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petpete -> RE: too busy to be a mistress (6/2/2008 3:38:15 AM)

Well, i wish relationships work in the way You describe them GoddessTeaze but i guess they don't at all times and many times people have been stood up from all sides of the fences...Generally and along the lines we should be able to read how keen someone is for somebody and many times people just cant give the hard words up front so they may try with hints... In this occasion the hints are clear..




GoddessTeaze -> RE: too busy to be a mistress (6/2/2008 3:48:21 AM)

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ORIGINAL: petpete

Well, i wish relationships work in the way You describe them GoddessTeaze but i guess they don't at all times and many times people have been stood up from all sides of the fences...Generally and along the lines we should be able to read how keen someone is for somebody and many times people just cant give the hard words up front so they may try with hints... In this occasion the hints are clear..

Well this is what I mean,
if you need to have it from hints, then that isn't a good relationship, you'll need good communication in order to make it work.
We don't instinctly understands what he/she means,
so We've to sit down and talk about it.

There are signs, there are always signs, those you've to learn to read, instead of stay on that big pink cloud up there pete..
so your vision is troubled.

Its not easy to find that one, that's for sure pete,
but keep on looking!

B safe

GoddezzT`




petpete -> RE: too busy to be a mistress (6/2/2008 3:54:47 AM)

Thanks for the tutoring GT !! i would rather have You with a big ruler on the blackboard pointing me, and me sitting on a small desk in agony wether i answer Your questions wrong or right....... Tension showing...




thetammyjo -> RE: too busy to be a mistress (6/2/2008 6:15:04 AM)

No one should ever just blow someone off.

However, I would say that is the dominant is too busy it may best serve both herself and the submissive he takes up some of the mundane matters that are very likely adding to her busyness.

Of course I can say this because my slave is live so if I'm too busy to make dinner I command him to do so and he is very capable of doing that.




Steponme73 -> RE: too busy to be a mistress (6/2/2008 3:58:44 PM)

Sounds like to me that there was no real connection there.  She has no "obligation" to tell you anything.  However, it would have been considerate if she had.  She obviously is not "into" this particular relationship so  I guess my advice would be to learn from it and move on.




ElanSubdued -> RE: too busy to be a mistress (6/2/2008 10:28:58 PM)

Steponme73,

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Sounds like to me that there was no real connection there.  She has no "obligation" to tell you anything.  However, it would have been considerate if she had.  She obviously is not "into" this particular relationship so I guess my advice would be to learn from it and move on.


Given my take on the OP's situation, I think you've summed up rather well and given excellent, non judgmental  advice.

Elan.




chezzy71 -> RE: too busy to be a mistress (6/4/2008 4:46:35 AM)

I don't like splitting hairs so i will flat out state that she is obligated to tell him something..even if it is get lost.She agreed to meet and agreed to meet again but in between.no contact whatsoever??C'mon folks.Nobody is that busy.If you want a sub/slave..make time.Giving her a free pass is ridiculous as ridiculous if the shoe was on the other foot and the sub basically kicked her to the curb with no contact.Most Dommes don't like drama and believe it or not...there are some of us subs that don't like it either.There's a difference between working very long hours in Lady Pact's case and always being busy.Why would you be so wrapped up for six months??That to me just doesn't make sense...and personally,if you are that wrapped up,perhaps said individual needs to wake up and smell the coffee.That is not living ..that is existing and i am sure given a choice,we all want to live life.I can empathize with those who work ungodly amounts of hours and are so beat by the weekend that the spark just isn't there.I was there once myself and not liking the way i was living,i made adjustments and made time for me.




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