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KittenWithaTwist -> RE: What makes you........? (10/30/2005 1:57:36 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SweetSarijane I am curious to know what people believe makes them what/who they are in this life, be it Dominant, submissive, slave, switch, Master, Mistress. Do you believe you were born to be what you are? Do you believe circumstances throughout your life conditioned, or made you what you are? Do you believe it's a combination of those two things? Or is it something entirely different for you? Do I believe I was born to be who I am? No. I do believe that I have certain personality traits that led to my submissive nature and my dominant nature, but I do not think it was a predisposition. Do I believe in certain circumstances that led to my current situation/orientation? Yes. I'm still searching for the answer as to why I am the way I am. I may continue searching for the rest of my life. Who knows? I certainly don't have all the answers for myself.

slavedesires -> RE: What makes you........? (10/30/2005 2:51:15 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: jockeypants Whereas someone born naturally submissive but is put in a childhood situation that they need to be dominant to survive intact can make for a strange mix. Possibly wonderful, possibly sad. Wonderfully said jockey [;)] Possibly this is where "dominant" slaves find themselves. Strong willed, independent, self determined, yet totally surrendered to another?

KittenWithaTwist -> RE: What makes you........? (10/30/2005 3:38:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: slavedesires quote: ORIGINAL: jockeypants Whereas someone born naturally submissive but is put in a childhood situation that they need to be dominant to survive intact can make for a strange mix. Possibly wonderful, possibly sad. Wonderfully said jockey [;)] Possibly this is where "dominant" slaves find themselves. Strong willed, independent, self determined, yet totally surrendered to another? I wouldn't say that being strong willed and independent makes you a "dominant" anything. It makes you just that-strong and independent. Those are great things to be. Few dominants want a slave who is weak willed and dependent.

SweetSarijane -> RE: What makes you........? (10/31/2005 1:59:51 PM)
I just wanted to thank all who replied. I found the responses very interesting and thought provoking. I like hearing what others think and believe on this and other issues. Individual opinions do count, at least I know they do to me, and learning what others think, feel, and believe makes them who they are, is important. Again thank you all.

phoenixMF -> RE: What makes you........? (10/31/2005 2:30:34 PM)
being a slave... for me... it was constant slave training across the board, by every person who has ever been in my life... from birth to present day...

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