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Life goes on - 10/28/2005 5:37:49 PM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		Today i was told by the Dom i was hoping who would collar me that he will not because he really does not have time to be the Master he would like to be. He did say he would help me find a new Master. I am glad he told me and not let me twist in the wind. I have heard many stories about that ,i was one of the lucky ones. I guess i am not looking for advice i just had to let this out. Thanks for reading.

littleone
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RE: Life goes on - 10/28/2005 5:40:37 PM   
RainGod


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From: Hendersonville, NC
Status: offline 		Hi littleone,

I am sorry you experienced this sad event. It is never easy to feel disappointment. I wish you the best of luck, though.

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Love is a razor & I walk the line on that silver blade... slept in the dust with His daughter her eyes red with the slaughter of innocence... The evil that men do lives on & on.
~ Iron Maiden

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RE: Life goes on - 10/28/2005 5:42:49 PM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		Thank You Rain God I am just glad he told me before we got too too involved and we both ended up hurt. That said still hurts a little but is managable and we are going to keep in touch.

littleone

< Message edited by littleone35 -- 10/28/2005 5:51:26 PM >

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RE: Life goes on - 10/29/2005 8:08:06 AM   
perfection20005


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Status: offline 		I'm sorry this happened. I have never experienced it myself, but I do know what it's like to have your hopes destroyed. I guess you can look at the bright side, and be glad that he will help you find another if that's what you want. I do wish you the best of luck.

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"I took one look at Him, and I knew He was my Master."

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RE: Life goes on - 10/29/2005 8:26:36 AM   
fyreredsub


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Status: offline 		floundering about and indecision are never good.

with him helping you to find another you have less chance of finding one that is full of it so to speak,that seem to swamp so many subs w/ email.

good luck and blessings

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"Accordingly, men must then either fulfill their nature, or deny it, and in denying their nature, deny us ours, for ours is the complement to theirs. " Renegades

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RE: Life goes on - 10/29/2005 8:42:19 AM   
LuckyAlbatross


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quote:

ORIGINAL: fyreredsub
floundering about and indecision are never good.

with him helping you to find another you have less chance of finding one that is full of it so to speak,that seem to swamp so many subs w/ email.

good luck and blessings

Why? She can't trust her own judgement?

IMO that sort of situation usually ends up with the sub just hoping the dom will somehow change his mind and cling to the attachment they really want.

Not necessarily what happens, but often enough.

At any rate, that is the sucky part of the dating process, but much better to be honest up front rather than force a commitment that isn't right.

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RE: Life goes on - 10/31/2005 8:04:58 AM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		I know he will not change his mind so i am not clinging to that hope. Even though he cannot be my Master he wants to make sure i am gonna be ok tat is why he is helping me.

littleone

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RE: Life goes on - 10/31/2005 9:43:21 AM   
girl4you2


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quote:

ORIGINAL: littleone35

I know he will not change his mind so i am not clinging to that hope. Even though he cannot be my Master he wants to make sure i am gonna be ok tat is why he is helping me.

littleone
it sounds to me as if you've your head squarely on your shoulders with no unrealistic expectations (albeit finding another Master that works could be difficult). at least this Master had the wherewithall to be upfront with you, instead of changing the dynamics.

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maireann croí éadrom i bhfad. is maith an scáthán súil charad. is leor nod don eolach.
got shoes?

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RE: Life goes on - 10/31/2005 10:49:49 AM   
Littlepita


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Status: offline 		Well, he is a smart man to let you go if he knows he can't give you the time you would need. I have a girl friend that has a Master that she rarely gets to talk to and I feel so sorry for her. I personally think he should let her go so she could find someone that would give her the time she needs.

Good luck in your search.

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“I, with a deeper instinct, choose a man who compels my strength, who makes enormous demands on me, who does not doubt my courage or my toughness, who does not believe me naive or innocent, who has the courage to treat me like a woman.” – Anais Nin

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RE: Life goes on - 10/31/2005 1:36:02 PM   
kinkiminx


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Status: offline 		Sorry that happened to you, sounds like he had enough strength to be able to be honest with himself and do that... my previous Dom didn't have enough time for me but didn't let me go as soon as that happened, and in the end i had to explain to him why i couldn't carry on in the relationship.. glad that he wants to see that you're ok.

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RE: Life goes on - 11/1/2005 4:32:32 AM   
MasterRobert1


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Status: offline 		He's acting honorable and with integrity. Be thankful you started out with such a Dom.

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RE: Life goes on - 11/1/2005 6:15:31 AM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		Yes i was very lucky to find him.

littleone

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