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RE: Non-Perfect Sub Club - 6/1/2008 4:38:06 PM

ElanSubdued

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phoenixinchains,

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i's imperfect, but fun : )
adds - and chewy too.

Contemplates testing the "chewiness". You know, just to ensure empirical accuracy.

Elan.

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RE: Non-Perfect Sub Club - 6/1/2008 4:42:11 PM

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LadyHibiscus, LadyLynx;

You're (obviously) both preferred members of da club. Me thinks we need to fire the doorman. :-)

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RE: Non-Perfect Sub Club - 6/1/2008 4:59:00 PM

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Shakti,

*shields eyes from the smileys*

For a moment there I thought you'd been infected with malloves disease. Mind you, I suppose one "malignancy" per paragraph hardly qualifies you as a disciple.

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And he has that prior experience as a male dom which you just KNOW is going to make him a wildcat in bed.

Shakti! You ratted me out! No, not the wildcat thing, the "male dom" thing. I'll *never* find a Domina now!

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Similarly, the OP in this thread... A gifted musician with a passionate thirst for love and domination. A little headstrong, perhaps, but that makes it all the sweeter to tame him. (snip) Plus he is extremely pretty and photogenic. If I had a yen for angelic Nordic blondes, I would clap him in chains in a heartbeat.

Well, okay. You saved my reputation with this. :-)

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RE: Non-Perfect Sub Club - 6/1/2008 5:08:40 PM

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PsyVamp,

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But thats okay... we have cookies here.

I can't say much, I own a switch who likes to *pretend* to sub here and there. Aside from my house looking like it is managed by a 24 year old gamer, *shrugs* you work with what you have.

Did you say cookies? Seriously. I'll clean up your house for just a few. There's nothing like cookies to take the blues away. (Well, actually... there *is* extra rich, double chocolate, chocolate chunk ice cream, but I'm flexible. A few cookies would be just fine. :-)

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RE: Non-Perfect Sub Club - 6/1/2008 5:19:05 PM

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MySweetSubmssive,

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"I love you... and that is why you are perfect."

rubberpet said this of his mistress on another thread, and it responds to this thread beautifully.

This excerpt from a Wendell Berry poem is a part of what perfection might be. Of course, it doesn't specifically relate to submission, but it is germane:

Our bond is no little economy based on the exchange
of my love and work for yours, so much for so much
of an expendable fund. We don't know what its limits are --
that puts us in the dark.

This pretty much says it all. Still, I'll add that I think it important to replenish the "fund". It's a good thing there are so many ways to do this for your partner - to make deposits on someone else's behalf, as it were.

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RE: Non-Perfect Sub Club - 6/1/2008 5:24:34 PM

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What I am suggesting is to transcend the fiduciary, to be so comfortable and so unguarded that you open yourself to the other person and stop counting.

What would it be like to add and not keep track, to know that you would be replenished without checking the level of the stores? I've had that before, and I think I'll have that again. I hope you get to experience that kind of perfection. (smiling)

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RE: Non-Perfect Sub Club - 6/1/2008 5:25:46 PM

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DominantJenny,

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Awwww. *pets Elan* I didn't mention anybody but mine mostly because I feel all guilty when I flirt since I know I'm not gonna follow through. (I suspect that's another reason that "unavailable" subs are getting mentioned more often!) You know you're right at the top of my nifty list! :)

I'm nifty?

*smiles*

Thank you.

Side note: the feeling is mutual. :-)

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RE: Non-Perfect Sub Club - 6/1/2008 5:38:30 PM

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SnowRanger,

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Hi All, Perhaps I've found a Home. I put in a comment on the "Good Ones" thread. The responce I got was about my turn-off I was about ready to wave the white flag. I'm looking forward to hanging out here.

Now you've got me all curious and stuff. I'll have to read the other thread to see what you wrote! By the way, welcome to the club. :-)

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RE: Non-Perfect Sub Club - 6/1/2008 5:40:11 PM

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LaMistressa,

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Eh, don't feel bad Elan -- I never get mentioned in the "perfect Domme" or "Domme of Distinction" threads either. I prefer to think of it as not being imperfect or undesirable, but more of a "flying under the radar" situation, or being the UndiscoveredCountry.

