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Mind Games - 10/26/2005 7:36:31 PM

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I posted asking for some ideas for Mind Games (a female domme friend of mine is looking for stuff to do to her boy) but I thought I'd ask here, in the general forum, if anyone has any memorable mind game moments they'd like to share.

I love mind games and would love to hear about other people's experiences.

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RE: Mind Games - 10/26/2005 8:07:35 PM

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I love mind games and would love to hear about other people's experiences.

Mind games are easy to play on most anyone as long as you know the person you are working with. Basically what works for me won't work for you.

Assume you have a fear of snakes. While tied, a snake could be brought out, then you're blindfolded...where is the snake? Perhaps a soft rope could be drawn over your skin. Is it the snake or the rope?
Yet at the same time for a person who does not fear snakes, what have you accomplished?
I've watched a few even try to play them on other's here. With great failure. So, just depends how well you know your victim and what their triggers may be.

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RE: Mind Games - 10/26/2005 9:26:37 PM

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the mindrush is not in the doing but in the NOT doing.

points down the hall to the thread named:>~~>>
Sadomasochism - a nonsensical term?
for a Xample.

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RE: Mind Games - 10/26/2005 9:55:20 PM

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I once tied my loves hands over her head in the "dungeon" after stripping her naked and blindfolding her.

I then procceded to flog her in a pleasureable way, fuck her, use objects on her pussy, ice on her body and many other things, making her cum again and again.

When her body was exhasted, I asked if she had to pee. She had been tied up a long time. She was also on a her period.

She said "yes".

I got a glass and placed it between her legs and she peed a huge amount.

I commented to her that it was all "pink". (she couldn't see this because of the blindfold)

Then I said, "are you thirsty?"

She said, "yes" before she thought about it.

Then I whispered her ear: "good, then you can drink your own piss"

I held the glass to her blindfolded face.

I pressed the edge of the glass to her lips.

She was shaking and terrified of doing this. I knew she did not want to drink her own piss. Especially at that time of month. But I also knew she would do it for me. She would just about anything for me.

I pressed the glass to her lips and tipped it up forcing the liquid into her mouth and down her throat.

The ice water that is. The ice water I prepared before I had asked her if she wanted to piss. (the real glass of piss having been put aside)

The tension before the ice water hit her mouth was palpable, and the release when she realized it was water and not her own piss was emense for her.

She knew how much I loved her and cared for her.

And I knew that she would have drank that piss for me if I had really wanted her to. (and that was all I really needed)

I kissed her and began again working her body to another orgasm.

Mind games. You gotta love 'em.

Wolf

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RE: Mind Games - 10/26/2005 10:11:48 PM

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talk about potential mind games

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RE: Mind Games - 10/26/2005 11:57:05 PM

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Someone once said the brain is the biggest sex organ... So can a mind game can be the best sex?
One of the best mind games I ever played was to have a girl I was playing with tied to a spanking bench at a fetish event and then had a Domme give her a spanking. The Domme was wearing a gas mask, so the poor submissive never saw her face. After she hugged the Domme and then begged her to take the mask off so she could see who spanked her.
She still talks about it 2 years later.
It was the 1st time she was ever spanked by a woman.
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RE: Mind Games - 10/27/2005 12:40:01 AM

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one mind game that can be quite fun is to show a submissive a knife. make sure its a suitably wicked one. then tie and blindfold her, naked, prone. lay the flat of the knife on her flesh, and make her kiss the flat of the blade.

then tell her you are now going to cut her in various places. taking some ice, run it gently, quickly on various bits of her anatomy. the effects can be quite mindblowing if done correctly. while 'cutting' talk about the knife all the time, describe how its marking her skin etc.

for full effect this one only really works the once, but at lower levels can be played again with the same person as long as the mindset is worked on first.

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RE: Mind Games - 10/27/2005 5:50:45 AM

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ORIGINAL: TheChastiser

one mind game that can be quite fun is to show a submissive a knife. make sure its a suitably wicked one. then tie and blindfold her, naked, prone. lay the flat of the knife on her flesh, and make her kiss the flat of the blade.

then tell her you are now going to cut her in various places. taking some ice, run it gently, quickly on various bits of her anatomy. the effects can be quite mindblowing if done correctly. while 'cutting' talk about the knife all the time, describe how its marking her skin etc.

for full effect this one only really works the once, but at lower levels can be played again with the same person as long as the mindset is worked on first.

Mike

Thank you for pointing that out. I got burnt out on knife play because I got played with top after top who thought he was just the coolest domly dom around by moving the knife all over my body and saying "Don't move!" or "Oops, didn't mean to cut there" when it's quite obvious nothings going on.

If you want someone scared...you can't dick around.

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RE: Mind Games - 10/27/2005 6:08:08 AM

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Hello There,
I like little games of chance.
For example have a bag with two white marbles, and five blue marbles. Tell them to reach in the bag. If they pull a white one they get to pick something they want to do, but if they get a blue one you get to do something you want to do.
Another is to tie someone up, blindfold them, and pull out several toys. Run them over their body. The ones they guess correctly they are spared from, the ones they don't guess they are not. Once the guessing game is over you proceed with using what ever was not guessed correctly for the rest of the night.
Send her into a big hardware store. Have her get assistance with say rope. Make a rule she has to say her guy is going to use it to tie her up with it, and watch the clerk’s reaction. It's humiliating, sexy, and funny all at once to do stuff like this. I've been instructed to do this in a very short skirt, no panties, and thigh highs on. Of course the guy liked I bent over towards the bottom shelf a lot too.
These games, and ones like them have a great mind fuck ability for me.
Sincerely,

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RE: Mind Games - 10/27/2005 6:27:28 AM

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Make a rule she has to say her guy is going to use it to tie her up with it, and watch the clerk’s reaction.

Not to be a killjoy, but you should be careful when you involve something like this. Last thing you want is the cops being called. Or, as has happened here a tack shop that no longer sells to just anyone. Someone used a whip in the store on their submissive, and when they tried to explain it was ok to the owner and why it was ok, well the owner did not agree. Now you have to prove you have a horse before they will sell to you.
However the leather supply shop will give us a membership and a discount… LOL
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RE: Mind Games - 10/27/2005 7:54:53 AM

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I once brought out my dice cup. (with five dies in it) And then shook it, telling my sub that what ever total number came up would be the number of strokes I was going to give her with my fiberglass cane.

Talk about seeing her eyes bulge.

It can also be interesting to have her roll the dice, so that she herself is choosing how many strokes she will receive.

Wolf

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RE: Mind Games - 10/27/2005 11:25:14 AM

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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

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ORIGINAL: TheChastiser

one mind game that can be quite fun is to show a submissive a knife. make sure its a suitably wicked one. then tie and blindfold her, naked, prone. lay the flat of the knife on her flesh, and make her kiss the flat of the blade.

then tell her you are now going to cut her in various places. taking some ice, run it gently, quickly on various bits of her anatomy. the effects can be quite mindblowing if done correctly. while 'cutting' talk about the knife all the time, describe how its marking her skin etc.

for full effect this one only really works the once, but at lower levels can be played again with the same person as long as the mindset is worked on first.

Mike

Thank you for pointing that out. I got burnt out on knife play because I got played with top after top who thought he was just the coolest domly dom around by moving the knife all over my body and saying "Don't move!" or "Oops, didn't mean to cut there" when it's quite obvious nothings going on.

If you want someone scared...you can't dick around.

of course one can swing the changes and really cut on occasion, as long as such knife play involving real edges and blood is concentual.

Mike

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