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BlackSakura -> What does your sub wear? (6/3/2008 9:03:21 PM)

What do or would you like to see yoru sub (male) in?  I am looking for some new ideas.




Madame4a -> RE: What does your sub wear? (6/3/2008 9:11:03 PM)

at work
at play
out in a dungeon
in a vanilla setting
in bed
on the floor
tied up?

Sorry... in what context?




MasterFireMaam -> RE: What does your sub wear? (6/3/2008 10:50:57 PM)

UNIFORM.

Leather.

Suit.

Those are my preferences, in that order, if I'm dressing him up.

Master Fire




jim64 -> RE: What does your sub wear? (6/3/2008 11:58:13 PM)

Cool advice! Understand the dressing up part. Never know what i should wear since i enjoy the simplicity of nothing usually. 




MissMagnolia -> RE: What does your sub wear? (6/4/2008 12:01:26 AM)

At home? Nothing but a smile.




MasterFireMaam -> RE: What does your sub wear? (6/4/2008 12:09:18 AM)

Well, it depends on where you're going and what your doing. I wouldn't have a military person where a uniform on a flight, for example. It makes them a target. Certainly, I wouldn't try to send them to the grocery store nekid, as much fun as that might sound. Usually, I think "leather event" when people ask these kinds of questions.

If you're curious about what to wear when simply meeting, the adage about "neat and clean" usually works along with "dress casual" or "dress appropriate" for the place your going.

Master Fire




MasterFireMaam -> RE: What does your sub wear? (6/4/2008 12:10:32 AM)

Yep, gotta love that one...until you get one that's got no body fat and while you do and so you've set the thermastat low...blue, chattering slaves are no fun at all! Finally told the boy to put some clothes on. We compromised with no shirt. LOL

Master Fire




LadyPact -> RE: What does your sub wear? (6/4/2008 12:22:13 AM)

Are we talking about playing, events, home???

If we go to something play oriented, he usually wears scrubs.  (I think there's a shot in one of My profile pics.)  They come off easy for when it's time to play. 

One thing I have to say here.  Underwear.  I didn't like the style of underwear that he had at all when he became Mine.  Now, it's more something I like.




BlackSakura -> RE: What does your sub wear? (6/4/2008 12:41:10 AM)

I guess I mean in all the different contexts.  Home, out and about, formal, etc.




LadyPact -> RE: What does your sub wear? (6/4/2008 1:00:09 AM)

Easy enough.

For work/school he has different uniforms.  The regular one for the school house and whites for when he's on the hospital floor.

Formal events, such as service oriented things, it's white shirt and black pants.  The basic thing for a Madame's brunch or private salon day.  I've had him participate in various lifestyle/charity events where this was the standard.

At home or local munch type thing, casual (jeans, shirt) is just fine with Me.  I'd have him in less, but it's not an option.

For play, naked.  If he's still wearing the scrubs at a public play party and our time on the sign up sheet arrives, I'll raise My eyebrows and ask if we are ready to play.  That means strip.  I want him in just his collar, wrist, and ankle restraints.






chezzy71 -> RE: What does your sub wear? (6/4/2008 1:03:58 AM)

I think Miss Magnolia is a clear winner here.Look..this topic has come up before and i have read everything from boys don't know how to dress to i like my boy with sparklers coming out of his arse.Alright so i exagerrated the second one but how many time times have i read about expectations and not to have any of them,especially concerning the Domme.How many traipse around the house in sweats and little furry slippers and are not wearing PVC or leather outfits with spiked collars and six inch stilletos all the while touting a deerskin flogger in her best hand??/So if the Domme wants and desires and deserves comfort..quite frankly,so do i.I like to wear gym shorts or bermudas and hawaiin shirts exclusively and if it is necessary,then i have no problem with dressing to the nines if you will.But i like to dress for comfort first and yes i am perfectly able to pick out my own color scheme.




MissMagnolia -> RE: What does your sub wear? (6/4/2008 1:11:30 AM)

Damn chezzy!! I forgot to mention the sparklers in the arse!!

Nothing but a smile AND 3 sparklers coming out of his arse!![:D]




darchChylde -> RE: What does your sub wear? (6/4/2008 1:17:29 AM)

From my experiences with Ma'am:

Around the house - jeans or shorts and a t-shirt or topless; really however i'm most comfortable (within reason, as we're seldomly alone around the house and i know several in our family who have no interest in seeing my gedanglins); plus, i'm allowed a hat or bandana to keep my hair out of my face

In general public - Same as above without topless being an option, though nothing on my head if we're out to eat

Lifestyle events - Jeans and an oxford or a pullover, no t-shirt and nothing on the head; neat and clean, basically semi-formal.  Though at the last play party we went to and She was having fun scratching me and stuff, She made a comment about me not really being able feel the vampire gloves or Her nails through the denim; so i found a pair of slacks that look good with my desert combat boots, so that's not going to be an issue next time.

