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sambamanslilgirl -> RE: pic (5/31/2008 7:39:27 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: tammy1974 yes true all any one can pretent that there something there not but if u plan to meet it make cum as a shock though that's why you ask for a couple of photos in natural surroundings (outdoors, on the beach, etc) and then move to phone contact. it would be foolish just going by their photos alone. that's my pov

RCdc -> RE: pic (5/31/2008 8:10:40 AM)
Image means nothing (says the gorgeous and totally modest [;)]) But in all seriousness, I would rather see a well written and concise profile with no photo than one with hardly any wording and poor lighting in a kitchen that pays little justice to beauty. But then, I am a photography snob. the.dark.

GreedyTop -> RE: pic (5/31/2008 8:17:35 AM)
gropes the gorgeous and totally modest dark hi sexy! gropes to Darcy too

MstrVik -> RE: pic (5/31/2008 8:18:33 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: tammy1974 but a site like this is just for bdsm people so wat the chance for none bdsm people going here I would consider that chance fairly high judging by some of those that have contacted me on here LOL Actually, I believe a lot of people come here also just out of curiosity, and many of those that have profiles on here do define themselves as 'bdsm-curious'. The notion that only people that are seriously interested in bdsm visits this site is surely not entirely correct. But it isn't really about that - at least I don't think so. Over the years, at least for periods, I have sometimes chosen not to present myself with a pic online, or I have posted a 'blurred' one so that I wouldn't be too easily recognized. My reasons for this have mostly been job-related, but there can be several other reasons, like where you live, being well-known within your local community, fronting some type of project or cause - things like that can make people vulnerable to certain types of exposure or gossip. I think it's fairly common to take these things into consideration on any dating site really - and it's not necessarily about the bdsm aspect at all.

SimplyMichael -> RE: pic (5/31/2008 8:28:10 AM)
I am as out as can be, I make paddles and dildos at work, my parents know I do this, my dad toured the dungeon I owned, etc. However, I live in California and I don't do anything that involves dealing with kids or politics. If I did, I would not be as out as I am. If I lived in some Midwest or bible belt hellhole, I sure as hell would be more secretive as well.

RCdc -> RE: pic (5/31/2008 8:28:41 AM)
GT --->[sm=oddballs.gif]<---me the.dark.

stubborngirl -> RE: pic (5/31/2008 8:33:48 AM)
it's called a "profile", sweetie... quote: ORIGINAL: tammy1974 yeah but it helps to know who ur talking too

RedMagic1 -> RE: pic (5/31/2008 8:50:36 AM)
Hey... I liked the munchkinland wedding photo! Where'd it go? ... OMG, you're running for office.

ProtagonistLily -> RE: pic (5/31/2008 8:51:08 AM)
quote: why dont some dom and dommes post a photo surely if the true then it should not be a problem I would imagine that goes for the submissives too. Ok, yes, you got me. I'm really not a submissive, and certainly not a true one, sans my pic on my profile. I'm a bored, out of work polar bear vacationing in vancouver for the summer.You should feel so proud of yourself. You can say you got me! Please. Just Please. PL

HalloweenWhite -> RE: pic (5/31/2008 8:57:13 AM)
I posted one for a while then kept hearing about how people could use it against Y/you if they could identify you, also, the one I posted I didn't like. I've got one on another site but have yet to get round to posting it here.

Missokyst -> RE: pic (5/31/2008 9:01:54 AM)
Apparently you have never seen someones internet history log. I repair computers and OMG the places their children, wives, husbands, even grandmas visit! Even me.. once I went to do a seach for BARBIE. Did you know that Barbie is just not a plastic doll? LOL and you don't even want to visit a site with barbie and her friends. I saw more porn on those web pages than anyone looking for barbies should see. Not just people into bdsm will visit. If you don't mind that your doctor, dentist, employer knows you are into bdsm, great. But some people prefer privacy. EVEN if by nature they look like a dom. LOL which btw, is a ludicrous thought on its own. Viewing your pic I cannot tell if you are dom, sub, or just like wearing boots in your kitchen. Kyst quote: ORIGINAL: tammy1974 but a site like this is just for bdsm people so wat the chance for none bdsm people going here

fungasm -> RE: pic (5/31/2008 9:04:50 AM)
Something else to consider: some people, men and women alike, hope to have responses based on their argument and not their visual. I've had long stretches where I didn't put up a photo- because I didn't want people who replied to me because of what I look like in a picture. But I'm in remote place this summer- and I'm spending more time on the boards. I really like reading people and matching the words to the face(s). I know- they could be a fastidious librarian, which is a particular erotic touchstone to me, but I have faith that it's not. So I put up a photo too. It's really me, purple ChuckTs and all. Everyone gets to do what they need to do.

sirsholly -> RE: pic (5/31/2008 9:07:53 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Missokyst Apparently you have never seen someones internet history log. I repair computers .......... Viewing your pic I cannot tell if you are dom, sub, or just like wearing boots in your kitchen. oh shit... Missokyst...heehee...those boots were ..uh...cause it was snowing outside..and...i NEEDED thigh-high spiked heels...uh...cause the snow was so deep and...um...i was naked cause it was so hot outside and um.....never mind.

MstrVik -> RE: pic (5/31/2008 9:39:13 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sirsholly oh shit... Missokyst...heehee...those boots were ..uh...cause it was snowing outside..and...i NEEDED thigh-high spiked heels...uh...cause the snow was so deep and...um...i was naked cause it was so hot outside and um.....never mind. What? Wait a sec here: 'sirsholly' and 'tammy1974' is actually the same person??? I never woulda guessed! [:D]

Quivver -> RE: pic (5/31/2008 10:41:59 AM)
Oh Tammy, it's time to smell the coffee. People come here for many reasons, not always to search for what ever it is your searching for. You've been offered some good thoughts between your floggings here, My suggestion is to consider those idea's you've been given and put them into practice, it will save you a lot of confusion in the long run. (edited due to fat finger typing)

DomAviator -> RE: pic (6/1/2008 12:05:09 AM)
I dont put up a photo because one of the requirements for the license with which I earn my living with is "3.) Be of good moral character. ". Thats pretty freaking vauge and subject to a hell of a lot of interpertation and as a result it will be a cold day in hell when I post my picture on any sexually oriented web site - BDSM or Vanilla. If someone wants to see my picture I will show it to them if they are of interest to me...

Smith117 -> RE: pic (6/1/2008 5:18:51 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Aileen1968 This makes absolutely no sense. I don't know if you've noticed, hun. But due to the lack of punctuation and a coherent thought, none of her posts have made sense. I have no clue what she's asking about.

Aileen1968 -> RE: pic (6/1/2008 5:27:31 AM)
Oh I noticed, hun. But based on your lack of pictures I can't believe a word you say because you must be a fake.

Level -> RE: pic (6/1/2008 5:57:42 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Aileen1968 Oh I noticed, hun. But based on your lack of pictures I can't believe a word you say because you must be a fake. [8D]

wandersalone -> RE: pic (6/1/2008 6:40:25 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Level quote: ORIGINAL: mistoferin Level, you are TOTALLY ruining my lifelong pirate fantasy!!!![sm=hissyfit.gif] Now I feel bad, erin. Here, will this help? omfg Level, I just about choked on a cracker biscuit I was eating when I saw that picture. You have way too much time on your hands. [sm=lol.gif]

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