, you have to figure out how the boy's (or girl's) mind works. You have to understand their fears and their worries. Like in wolf's example, he doesn't seem to have any shame to do this stuff. But he probably has his triggers, don't you wolf ;-)

I'd say find the boy's trigger and build on that.

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RE: Mind Games - 10/26/2005 4:51:34 PM   
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Status: offline 		I was playing with a very manly submissive once who was very hairy and in no way wanted my to shave him or do anything girlie (he thought shaving was girlie, silly boy). I had him bound, gaged, blind folded, and by this time in deep sub space. We had played in everyway he could have fantasized about....and he was happy. So I told him he owed me the same happiness. What, he wondered, would make me happy? He asked about several things from intimate acts, massages, even shopping.... I said...Oh no...what would make me happy is a nice clean shaved boy. Oh the protests.... but he OWED ME!!!! SO I brought out a very loud electric razor and "went to work". I worked for about 15 minutes here and there....and showed him "shavings" as I went.... What he did not know is the "shavings" were from me that I had saved. I left him bound for a while to think about it....


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RE: Mind Games - 10/26/2005 5:49:09 PM   
LadyAngelika


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Gold star for you!

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RE: Mind Games - 10/26/2005 8:06:30 PM   
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RE: Mind Games - 11/7/2005 2:59:57 PM   
MasterAK47


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Status: offline 		I recently saw a very good spanish movie: "Killing Words" (http://movies.yahoo.com/movie/1808680754/info). When I watched this movie I was wondering what death threatening could do for someone. This movie is all about radical mindgames and is a must-see.

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RE: Mind Games - 11/8/2005 3:55:38 PM   
coastal7652


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Status: offline 		I would love to be tied up totally by two or three girls, and then 4 them to threaten to suffercate me til i die.

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