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trusting -> MASTERbating (6/4/2008 3:47:21 AM)
i am curious as to the effects of masterbation on a Man. hypothetically speaking... if a Man had not been with a woman in a year and He pleased Himself during this time, would it affect the manner in which He climaxed? i am trying to ask: if He were used to this for this period of time, would He be unable to climax without masterbating?

RavenMuse -> RE: MASTERbating (6/4/2008 4:22:23 AM)
Overly generic question... not all Men would react the same. I am sure some Men out there might react that way, but I'd think most wouldn't.

Dnomyar -> RE: MASTERbating (6/4/2008 4:30:03 AM)
I think a woman would be more prone to do that than a man.

trusting -> RE: MASTERbating (6/4/2008 4:35:06 AM)
this is just something that i have experienced with a Man... He was always in need of masterbating on my breasts or in my mouth, i assumed that maybe He is not able to climax without His masterbating?

windchymes -> RE: MASTERbating (6/4/2008 5:06:02 AM)
In the case you just described, it's possible it's the only way he can cum, but it's probably a want more than a need. There's a saying out there......a man never needs a reason to cum, he just needs a place [;)]

RavenMuse -> RE: MASTERbating (6/4/2008 5:17:09 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: trusting this is just something that i have experienced with a Man... He was always in need of masterbating on my breasts or in my mouth, i assumed that maybe He is not able to climax without His masterbating? 'Assumed'... you haven't asked? If you are not confident about 'asking' directly... try begging him to fuck your ass or cunt... a bit of begging works wonders to raise His interest in making that choise.... if He still doesn't then it leaves a natural opening for the question to be raised.... just don't 'assume'

boytoy4female -> RE: MASTERbating (6/4/2008 5:23:34 AM)
On the other hand, you could try some tease and denial, until he is worked into an intense frenzy....perhaps over a period of a few days without masturbation. On the other hand, I have experienced being so worked up that I wanted to cum so badly I couldnt...Point is, be playful and experiment

RavenMuse -> RE: MASTERbating (6/4/2008 5:25:12 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: boytoy4female On the other hand, you could try some tease and denial, until he is worked into an intense frenzy....perhaps over a period of a few days without masturbation. LOL check the profile... THAT ain't going to work.... wrong side of the Dynamic!

MstrVik -> RE: MASTERbating (6/4/2008 7:58:06 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: trusting i am curious as to the effects of masterbation on a Man. hypothetically speaking... if a Man had not been with a woman in a year and He pleased Himself during this time, would it affect the manner in which He climaxed? i am trying to ask: if He were used to this for this period of time, would He be unable to climax without masterbating? I have read somewhere that too much masturbation can make a man go blind, and if he had been at it for a year..hmmm. Was he blind? That could be another hint! Joking aside; maybe it simply turns him on more to cum in those other ways. Or that it's a way for him to tease you - and if so, it sure seems like it's working. - I also think you should ask him. And maybe all it would take was for you to ask nicely- who knows... [sm=cool.gif]

FRSguy -> RE: MASTERbating (6/4/2008 9:36:07 AM)
Men differ between themselves however if a man does not orgasm on a regular basis then the muscles that are used to orgasm weaken and it makes the guy cum in like two seconds so masterbation is a good thing for men because it keeps the muscles fit and keeps the sperm production up. As far as why a man would end things jerking off there could be a few reasons. Some men find that watching a woman take there cum as being an intimate sign of acceptance while others view it as really hot just to watch the cum fly. Some men like to control there orgasm because some woman just dont know what to do with a guy when he starts to cum. Like woman, men get used to a steady stimulation that leads up to orgasm and if the sensations change just as the man starts to cum then it can screw up the intensity of the orgasm. Its much easier if the sensations are predictable through the orgasm so you dont have to process whats going on while orgasming. Because woman have a tendency to do things that are painfull durring orgasm or stop stimulation half way through the orgasm its sometimes better to take charge so to speak. It doesnt take much to condition a guys reaction. I had a girl back when I was a young teen that gave me blow job and durring the orgasm it was one of the most painful sexual experiences I had ever had. Now I really have to have a lot of trust to orgasm from blow job. The woman that I am with now had to work at it for about four or five months before she could get me to cum which was kind of funny because she worked so hard at it and wanted it so badly that when I did finally go she practically orgasmed herself.