See how exclusive I make rationalization sound?

Your rationalization is working. I feel better already. :-)

UndiscoveredCountry. (A.K.A. ElanSubdued.)

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RE: Non-Perfect Sub Club - 6/1/2008 5:41:37 PM

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hardbodysub,

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Oh great, just what I need, another club that won't let me in because I don't meet the qualifications!

There are no qualifications here. See.? That was easy. You're already a member!

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RE: Non-Perfect Sub Club - 6/1/2008 7:43:02 PM

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You get major bonus points for the Wendell Berry poem. I've always been a fan of his. My personal favorite started with the line "My gentle hill, I rest beside you in the dark, in a place warmed by my body"...and I'll be damned if I can remember the rest of it.

Now I'll have to go digging through my books in storage!

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RE: Non-Perfect Sub Club - 6/1/2008 7:47:41 PM

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Unless I'm mistaken, and I very well could be, the remaining three are not currently matched

Lady Pact,
You'd be absolutely correct in my case.

I'm still seeking a woman with whom I can make a compatible match in the DFW area. I'm confident it will be worth the time and effort it sometimes takes for these things to happen.

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RE: Non-Perfect Sub Club - 6/1/2008 8:08:33 PM

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ORIGINAL: ElanSubdued

PsyVamp,

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But thats okay... we have cookies here.

Did you say cookies? Seriously. I'll clean up your house for just a few. There's nothing like cookies to take the blues away. (Well, actually... there *is* extra rich, double chocolate, chocolate chunk ice cream, but I'm flexible. A few cookies would be just fine. :-)

Elan.

and sometimes...if you're really lucky... we also have cake..

come to the dark side

(of course, you'd have to get to it before the um's... muhahahahahaha_

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RE: Non-Perfect Sub Club - 6/1/2008 8:19:54 PM

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ORIGINAL: ElanSubdued

hardbodysub,

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Oh great, just what I need, another club that won't let me in because I don't meet the qualifications!

There are no qualifications here. See.? That was easy. You're already a member!

Elan.

Wrong. You must be "non-perfect".

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RE: Non-Perfect Sub Club - 6/1/2008 11:53:29 PM

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hardbodysub,

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hardbodysub:
Oh great, just what I need, another club that won't let me in because I don't meet the qualifications!

ElanSubdued:
There are no qualifications here. See.? That was easy. You're already a member!

hardbodysub:
Wrong. You must be "non-perfect".

Touche. :-)

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RE: Non-Perfect Sub Club - 6/2/2008 5:21:07 AM

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I'm glad you appreciated it. I first found him through an essay of his that he wrote after 9/11. He is so sane, so ethical, so whole-hearted -- Wendell Berry is in my private pantheon of gods.

Mss

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RE: Non-Perfect Sub Club - 6/2/2008 7:33:55 AM

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ORIGINAL: pixelslave

I'm still seeking a woman with whom I can make a compatible match in the DFW area.
- pixel

Ay, there's the rub! DFW!!! PLENTY of fine men out there, not so many that I am interested in close to home.

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RE: Non-Perfect Sub Club - 6/2/2008 7:53:49 AM

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

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ORIGINAL: pixelslave

I'm still seeking a woman with whom I can make a compatible match in the DFW area.
- pixel

Ay, there's the rub! DFW!!! PLENTY of fine men out there, not so many that I am interested in close to home.

Ironically, your home used to be my home too until about 5-1/2 years ago. Were it not for the UM's being here, I wouldn't be very likely to stay in the DFW area.

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RE: Non-Perfect Sub Club - 6/2/2008 8:07:54 AM

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Oh sure, MOCK me now!

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RE: Non-Perfect Sub Club - 6/2/2008 8:14:43 AM

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There is no perfect sub, or slave. there is no perfect Mistress or Master. There is no perfect human. That said a sub /slave can be perfect for someone, but not for someone else. If my sub/puts me before all others I am most pleased and everything else will fall into place.
Reina selena proud owner of petie who is perfect for me.

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