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Boondoggle -> RE: Inappropriately Aroused (6/2/2008 7:51:04 PM)
Personally, I quite enjoy when something seemingly inappropriate triggers one of my kinks. I am able to clearly distinguish fantasy from reality, so I enjoy the moment. That said, I still do find some of those seemingly inappropriate instances of arousal a bit humiliating, which I throughly enjoy on a different level. It's fun to be naughty some times, especially when it is truly something as innocuous as a fantasy. As for your cruel objectification of those poor, innocent young men, more power to you. I, myself, have somewhat of what might be called an 'exercise fetish': I love the idea of being made to perform physically for another. I love to bicycle, and love to push myself when I do. I'm actually known in the local community for cycling rather long distances to events. While I'm not into impact or sensation play, thus, generally not into pain, I do love the feel of exhaustion and even pain that comes from pushing oneself so far. I guess what I'm pointing out is that there are those who would also be into that sort of physical evaluation scene, so if you're interested, keep looking, you'll find it.

boyforyouruse -> RE: Inappropriately Aroused (6/2/2008 8:42:31 PM)
When I was in basic training my training instructor was so powerfully dominant, mean, loud and scary that it was kind of a turn-on. I wasn't popping wood or anything, but I was genuinely afraid of him, and it was kind of a mental turn on to be scared of someone like that. Obviously nothing came of that particular scenario, but it's interesting to me thinking back on it that it triggered a submissive desire at all.

rubberpet -> RE: Inappropriately Aroused (6/2/2008 11:11:23 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AAkasha Hehe...well when you put it that way, rubberpet, I guess I can't feel so guilty.... Akasha I've been told I would make a great attorney...both as a prosecutor and defense. In this case, I'll just have to defend you by reason of lust-filled depravity! [:D] You could get a 12-member subby jury and hope for a well-hung jury. Hmmmm, no subby jury would convict someone like you on those grounds! [:D]

AllforFun -> RE: Inappropriately Aroused (6/3/2008 2:55:09 AM)
[&:] quote: ORIGINAL: petdave Oh, and YouTube really needs to find some way to separate a search for "Duct Tape" into "It's okay, they're adults" and "Don't Bother Looking"... Not sure what kind of misfit you have to be to get pranks like that played on you, but i sure was the wrong kind... [&o] LOL! this totally cracked me up! but I feel your pain....... [&:]

LadyPact -> RE: Inappropriately Aroused (6/27/2008 7:06:43 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LPslittleclip I'm a submissive and i rather like your fantasy of being made to preform and such. after all isn't that what a submissive is there for? I know it's too late, but have I told you lately that I love you?

fluffyswitch -> RE: Inappropriately Aroused (6/27/2008 8:02:11 AM)
i spend most of my life inappropriately aroused in one way or another. i'm just a reallly sexual person. as for the hockey? how can you not? men with sticks...sigh.

GentlemanBobIII -> RE: Inappropriately Aroused (6/27/2008 9:47:57 AM)
I can't believe that I'm about to admit this, I've often questioned my own depravity, however speaking of innappropriately aroused I see pictures of a sister or sisters tickling thier brother or a mother tickling her son and find myself wishing I was the boy in the picture. Since I've never been tickled I am not even sure how the idea of being tickled is a turn-on. Am I totally wacked or what? -Bob

CoasttoCoast -> RE: Inappropriately Aroused (6/27/2008 8:17:46 PM)
quote: Since I've never been tickled... this is the saddest thing... have you ever been hugged bob?

blueskyboy -> RE: Inappropriately Aroused (6/28/2008 4:21:25 AM)
think you are not alone...my experience, may be skewed as i run and work out lots so might just be the domes i attract like jock stuff seems that women love to see a man at his limits - testing those - bench press is where you work until the muscle fails...this was such a turn on for my first domme that my chest grew too big for my dress shirts... think it was a turn on...maybe she was just laughing...anyway she watched with her hand on her chin

MissEnchanted -> RE: Inappropriately Aroused (6/28/2008 5:34:10 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MsStarlett *I most frequently find myself 'inappropriately aroused' a the gym... Big surprise. Again, there is nothing quite like the sight and SMELL of a hot, sweaty man. Hubba Hubba! I think I put it in my Journal... but a little over a week ago, one of the HOTTEST guys who works out about the same time I do brought in his gravity boots. He was hanging by his heals doing these odd little exercises holding weights and swinging in little circles. I swear to Ghod it was leg day and the first thing on my list was to do the 45 degree leg press... so here I am, practically laying on my back with my legs up in the air lifting... and all I can see in front of me is this totally hot piece of man flesh hanging there with most of his clothes falling off of him and 'swinging' like a human pinata. OMG! The first thing that went through my mind was "Do I have a flogger in the car?" I finally had to close my eyes and just count my reps or I swear I would have run over there and at LEAST dug my claws into that beautiful back. I thought I was going to have to run to the ladies room and relieve myself. (I might have to do that NOW!) MsStarlett, What did you do with this guy? Did you hit on him and drop hints? I didn't see what happened after you started a thread on it....* oh ... Sorry ... Starlett is INTO suspension. Especially inverted. Oh dear.... My seat's wet. You mentioned Inappropriate arousal. I do not see such an innocent thing as 'in'-appropriate! The same goes for AAkasha. Many things large and small get my domme energy up, turn me on and inspire me. My fantasies run to the terribly wicked, and also to the sweetest, depending on my mood. I had a long chat with my sub last night into the wee hours. He asked me what turns me on and I laughed saying: "How about asking me what does NOT turn me on, as that list is a lot shorter." He persisted and I shared most of my long list including several things that would scare the hell out of many subs. Then he said: "Well all of those sound really good to me." Now that was Hawt as Hell and fired me up, bigtime. [8D]