IronBear -> RE: MASTERbating (6/4/2008 11:22:31 AM)
Of course there are some men and women of the occult persuasion (others areas may do this too) who are trained to use masterbation and intercourse and orgasm internally so as to raise conscious levels and personal energy/power.... It has little or no effect of their ability to have sex with a partner of eother gender as far as I am aware... Iron Bear Master of Bruin Cottage (A Victorian Lifestyle poly home) "I judge a Man by what I see him do and not by what others tell me he does." (Captain Sir Edward Pellew of the HMS Indefatigable to Midshipman Hornblower ~ C.S. Forrester)

Missokyst -> RE: MASTERbating (6/4/2008 12:58:53 PM)
We had a discussion about this on a group I belong to. We found that some men get dependant on a particular type of stimulation and it is difficult to orgasm when things are changed. For that matter, a similar thing happened to women using vibrators, where they needed that level of stimulation to orgasm. Likely your partner has gotten used to doing things the way it feels good to him, and does not want to let that go. Or.. he just enjoys seeing his cum on your body. Kyst

HeavansKeeper -> RE: MASTERbating (6/4/2008 3:41:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: trusting i am curious as to the effects of masterbation on a Man. hypothetically speaking... if a Man had not been with a woman in a year and He pleased Himself during this time, would it affect the manner in which He climaxed? i am trying to ask: if He were used to this for this period of time, would He be unable to climax without masterbating? It's extremely rare for men to become turned conditioned away from sex, only able to climax while masturbating. Usually its the opposite. Lets take vaginal sex. Compared to masturbation, there are sights, smells, feelings, sounds, and maybe even tastes (if you're doing it right) that add to the experience. That said, there are times when the sex is lackluster, and a man could get himself off much faster than with a partner. Worst comes to worst, the pop shot is manually induced.

TysGalilah -> RE: MASTERbating (6/4/2008 4:48:51 PM)
they say 2 things happen when you masterbate too frequently..... 1. It begins to effect your memory and 2. ............ what was I saying??? [8\|] [sm=duck.gif]

lilacs -> RE: MASTERbating (6/4/2008 5:21:17 PM)
~FR~ Could also be he has some concerns about unwanted pregnancy? An ex of mine avoided orgasm while we were having penis-vagina sex because even though he knew I was religious about my hormonal B.C. and he was using a condom he had a ... mental block shall we say?

antipode -> RE: MASTERbating (6/5/2008 4:13:54 AM)
Only if he couldn't spell the word; he'd be boating around the bash

Dnomyar -> RE: MASTERbating (6/5/2008 5:06:38 AM)
Masturbating a lot makes you go blind [8D]. Could someone please read this back to me.

SteelofUtah -> RE: MASTERbating (6/6/2008 3:40:42 PM)
Do you enjoy it? If you do then what's the problem? I seems to be his particular passion. Unless you dislike the action I would say just go with it. I like to dump my junk in the trunk and there are times when NOT doing it that way takes longer and in some cases I lose the desire to ejaculate and just enjoyed myself without ejaculation. The Human Sexual Organ is a strange thing. Look into it. Steel

Lumus -> RE: MASTERbating (6/7/2008 8:43:35 AM)
quote: The Human Sexual Organ is a strange thing. Look into it. Steel cracks out the scope So...you good without anaesthetic, or do I need to crack out the needle, too? [ya big baby]

WinsomeDefiance -> RE: MASTERbating (6/7/2008 12:42:08 PM)
Damn, I misread the title. I thought it read, MASTERbaiting. Was hoping to find the topic more in line with the submissives catch-and-release sport of fly fishing.

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