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RE: MASTERbating - 6/7/2008 11:48:16 PM

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This is rather difficult to know for certain.   Personally, I'm one of those Masterbates and uses self relief when I'm not in a relationship.

Sure, it's a little new to be having sex with somebody after awhile with going without.    It might take a bit or awhile for him to find the right position and timing and all that fun stuff to reach a climax with you.

It's just a matter of Exploring things and trying things out until you find that magic button that does it.

Even though a few people have made comments about you being on the wrong side of the dynamic.   Teasing and Denial are something that perhaps you can work out with him. If anything perhaps just teasing will work. Perhaps if he enforces Denial upon himself it will help.

I have and will use a submissive to tease my ownself with. Trust me, it helps and it works just fine. It is something that you and him should be able to talk about and explore.

Even if he does not cum inside you, and instead cums on you. Consider the fact, he finds you sexy and attractive to cum all over.   That thought should help you some.

Don't know what else to tell you.   Good luck.

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RE: MASTERbating - 6/8/2008 12:19:37 PM

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i am curious as to the effects of masterbation on a Man.

hypothetically speaking... if a Man had not been with a woman in a year and He pleased Himself during this time, would it affect the manner in which He climaxed?

i am trying to ask: if He were used to this for this period of time, would He be unable to climax without masterbating?

I cannot remember where I read it...but I would think it is quite abit like watching porn.

It becomes so much a part of the psyche that when it comes to the "real deal", performance is lost! Too much of an alternative becomes a hinderance.

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RE: MASTERbating - 6/8/2008 1:35:11 PM

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no..a Man can cum or not for any nunber of reasons...but thats not one of them I would think...but I can say if he is used to his hand...get one of those vibs that slip over his cock and onto your clit and see what happens...

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RE: MASTERbating - 6/8/2008 1:39:35 PM

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I have beem with more than one man that couldnt cum when with a woman for the first time or maybe even second. Until he gets comfortable with you..My Sir didnt cum when with me til his 3rd time. He didnt cum from a BJ with me until 5 months. Let him get comfortable and be patient.

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RE: MASTERbating - 6/8/2008 4:12:53 PM

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About the same effect as eating hamburger for a year instead of steak. There is an old saying that 99% of men admit to masturbating and the other 1% lie about it. Frequent masturbation can also improve sexual performance.

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RE: MASTERbating - 6/8/2008 4:25:34 PM

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this is just something that i have experienced with a Man... He was always in need of masterbating on my breasts or in my mouth, i assumed that maybe He is not able to climax without His masterbating?

Probably thought that was sexy or something. That is what they do in porn flicks although personally I prefer to cum in not out.

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