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swtnsparkling -> Some believe that pain is pleasure..... (10/29/2005 5:36:32 AM)
Some believe that pain is pleasure, humiliation is freeing, bondage is liberating. Do you find pain pleasurable? Do you enjoy humiliation? Is bondage liberating?

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Some believe that pain is pleasure..... (10/29/2005 8:42:51 AM)
Being who I am is freeing. Pain is pain for me. Bondage is serenity.

darkinshadows -> RE: Some believe that pain is pleasure..... (10/29/2005 12:07:52 PM)
I am free, but find peace in bondage. Humility is not a pull, but for one person. Pain can be pleasure, but its not the sensation. Peace and Love

denimknight -> RE: Some believe that pain is pleasure..... (10/29/2005 1:22:46 PM)
Pain hurts and thus for the most part kinda sucks. However, there are Those who can apply their talent to a body in a way that makes pain more than pain. These are a blessed and much adored few. Humiliation is never a pleasant experience for me. However, I think to a degree you are in control of what you allow to humiliate you. Bondage in and of itself is not liberating. It is a tool of sorts. I have experienced its use to accomplish a number of goals. I have been blessed enough to have bondage applied to me in order to force the kind of vulnerability that I wished to offer but could not. It's been used to help me find a quiet place in my own consciousness and allow me to effectively meditate. I've even had it applied to me for reasons of aesthetic beauty. I say that to say this: bondage is not liberating in and of itself. However, in the hands of a skilled dominant it can be used to help a submissive or slave break free from the chains of perceived limitations upon the self.

LordKent -> RE: Some believe that pain is pleasure...... (10/29/2005 3:17:03 PM)
i love it all

DrkAngl -> RE: Some believe that pain is pleasure...... (10/29/2005 5:00:16 PM)
I know that for some people, those especially with Autism, ADD, or Sensory Intagration Dysfunction, their brains are wired a bit differently. What hurts most people can feel good to them. My son has Autism and ADD. When he was 2 years old his idea of self stimming (stimulation) was to jump from his toybox onto his knees repeatedly. To us that would hurt, but for him the knee joint compression felt good. He craved this. His body prosess pain different. When he fell onto a sharp object and made a gash in his backside, it didn't phase him. It was cleaned,taken care of, and seemed to barely phase him, though it hurt me just looking at it. I also have ADD and for me what hurts some feels good to me. It's a case of being put together a little differently.

Evanesce -> RE: Some believe that pain is pleasure..... (10/29/2005 9:01:18 PM)
quote: Do you find pain pleasurable? Do you enjoy humiliation? Is bondage liberating? Pain hurts. I don't like it. I'm not a masochist. But boy, if there aren't times I crave the very thing I hate, and I LOVE where it takes my mind. Humiliation is NOT my friend. Major triggers there. Bondage is comforting. The tighter, the better.

lonewolf05 -> RE: Some believe that pain is pleasure..... (10/30/2005 1:50:25 AM)
quote: Some believe that pain is pleasure, humiliation is freeing, bondage is liberating. Do you find pain pleasurable? Do you enjoy humiliation? Is bondage liberating? ================ i hate ANY pain........ i hate being humiliated. never did bondage yet. "I" am NOT s/m. i am SERVICE w/o sex..w/o --- l o v e --- romance...w/o ANY personal attachments.....to anyone on this planet..... did this help? wolf

Kasia -> RE: Some believe that pain is pleasure..... (10/30/2005 3:17:03 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lonewolf05 i am SERVICE w/o sex..w/o --- l o v e --- romance...w/o ANY personal attachments.....to anyone on this planet..... Wish I could find someone of your kind, lonewolf. Personally I would include sex and friendship to some point, but no love, romace and all that stuff they whine about all the time..... makes me sick.

sweetpettjenny -> RE: Some believe that pain is pleasure..... (10/30/2005 5:10:06 AM)
yes i do!!!! but without love or feeling its nothing

Evanesce -> RE: Some believe that pain is pleasure..... (10/30/2005 10:22:59 AM)
quote: Wish I could find someone of your kind, lonewolf. Personally I would include sex and friendship to some point, but no love, romace and all that stuff they whine about all the time..... makes me sick. Yup. Me too. I want a servant, not a lover. I HAVE a lover. I just need help maintaining Master's house so that when He comes home I don't still have a thousand things still needing to be done.

