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ORIGINAL: DominantJenny

So, inspired by pixel's "dommes responsibilities" post, I've written a little something this morning. Our boys need to be wooed a bit, too, sometimes. It's easy to forget that, I think, in the face of a rather lop-sided supply and demand situation. We know, however, that the supply of GOOD male submissives is far too low, and I want to let them know they are appreciated.

The submissive man
I am a female dominant and I love the submissive man.
I love that my hand on his neck can make him melt.
I love that he chooses to bend his strength to my will.
I love that he exalts and exults in my body and mind with the deepest respect.
I love that he strives, always and all ways, to please me and to give of himself.

As a dominant, I will endeavor to honor his submission; I will remember that it is something I have earned and will strive to continue to earn it though my consistency, responsibility and wisdom.
As I take primary control of our lives and our relationship, so do I take primary responsibility. I will guide our lives with great care.
I know his eyes look to me full of the desire to depend on me, full of hope and trust, and I will strive to be reliable and worthy of that trust, so that his eyes never cease to look on me with admiration.
As my submissive endlessly turns his attention to improving himself and seeking how best to please me, so I will always seek to increase and expand my own knowledge and strengths, that he may continually be inspired.
I recognize that he has both the need to submit and the need to be dominated, and I will fulfill those needs to the best of my ability, as I know he will endeavor to fulfill my needs to dominate and be served.
I know that a relationship is not a solo performance. I cherish my role as leader of the dance and love watching as he glides gracefully, following my every step with care. Together, we make something unique, powerful and beautiful.
Above all else, I revel in the fact that he, of all men, belongs to me and will always hold firmly and proudly to the leash chained to his heart.

How's that? :)

Mmmmmm, DominantJenny, that is beautiful.  Of course, us subby guys like to be shown we are appreciated and cherished.  It makes us feel needed, wanted.  I know that Mistress loves me deeply because I don't see anyone else being called Her property...just me!   She tells me all the time how much She loves me and how special I am to Her.  It echoes all the way down to my little subby heart.  I'm also longing for Mistress's boots so I may bathe them with my tongue...mmmmmm.  Tasty!!!

***rubberpet ~~~> proud to be Mistress Lorelei's boot-licking slut puppy!!!***

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So, inspired by pixel's "dommes responsibilities" post, I've written a little something this morning. Our boys need to be wooed a bit, too, sometimes. It's easy to forget that, I think, in the face of a rather lop-sided supply and demand situation. We know, however, that the supply of GOOD male submissives is far too low, and I want to let them know they are appreciated.

The submissive man
I am a female dominant and I love the submissive man.
I love that my hand on his neck can make him melt.
I love that he chooses to bend his strength to my will.
I love that he exalts and exults in my body and mind with the deepest respect.
I love that he strives, always and all ways, to please me and to give of himself.

As a dominant, I will endeavor to honor his submission; I will remember that it is something I have earned and will strive to continue to earn it though my consistency, responsibility and wisdom.
As I take primary control of our lives and our relationship, so do I take primary responsibility. I will guide our lives with great care.
I know his eyes look to me full of the desire to depend on me, full of hope and trust, and I will strive to be reliable and worthy of that trust, so that his eyes never cease to look on me with admiration.
As my submissive endlessly turns his attention to improving himself and seeking how best to please me, so I will always seek to increase and expand my own knowledge and strengths, that he may continually be inspired.
I recognize that he has both the need to submit and the need to be dominated, and I will fulfill those needs to the best of my ability, as I know he will endeavor to fulfill my needs to dominate and be served.
I know that a relationship is not a solo performance. I cherish my role as leader of the dance and love watching as he glides gracefully, following my every step with care. Together, we make something unique, powerful and beautiful.
Above all else, I revel in the fact that he, of all men, belongs to me and will always hold firmly and proudly to the leash chained to his heart.

How's that? :)

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ORIGINAL: Celeres

*melts*... I now know what I "should" look for in a Domme. =)

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ORIGINAL: DominantJenny

He certainly feels that he is, and so am I.

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ORIGINAL: SylvereApLeanan

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ORIGINAL: HieroV

Lovely...this was wonderful in how it shows a understanding that a dominant also plays a part in inspiring a submissive to serve. Always a huge attraction for me and a sign (in my opinion) of someone who has experience in the real world of relationships.

Please add me to the "melt" list. :)

HieroV

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ORIGINAL: pixelslave

Thank you for posting that DominantJenny.  I appreciate being given credit for inspiring your post.
 
There's no doubt the touch of a woman's hand on my neck can make me melt.  Ditto when she grasps the hair on the back of my head; something which nearly sends me into subspace all on it's own.
 
Your boy is fortunate to have you as his Dominant.  I continue to look forward to the day when I'll be with a woman who feels the same about me as you feel about your submissive partner...
 
 - pixel

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ORIGINAL: Venatrix

Oh, for heaven's sake.  First it's the boots, then it's the gloves, then it's whips, now I have to give them romance, too?  There's no end to it.