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RE: Unlucky Everydude, OR Pushing a Boulder Uphill for ... - 6/2/2008 7:17:18 AM   
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RE: Unlucky Everydude, OR Pushing a Boulder Uphill for ... - 6/2/2008 7:26:07 AM   
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RE: Unlucky Everydude, OR Pushing a Boulder Uphill for ... - 6/2/2008 9:20:19 AM   
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I am a rude arrogant cocksucking motherfucking prick who Mod 11 has on Speed Spank ...

Its about confidence and attitude - both of which are sexy. Stop trying and BE YOURSELF...


The part I hilighted is the key here; DA evidently found his niche...you will find yours.

Also, another suggestion: spend more time posting on the boards...most of the people here are very nice... .

(has hell frozen over yet?...I actually agreed with something DA posted...    )

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RE: Unlucky Everydude, OR Pushing a Boulder Uphill for ... - 6/2/2008 9:26:14 AM   
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RE: Unlucky Everydude, OR Pushing a Boulder Uphill for ... - 6/2/2008 9:43:46 AM   
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Status: offline 		I haven't seen this question asked yet... have you ever had a girlfriend? Any experience dating women?  Ever asked anyone out? 

I'm asking those questions because I'm wondering about your social skills, in light of the fact that you said your application to the local group was denied.  DENIED?  Do you have to pass a test or something??

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RE: Unlucky Everydude, OR Pushing a Boulder Uphill for ... - 6/2/2008 12:18:11 PM   
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i have to admit Angel....i agree with the part you quoted.....




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RE: Unlucky Everydude, OR Pushing a Boulder Uphill for ... - 6/2/2008 12:21:01 PM   
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There's nothing more pathetic or off-putting than braggarts. If someone knows their self-worth they won't need to talk about themselves all the time.

A man that goes on and on and on about his achievements and successes is insecure and in need of validation. He probably didn't get enough love from his mummy when he was a little boy, and man is it heartbreaking, but certainly, it's not an incentive to do anything good with them (unless one is Mother Theresa ).

Quiet confidence is sexy - and so are horses  .
How about flying machines? Hahahaha

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RE: Unlucky Everydude, OR Pushing a Boulder Uphill for ... - 6/2/2008 12:22:25 PM   
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RE: Unlucky Everydude, OR Pushing a Boulder Uphill for ... - 6/2/2008 12:27:01 PM   
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What more can I do?

Some of the leg work.

Your profile may never be seen by anyone, therefore you have to send mail to people and make the first move. No point having a really nice profile if no one is made aware of it and it sounds like you expect people to see this wonderful profile you have and send you a message.


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RE: Unlucky Everydude, OR Pushing a Boulder Uphill for ... - 6/2/2008 12:30:15 PM   
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Srrsly - expand your profile. talk about who you are, what you like, ect.
The main reason people perve profiles is they read something they write on the boards. Get rid of the vanilla ice cream cone.
Most of all, recognize that submissive women often do not make initial contact. If one contacts you, respond with enthusism, but without too much invested in it - they might be a great girl and a fantastic match, as shown by messaging you - or they might have an agenda.
whatever, quit waiting to get asked to the dance. Do searches on CM on your local area, and write nice, calm, non - pervy, getting - to - know - you letters to girls near you with some interest in common. Make sure you read the whole profile always mention something in the email to show that you did so.
GO TO A MUNCH! there is NO better way to meet people - not to mention getting invited to a few parties.
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RE: Unlucky Everydude, OR Pushing a Boulder Uphill for ... - 6/2/2008 1:21:04 PM   
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ORIGINAL: angelikaJ

quote:

ORIGINAL: DomAviator

I am a rude arrogant cocksucking motherfucking prick who Mod 11 has on Speed Spank ...

Its about confidence and attitude - both of which are sexy. Stop trying and BE YOURSELF...


The part I hilighted is the key here; DA evidently found his niche...you will find yours.

Also, another suggestion: spend more time posting on the boards...most of the people here are very nice... .

(has hell frozen over yet?...I actually agreed with something DA posted...    )



Angelika - I realize there was sarcasm in what you quoted and Im fine with that as Im an acquired taste and definitely not for all. But as the saying goes - there is a lid for every pot.  Like me or not, I am me and I am how I am.

There is no sense trying to put my best foot forward so that some woman says "awwww he is so sympathetic and softhearted and is the patron saint of the downtrodden and believes in world peace and hes an idealistic dreamer, and I just loooooooves him so much". Thats just not me.

What would making a good impression do for me? Get me a relationship based on a lie with some woman who likes me for what she THINKS I am and believe in as opposed to what I really am??? Why, so she can have a heart attack and become physically ill the first time she hears me commenting while reading the newspaper or making insensitive off color remarks to my likeminded buddies?

I commend you for being smart enough to recognize the truth in that reality. As for others one in particular who seems unhealthily obsessed with me to the point I have her blocked and have made it publically known shes blocked and I only see what she says when its quoted....  My advice is this:

Dont make any emotional investment in me. Never mind obsessing about me, dont even think about me. Getting mad, getting upset, complaining about me, etc is a waste of your emotional energy. On the far left is a "hide" icon - click it and I vanish from your universe and you can move on to more important things like looking in the mirror and saying "ooooh look at me Im so pretttyyyyy" (even though your not) and raving about the politics of a county thats not even yours and saving the world from evil Naval Aviators and George W. Bush. LOL

Seriously, for anyone,  if we arent going to hook up and we arent compatible then I dont fucking matter in your life. (and you sure as hell dont matter in mine, except as a bobble head doll thats amusing to slap and watch start bobbing its head in response to my stimuli - its quite amusing actually and I derive great entertainment from it. As other people who have spoken to me privately can attest - we laugh at it and it entertains us greatly. More than once I have - before posting something - told a hot little 20 something now watch ______ go off this will be good.)