In a scene - In Ma'ams words, "however you think you'll be able to feel the most"... that translated, in my head, to naked

Edited to Add:  For those who said "nothing but a smile", i'm sure the smile is conditional upon whatever you want to do to him and what kind of look you want to see on his face.  Something tells me that there are times a dominant might want to see her submissive wearing "nothing but a look of abject terror".




rubberpet -> RE: What does your sub wear? (6/4/2008 2:13:44 AM)

Hmmmm, Mistress definitely has Her preferences.  I bet you can't guess what's Her favorite...[;)]  My profile shows a few of my different sides.

Just lounging around the house, I'm typically a baggy shorts and t-shirt kind of guy.  If I'm on my days off from work, comfort is my best friend.  Plus, being that the temperature is already in the lower to mid-90s in Louisiana, I'd rather not sweat to death.

In public, pretty much the same as above.  I like to wear sports jerseys with jeans, my sneakers, and definitely my Oakley's, but I can also do the semi-prep look, too...a nice polo, jeans, and sneakers.  Where we go usually dictates what I wear...and Mistress dictates both location and mode of dress.

I have yet to go to fetish events with Mistress, but in the past, it was 99.9% head to toe rubber, no matter how hot it was.  There was one time I was vending at M.A.L. for Purple Passion in Washington, D.C., but I wore a tight black t-shirt and tight leather pants with biker boots.

Since Mistress has Her preferences, full rubber can and will be substituted at Her discretion.  Mistress is special...most dommes prefer to have their subs naked with just a smile, but Mistress thinks that is so antiquated, stereotypical, and overdone.  She isn't one that follows a crowd or general preference, so since She absolutely loves rubber, She prefers to encase and lock Her pet in as much rubber as possible...no matter where we go or if it's 105 degrees in the shade.  It's usually my catsuit, gloves, and stockings with cuffs and everything locked on, but She'll throw a hood on me for good measure if She catches the urge.  She has the only key to unlock any zipper and since She's locked the crotch zippers, I have to beg for and earn my bathroom privileges.  There are a few occasions where She prefers me naked, though.....

The one staple of my wardrobe that is ALWAYS there is the gorgeous collar around my neck and around my heart. [:)]




Lashra -> RE: What does your sub wear? (6/4/2008 3:04:46 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: BlackSakura

I guess I mean in all the different contexts.  Home, out and about, formal, etc.

At home he is naked
Out and about jeans, boots and a shirt
formal-a nice suit
scening-naked and wearing a mask.

~Lashra





MsStarlett -> RE: What does your sub wear? (6/4/2008 3:43:50 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterFireMaam

Yep, gotta love that one...until you get one that's got no body fat and while you do and so you've set the thermastat low...blue, chattering slaves are no fun at all! Finally told the boy to put some clothes on. We compromised with no shirt. LOL

Master Fire


Yeah... Shrinkage is no fun.




MsStarlett -> RE: What does your sub wear? (6/4/2008 3:51:51 AM)

oh... Choke chain & a tail will be fine for my boy this weekend.  *happy grins*

Although he wants to go full Punk to the mall with me in his bondage pants and big boots.  Fine by me.  I enjoy playing 'freak the vanillas' from time to time.  Guess I'll pull on my thigh high white boots and blue spandex dress.  If I'm going to be out and about with a Punk Kid 1/2 my age, might as well go all out.




malloves69 -> RE: What does your sub wear? (6/4/2008 3:57:51 AM)

when my mistress walks in my door she wants to see me naked [:)] and fresh and clean inside and outside [:)] sometimes she requests me wearing my butt plug and the little head shaved clean as well as the big head too [:)] my lady has trained me well [:)] have fun mal




rubberpet -> RE: What does your sub wear? (6/4/2008 4:02:22 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MsStarlett

oh... Choke chain & a tail will be fine for my boy this weekend.  *happy grins*

Although he wants to go full Punk to the mall with me in his bondage pants and big boots.  Fine by me.  I enjoy playing 'freak the vanillas' from time to time.  Guess I'll pull on my thigh high white boots and blue spandex dress.  If I'm going to be out and about with a Punk Kid 1/2 my age, might as well go all out.


Hmmmm, very nice...he's a very lucky boy! [;)]

Remember though, it's a two-step process.  You get to play "freak the vanillas", but you also get to arouse the "closet pervs", too...and you in that spandex dress should certainly "arouse" a few interests! [;)]




MsStarlett -> RE: What does your sub wear? (6/4/2008 4:05:31 AM)

*oh happy day*  He just told me in the IM's that he's got a small remote butt plug.  He'll wear it for me to the mall.  This is a first meet with my new toy who has never been with a Domme before.  (Pardon, I'll try not to Thread Jack)




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