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shylittleheart -> RE: opps (7/25/2004 5:59:43 PM)
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ok let me try to put details to what took place without names.
About 6 months ago started chatting with a girl here who i believed at the time was in South Florida. She stated she was 44. We were talking alot and then all of a sudden it stopped. Then about three months ago she sent me an email telling me she had been in ohio and recently returned to Fla. She was living with a gentleman age in mid 80s she was taking care of. Then afew days later said she was wishing to leave there and find a new home. She gave no reason why, and then quit writing again. Then about a day later said she was leaving because this old man crawled into bed with her nude. I didnt doubt it. she admitted at that time she had been released on parole from prison for a drug charge she served 8 years for. She was leaving going to North Carolina to live with a Dom couple and to be their slave,housekeeper and nanny to their children. I thought ok, she doesnt want to remain in Fl and it is her choice and told her id be her friend . About two weeks after she left she started emailing me stating how unhappy she was and how the man was abusive and his wife was using her as an excuse to get a divorce. Things seemed odd. she then spoke with my Master begging to allow her to come to Him under a training contract. We blew it off. Then she asked to call and cryed to us she was being kicked out and had no place to go. We wired her the money to come and she arrived 3 weeks ago. Right from the start we knew most of what we had heard was not true,starting with her age she was not 44 but 49. She was on parole and had to report to an officer weekly, she had 2 heart attacks and had other major health issues which needed attention as well as MS and walked with a cane. She had mental issues and was unable to tell real from fantasy. She claimed she had been a chef and could cook, which we found she could not. She couldnt remember anything she was told and each time she told about herself the story changed. Now she is out of this house for Master asked her to leave and before she left made her make an appointment with a shrink and call her PO officer here in Boca. There is alot more to it but can not go into it .... Let me just say ive learned not to be so trusting, not to be so wanting to help those in need and cry wolf. This is the second time in the last year we had opened our home to another who needed a place to live. But its hard when you live paycheck to paycheck and have a person come into it, who will not work or states they can not and wants you supporting them. We did not know of this until to late. Never again is all i can say. Replacing things missing is easy, replacing the hurt in the heart is another. That is something not replaced or fixed that easy.
Be careful all
for she is looking already again
thank you
shy
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