justjenn -> RE: Some believe that pain is pleasure..... (10/30/2005 1:03:36 PM)
quote: Do you find pain pleasurable? Do you enjoy humiliation? Is bondage liberating? I've always said that the difference between pain and pleasure is really nothing more than perception. Taken to their basest forms, they are both just an electrical impulse sent from nerves to the brain. Once there, you brain decodes and quantifies the impulses and tells you whether it's pleasure or pain. I joke that I'm allergic to pain and freely admit to being a wuss. For example, if you just walk up to me and pinch my nipples, I will probably tell you that it hurts (after I scream and possibly call you a bad name or three!). But if you start slowly and let the endorphins build a bit first, you can twist, pull, squeeze, whatever, and I'll probably beg for more. I'm not much into humiliation - but again, I think it's a thing of perception. There is something to be said for the way I feel when I'm bent over in front of my Master. I love the way his eyes feel and his fingers probe when he's inspecting me. Some might find that humiliating. I love the way I feel when I'm bound. I love to struggle against my bonds. I love feeling helpless when I'm around people that I trust. But I have panic attacks if I'm helpless around people I don't know well, don't trust. I think I've decided on a theme here - perception. How much I enjoy my bondage depends on how I perceive the situation surrounding it. If I'm bound to my bed at home and I know that my Master is in the other room watching television or even just watching me, I feel content. If I'm bound because we're going to play and he doesn't want me to thrash and hurt myself, then I feel safe and cared for.

Sardaxia -> RE: Some believe that pain is pleasure..... (10/30/2005 1:29:20 PM)
I love pain if being administered by my partner in a sexual situation. It's seems all psychological, for example being slapped hard on the face is not a turn on if you're in the middle of a real argument yet if it's during sexual play it could very well be a turn on. The other two sound like fun but not been there yet.

slavejali -> RE: Some believe that pain is pleasure..... (11/15/2005 3:32:06 PM)
quote: Some believe that pain is pleasure, humiliation is freeing, bondage is liberating. Do you find pain pleasurable? Do you enjoy humiliation? Is bondage liberating? Pain to me is when i hit my thumb with a hammer. i refer to strong play in a bdsm sense as sensual sensations because the effect, whether while its being done, or afterwards is going to give me pleasure. Depending on my frame of mind at the time is how i will respond to it. The strong sensations take me to a place that allows me to feel a real surrender, a place which i really enjoy. Sometimes the strong sensations are craved just by my body. Humiliation: Master doesnt really play this way with me, however from past experience, humialtion isnt even really humiliation to me in a bdsm play sense, its just a tool that takes me to a place of feeling my surrender and slavery more, i can feel deeply the control Master has over me. Bondage: im realising as i address each of these issues, they all amount to the same thing for me. Bondage too, is a physical expression of my submission to Master and allows me to feel that deeply.

wipmebeetme100 -> RE: Some believe that pain is pleasure..... (11/16/2005 12:18:01 AM)
quote: Do you find pain pleasurable? Do you enjoy humiliation? Is bondage liberating? The pain that Master bestows on me is very pleasureable. The humiliation is another avenue in which i show my submission and surrender..and it is very enjoyable. And bondage allows me to show Master the total trust that i have in him.

GlobalSkulls -> RE: Some believe that pain is pleasure..... (11/16/2005 4:08:50 AM)
Pleasure and pain is a fine line.

nephandi -> RE: Some believe that pain is pleasure..... (11/16/2005 4:57:54 AM)
A light spanking or a bit of rough sex that is a bit uncofortable is plesurable, but pain for the most part hurts, but to suffer it i feel my submission, the fear of pain make me feel my submission, and being comforted afterwards make me feel warm. Bondage make me feel safe. As for humiliation, i dont know, perhaps i would like it, but i dont know.

fyreredsub -> RE: Some believe that pain is pleasure..... (11/16/2005 12:46:47 PM)
pain is punishment to me.however being sent to the corner hurts worse. humiliation doesn't float my boat, unless i'm being told what a nasty slut i am,lol. bondage i love. i find freedom in ritual and protocol. quote: ORIGINAL: swtnsparkling Some believe that pain is pleasure, humiliation is freeing, bondage is liberating. Do you find pain pleasurable? Do you enjoy humiliation? Is bondage liberating?

subaltern1 -> Pain is Pleasure ? (11/18/2005 3:22:19 PM)
Pain is very pleasurable. I love pain if being administered bymaster in a sexual situation. It's seems all psychological, for example being slapped hard on the face is not a turn on if you're in the middle of a real argument yet if it's during sexual play it could very well be a turn on. Pain is therefore contextual and situational.

littleone35 -> RE: Some believe that pain is pleasure..... (11/18/2005 3:24:17 PM)
For me pain is pain and pleasure is pleasure i have never been bought through pain to pleasure. I am not saying it cannot happen it just never happened for me. Also for some pain is pleasure. Whatever floats your boat. littleone

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