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how does Orgasm Control Work? - 6/5/2008 7:47:29 PM   
lilmissdefiant


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Status: offline 		I'm really confused, how is possible for someone to "cum" on command?
and usually once and orgasm starts it can't be stopped so will some one please tell me how it works???


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RE: how does Orgasm Control Work? - 6/5/2008 8:56:00 PM   
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Status: offline 		The search button (upper right hand corner) is really handy.  I typed in "orgasm command" and here is what i got:

http://www.collarchat.com/searchpro.asp?phrase=orgasm+command&author=&forumid=ALL&topicreply=both&message=body&timeframe=%3E&timefilter=0&language=single&top=300&criteria=AND&minRank=0&sortMethod=r&submitbutton=+OK+

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RE: how does Orgasm Control Work? - 6/5/2008 9:49:18 PM   
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RE: how does Orgasm Control Work? - 6/5/2008 10:00:39 PM   
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Usually "control" really means "able to hold off until I give the signal."  But some really can directly control when it starts and stops to a fine degree and in which no physical stimulation is required to orgasm.

http://www.collarchat.com/m_588912/mpage_2/key_orgasm%252Ccontrol/tm.htm#592158
orgasm on command?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_412753/mpage_1/key_cum%252Ccommand/tm.htm#412758
cum control

http://www.collarchat.com/m_313958/mpage_4/key_orgasm%252Ccommand/tm.htm#318568
cum on command 

http://www.collarchat.com/m_400934/mpage_1/key_cum%252Ccommand/tm.htm#400996
orgasm on demand

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RE: how does Orgasm Control Work? - 6/5/2008 10:02:12 PM   
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Status: offline 		For me, it was just a process of becoming conditioned to respond to His voice.  He gets me excited and brings me to the verge and then makes me hold it until He's ready and then He tells me to cum and i do.
 
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RE: how does Orgasm Control Work? - 6/6/2008 5:28:07 AM   
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Status: offline 		NLP or pavlovian methods can but used to form trigger commands that cause a physical reaction... in this instance orgam.

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RE: how does Orgasm Control Work? - 6/6/2008 3:50:17 PM   
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Status: offline 		You can also use a post-hypnotic suggestion.  But that takes a lot of work, time and trust.

Pavlov is more straightforward.

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RE: how does Orgasm Control Work? - 6/6/2008 6:42:54 PM   
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Status: offline 		If you assume the unproven hypotheis that trance states like hypnosis and subspace are in fact more similar than different, then the process becomes basicly the same. Put them into a trance state through whatever means you have and plant the suggestion.
Repeated suggestion of the same thing builds power. Combining it with Pavlovian response conditioning and it happens even faster.

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RE: how does Orgasm Control Work? - 6/6/2008 6:59:39 PM   
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For me, it was just a process of becoming conditioned to respond to His voice.  He gets me excited and brings me to the verge and then makes me hold it until He's ready and then He tells me to cum and i do.


This is pretty much the way it worked for me.  I have also found that I am able to have an orgasm simply by performing oral sex on Him.  He isn't touching me at all, but I have become aroused, and just pleasuring Him has brought me to the edge and then over it.

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RE: how does Orgasm Control Work? - 6/6/2008 8:40:22 PM   
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Status: offline 		For us it is essentially pavlovian. Fox isnt allowed to touch unless he is with me, and he is conditioned to nee dpermission to do so.  With Angel, the conditioning includes the smell and feel of baby oil, which makes teasing him for hours far more interesting.

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RE: how does Orgasm Control Work? - 6/7/2008 8:50:54 AM   
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Status: offline 		It's also possible to induce an orgasm more or less out of nowhere.  There isn't any specific 'trick' to it.  I'd explain further, but if I did Rain would know one of my "magician's secrets". 

Thought I'd add that in since most of the posts have slanted towards orgasm denial before release.  Out of curiosity, is anyone else familiar with inducing spontaneous orgasm, or does the majority build and condition towards it?  [More than one way to skin a cat, me mum always used to say...]



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RE: how does Orgasm Control Work? - 6/9/2008 6:20:31 PM   
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Status: offline 		I've never had an orgasm on command, or really tried either, but after a period of denial it is definitely possible for me to cum without having my cock touched.  One must be careful...

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RE: how does Orgasm Control Work? - 6/9/2008 7:03:24 PM   
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Status: offline 		my play partner and i use a count down method and that works pretty well for me being im just now learning.

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