Now, to tie the above into the topic for the original poster. Dude, stop obsessing about the weight and your flaws, and your little diatrable about how your a nice guy, not a cradle robber, not in a midlife crisis etc... Because it DOESNT MATTER. There is someone out there for everyone... Including fat guys. Including pricks. Including guys in midlife crisises. Including cradle robbers etc... 

Everyone finds someone appealing . While certain people loathe, detest and despise me, there are a herd of women younger, and prettier, and sexier, than they are who IM me based upon my comments in these forums - with opening comments such as "God __________ is such a cunt." or "Your soooo right Obama is a __________." or "I think is so sexy when a man has the balls to speak his mind"...  

Just BE YOURSELF. Put yourself out there as you are and say "accept me for who I am or go fuck yourself". You may not get the number of responses as someone playing Mr Nice Guy, but you will get higher quality responses as the people responding will be like minded.... Remember , the biggest sex organ is the brain. If a woman doesnt find you sexy for your mind, views, positions, beliefs, and attitude - the slab of rub and grow meat between your legs aint gonna do it. I hate to break it to you but YOUR DICK IS FUCKING UGLY! So is mine! They all look like one eyed spitting worms... Thats not what turns a woman on its your mind.... Speak it, show it, be it...

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RE: Unlucky Everydude, OR Pushing a Boulder Uphill for ... - 6/2/2008 1:56:35 PM   
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DA,
I have never found it necessary to hide, block or blacklist anyone on this site. Kind of what you said - just don't have the emotional energy invested. Even the nastiest letter writers - the nastiest on i can think of wrote me a few letters making comments about my size and beauty (too much of the first, not enough of the second) and how that dovetailed into my interest list in ways he found humourous - wrote me a total of three letters. It is just too easy to ignore him, to bother blacklisting him.
On a local vanilla site from my hometown, i have blacklisted half a dozen people - but my blacklist list doesn't show it. They were all annoying people willing to write me daily, usually with proposals of marriage. (Green card seekers - i gave in my second marriage, so, sorry, i've alreay done my bit). They almost always end up banned from the site, so it looks like i have never blacklisted.
it is, as you said, all about the emotional energy you put into people you don't even know. Master thinks i'm sexy as hell, so what do i care what some stranger from the other side of the country thinks? <shrug>


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RE: Unlucky Everydude, OR Pushing a Boulder Uphill for ... - 6/2/2008 2:03:36 PM   
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Quiet confidence is sexy - and so are horses  .


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RE: Unlucky Everydude, OR Pushing a Boulder Uphill for ... - 6/2/2008 2:11:01 PM   
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RE: Unlucky Everydude, OR Pushing a Boulder Uphill for ... - 6/2/2008 2:34:09 PM   
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Status: offline 		Tsat, I agree with that in principle and have only blocked one person so as to avoid creating additional work for Moderator 11. See she likes to poke and taunt and make unfounded and slanderous allegations and then when she gets bitchslapped she runs crying to the mod. One would think that since I blocked her she would have the courtesy to do the same but as quotes in numerous threads show, shes still  unhealthily obsessed with me. How cute.  Shes still not getting into my bed, no matter how pretty she thinks she is...

I just dont get the people who turn online forums into real world obsessions. Case in point - someone from somewhere online called the Flight Standards District Office in Houston. WHOOOOOOOPPPPPPPS there are only 16,538 active airmen handled out of that office - not including NASA or military pilots... 4,096 of whom can istruct on the basis of being ATP's, and 2102 of whom hold CFI or other instructor ratings...  How do I know this? Because the ASI who fielded the call, a pilot himself, was laughing in a bar about "some crazy bitch calling to complain about a mentally unstable pilot who posts online".... But by God the "mentally unstable" pilot drives a Corvette... Well THAT narrows it right down - so does the ASI and three of the five guys he was telling the story to! LOL 16,538 active civilian pilots in the region, plus NASA and Military... Gee wonder how many drive Vettes??? Unhealty, simply unhealthy regardless of who it was, what site they came from, or who they were talking about because out of 16,538 pilots Im not going to presume Im the only one special enough to have his own sick little online stalker...

But the moral to THIS story for the original poster is - beware what you wish for. Not all attention is positive and while you are eager, beware what you share because some people are just fucking nuts...

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RE: Unlucky Everydude, OR Pushing a Boulder Uphill for ... - 6/2/2008 3:33:14 PM   
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A man that goes on and on and on about his achievements and successes is insecure and in need of validation. He probably didn't get enough love from his mummy when he was a little boy, and man is it heartbreaking, but certainly, it's not an incentive to do anything good with them (unless one is Mother Theresa ).



And their penises are usually very small and inadequate

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RE: Unlucky Everydude, OR Pushing a Boulder Uphill for ... - 6/2/2008 5:09:20 PM   
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I just dont get the people who turn online forums into real world obsessions.

Says the man behind the curtain who's racked up 422 posts (and counting), in the space of about, lessee....6 weeks?

thornhappy

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RE: Unlucky Everydude, OR Pushing a Boulder Uphill for ... - 6/2/2008 5:26:14 PM   
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I just dont get the people who turn online forums into real world obsessions.

Says the man behind the curtain who's racked up 422 posts (and counting), in the space of about, lessee....6 weeks?

thornhappy



Yes Im a frequent poster... But Im not placing calls to the Houston FSDO unless I have business there. I also not engaging in any of the other shit that transfers from online to "real world" unless somebody and I mutually decide to exchange #'s, e-mails, meet, or play...

Edited to add: Its not just this site either... A lot of online people take shit way too seriously... A guy I knew had some crazy bitch from AOL show up at his job.

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