MissEnchanted -> RE: Inappropriately Aroused (6/28/2008 5:38:13 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GentlemanBobIII I can't believe that I'm about to admit this, I've often questioned my own depravity, however speaking of innappropriately aroused I see pictures of a sister or sisters tickling thier brother or a mother tickling her son and find myself wishing I was the boy in the picture. Since I've never been tickled I am not even sure how the idea of being tickled is a turn-on. Am I totally wacked or what? -Bob Tickling: One of my favorite fetishes. Not wacky, extremely sexy! ME

bipolarber -> RE: Inappropriately Aroused (6/28/2008 9:43:31 AM)
Well, I found out that I'm turned on by scars on women... breast augmentation scars, old injuries from car accidents (am I the only one who found "Crash" with James Spader to be really good porn?) appendectomy, c-section, even tat removal scars... Mostly this started with a Domme I knew, who was missing a foot just above her right ankle... and who had several other scars on her body from a motorcycle accident. I began by being facinated by the difference, then later turned on by it because I began to associate the disability with all the wonderful things she did to/for me. It's not something I chase after, but like hair or eye color, it's something that attracts me now. I'm also attracted and turned on by klutzes. (I have no idea why.)

petdave -> RE: Inappropriately Aroused (6/28/2008 10:08:29 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MissEnchanted You mentioned Inappropriate arousal. I do not see such an innocent thing as 'in'-appropriate! The same goes for AAkasha. Heh, good point... i've never been to a gym, but i can't imagine a grown woman getting a lot of grief for ogling a grown man while he's working out... i mean, isn't that the whole point? [&:] On a related note... "Surviving History" on the History channel rules! [:)]

TexasMaam -> RE: Inappropriately Aroused (6/29/2008 11:56:48 AM)
Any overtly solicitous man can get Me aroused at an inappropriate time. A Waiter who bows his head and is obviously subservient, a co worker who drops his eyes and says 'Yes, Ma'am', thank you Ma'am' at the office even though he's young enough to be My grandson..... It's submissive behavior that trips My trigger, not blood, guts or sweat. TM

Questen -> RE: Inappropriately Aroused (6/29/2008 8:06:05 PM)
I work in a enviorment that involves lots of ropes, harness, and many times fit women who desire to participate for a vararity of reasons. I always tried to maintain a extreamly professional attituide as I was usually a manager of other employees. However, sometimes some beautiful female would come in to conquer a fear, get more fit, or just curious and she would start to get after it. Now physical exerhtion causes anyone to express them selves in certian ways. Sometimes the cries of effort sounded far to close to the arousing cries of pain and pleasure...ding ding ding...good god that was hot. Please dont do that anymore I would think, Im trying to be professional here. Sometimes the would get frustrated and cuss with the sweetest sounding voice, and I would wonder..would she do that in some uncomfortable bondage when given some task. Stop, stop right there man. Work, work. Needless to say it was even worse when they would start trying to flirt. I just dont hook up with clients, or rather never have. To much ethitic, but talk about yes..it was inappropriately aroused.

MissSCD -> RE: Inappropriately Aroused (6/29/2008 8:19:38 PM)
*We would not be human if we did not have these moments. It makes the day go by faster at work.* *Regards, MissSCD*

GentlemanBobIII -> RE: Inappropriately Aroused (6/30/2008 10:20:58 PM)
Well being hugged and being tickled are hardly the same thing but yes I've recieved 45 hugs in my life. I do know I'd be uncomfortable having the amount of physical contact required in tickling from a man, plus theres the fact of becoming aroused possibly. I had no siblings to tickle fight with andmy parents believed in touching only to hit. No big deal just a fact of my life. Perhaps one of the reasons the IDEA of being tickled is so pervasive is that it requires physical contact and that I have had very little of in my life. It seems mostly men that are into the tickling thing there seem to be a lot fewer women who like to tickle then there are men who like to tickle. -Bob

GentlemanBobIII -> RE: Inappropriately Aroused (6/30/2008 10:26:41 PM)
So you mean me holding a door for you or tipping my hat to you as I tend to do to women I pass might turn you on? Hmmm interesting idea. I never realized it before now but a lot of chivalrous behaviors which I practice are sort of subservient in nature. And I always say maam, betwwen military/ upbringing/ and doing security work, not to mention having lived down south I say maam a lot and I'm being geuinely respectful when I say it. -Bob

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