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RE: The Vanilla Truth - 6/6/2008 6:25:37 AM   
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Hell, basically think of Vanilla Ice cream. It's plain white stuff. Not any color to it, tastes all the same. Not really all that interesting.


Not interesting for you.  I love vanilla.  Vanilla birthday cake.  Vanilla icing filled cookies, vanilla syrup in coffee, etc.  I can't love my vanilla life or my lifestyle life because I simply don't look at my life in vanilla/lifestyle compartments.  I live my life.  I don't live a lifestyle.  It's much easier if people can live their life in its entirety without trying to segment it. 




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RE: The Vanilla Truth - 6/6/2008 6:27:05 AM   
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for this slave, a "vanilla" relationship describes a "traditional" one.  one which is accepted and acknowledged by our collective society.  for example:  boyfriend/girlfriend or husband/wife.
 
this slave would consider a Master/slave or Dom/sub relationship to be an "alternative" one, or "non-vanilla", in reference to the dynamics of the relationship being different than the traditionally accepted versions.

 
the boyfriend/girlfriend, the husband/wife, the Master/slave and the Dom/sub all engage in similar activities such as driving a car, shopping for food or taking a walk.  how those activities are planned or executed are up to the couples involved.
 
for this slave, "vanilla", or "non-vanilla" aren't terms she uses to describe daily activities...they are terms used to describe the contrast between different versions of relationship dynamics, sexual proclivities, music, financial instruments, information technology, etc., with value judgement reserved only for how that relates to self, not others or their choices.
 
Information Technology:
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 vanilla (pronounced vah-NIHL-uh ) is an adjective meaning plain or basic. The unfeatured version of a product is sometimes referred to as the vanilla version. The term is based on the fact that vanilla is the most popular or at least the most commonly served flavor of ice cream. Or, as Eric Raymond, editor of The New Hacker's Dictionary , puts it, the
default ice cream.
IBM's BookMaster product, a text publishing system used in mainframe environments, provides a default way, called
vanilla , to specify which parts of the book to publish, and another fancier way to specify it, called mocha .
Some Web sites with frames call the simpler version of their site the vanilla version.

http://whatis.techtarget.com/definition/0,,sid9_gci213272,00.html


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plain vanilla:  Refers to the bare minimum of functions that are known to be available in an application or system. Contrast with bells and whistles.
 
http://www.pcmag.com/encyclopedia_term/0,2542,t=plain+vanilla&i=49345,00.asp

Business/Financial Investments:

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Vanilla Option:  A category of options which include only those with the most standard components.  A plain vanilla option has an expiration date and straightforward strike price.  American style options and European style options are both categorized as plain vanilla options.  opposite of exotic option.

http://www.investorwords.com/6884/plain_vanilla_option.html

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The standard version of something, such as a bond or option.  A plain vanilla term would not have any special components, unlike an exotic item which is more complex and varied.  One example of this is a plain vanilla option.


'plain vanilla ' appears in the definitions of these terms on BusinessDictionary.com
 
Physics Research:
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While it is true that requirements on ID can be very analysis dependent, the CDF and DØ experience shows that especially in the early stages of the experiment it is very convenient to have generic ("vanilla") definitions of electrons and photons.
http://uscms.org/LPC/lpc_eg/vanilla_id.htm

Sex:
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These days... it's all vanilla sex for me.
Larry Flynt
 
Music:
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When you hear my records today, you hear a vanilla sounding artist with no black inflection, although I was trying to imitate what I heard.

Pat Boone
 
Computer R.P.G.:
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In Vanilla Gamist play, what to compete about (or to achieve, or to be challenged about, if you prefer these terms) is relatively informal, and not too dependent on specified personal tactics. In other words, you can "lose" without it reflecting much on you as a player. It might often have a high degree of randomness, or have a number of small Colorful variables rather than one crucial live-or-die ones, or be pretty easy and no big deal to keep playing after loss conditions apply.

Such play is usually humorous, which isn't hard to understand - if you're playing in a challenge/competition context and losing/failing isn't a big deal, then it's a low-threat "pickup" kind of experience. Examples of designs that lend themselves to this sort of play include Tunnels & Trolls, Toon, and Paranoia.

 http://www.indie-rpgs.com/forum/index.php?topic=4299.0



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RE: The Vanilla Truth - 6/6/2008 7:00:37 AM   
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My favorite soda is Diet Dr Pepper cherry Vanilla. That's some good sheet man.

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RE: The Vanilla Truth - 6/6/2008 7:16:47 AM   
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Mind you real vanilla yummmmy....pods used to flavour plain sugar.
So yes I would use the term as a term of differentiation rather than an absolute.
So I'm going with yummy as just well yummy.....



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