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hardbodysub -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (1/27/2009 9:55:56 AM)

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I once read a biology book, but that doesn't make me a biologist. 


No, but it makes you a biology book reader. Doesn't mean you enjoyed it, either.

Sucking a cock makes you a cock sucker. Doesn't mean you enjoyed it. Doesn't make you homosexual. The only thing that makes you homosexual is a sexual preference for the same gender.



ShaktiSama -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (1/27/2009 10:31:59 AM)

26 pages of this thread?

Jeez, who'd a thunk there was this much homosexual panic floating around?

I say we make all the guys suck each other's cocks, bring about The End of the World as We Know It, and start over.

We can call it Ragnacock.

Or Armasuckin.



PeonForHer -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (1/27/2009 10:38:11 AM)

What, even if it was at school, more than two decades ago?   I think you need to have sucked cocks quite a lot to be called a cock-sucker!

I tend to prefer that motivational means of categorising rather than the act categorising, too  - but that's got problems (see my last post). 

But overall - I pretty much don't care.  Redundant concern for me.



PeonForHer -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (1/27/2009 11:01:53 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Madame4a

the words sexual preference tend to imply choice.. I'd suggest that the words sexual orientation are much more appropriate...


I stand corrected. 



cjan -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (1/27/2009 11:43:03 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

I'm a *blowjob domme*?  Dang! [8D]


Thank goodness ! [;)]





liks2plzlf -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (1/27/2009 12:07:26 PM)

I have never sucked one, but have been called a cocksucker many times.



MsDDom -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (1/27/2009 12:26:25 PM)

i met a man who desired to do this man's wife. the wife said yes, but on one condition...u suck my husband's cock. well he did, but unfortunately, he didnt get to do the wife...for three months he did this and never got to do the wife. so i asked, do u want to fuc a male, he said no, but he liked being forced to suck a man's cock. the questioning took a left turn which led me to believe he is in denial of his bisexual side. he desires a woman, yet there is desire for a man and his cock (crossdressed or shemale).

ultimately, it is something i could probably request from a male sub/slave, but i am going to ask his intentions if he brings the subject up first. its it possible to request---definitely.  are SOME heterosexual men curious about the act---yes they are.  i feel that is it a form of humiliation and a disregard for the subs/slaves sexual enjoyment--then again, he could be enjoying it.  (hmmm...)



PeonForHer -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (1/27/2009 1:00:13 PM)

he is in denial of his bisexual side. That's the devil of it all.  Why?  I imagine lying on my deathbed thinking, "I always wanted to do X, and it wouldn't have hurt anyone if I'd done X, but I didn't do it, and now it's too late."  We regret the things that we didn't do more than the things we did do - is my opinion.   And, yes, this thread does seem tinged with various kinds of homophobia.  I don't know which is worse: being homophobic towards others, or being homophobic towards the homo- or bi- sexual side of oneself.



beargonewild -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (1/27/2009 1:51:22 PM)

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ORIGINAL: hardbodysub


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ORIGINAL: beargonewild

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ORIGINAL: Madame4a

Really?  perhaps that holds true for you... but it might not for others... I'm guessing then that you do not believe that someone would do something for their dominant, no matter how much they disliked it?



It's for that reason which sheds suspicion on the heterosexualness of man males who do admit they enjoy being forced to perform an activity which under any other circumstances they would not do.



Completely wrong. They enjoy BEING FORCED, not the activity. That sheds absolutely NO "suspicion on the heterosexualness". Although I believe the word is "heterosexuality".


*chuckles*

Yes you are right that the correct word is heterosexuality, I simply used that word for simplicity sake.



beargonewild -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (1/27/2009 2:00:00 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Madame4a

I see your point.. but I still separate sexual acts from orientation... orientation is a lot more than sex... I can enjoy sex with men (just because I can enjoy it doesn't mean I'm doing it), but in the end, my romantic, longterm nesting and partnering is going to be with a woman.  That makes me, in my mind a lesbian.

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ORIGINAL: beargonewild

I'm looking at this from the angle that the orientation was always there yet buried. It's through the dominant's desire that the male feels less hesitation to indulge in something which he usually wouldn't. I don't believe a person's sexual orientation changes, it's how it is expressed that changes. 



Thanks for elaborating. I guess my concepts may be middy as I perceive sexual; acts and sexual orientation being so closely intertwined that it is difficult to keep clearer separation between the two. Starting to wonder if maybe it's time to go back to school and get a degree in human sexuality!



MsDDom -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (1/27/2009 2:10:40 PM)

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

he is in denial of his bisexual side. That's the devil of it all.  Why?  I imagine lying on my deathbed thinking, "I always wanted to do X, and it wouldn't have hurt anyone if I'd done X, but I didn't do it, and now it's too late."  We regret the things that we didn't do more than the things we did do - is my opinion.   And, yes, this thread does seem tinged with various kinds of homophobia.  I don't know which is worse: being homophobic towards others, or being homophobic towards the homo- or bi- sexual side of oneself.

i think he was very embarrassed after explaining the whole thing to me.
but i believe u have to free urself and live, i really do...this is the reason i wasnt shocked at what he said to me. who am i to judge when i know i like sadistic, kinky things. just be honest w/ urself.

while i am not a lesbian or bisexual, i have friends and know people who are and i dont hate or despise them. let them life.



subtex -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (1/27/2009 4:57:54 PM)

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

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ORIGINAL: UPSG

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ORIGINAL: MzMia
The title of this thread is "heterosexual males sucking cock".
If you suck cocks, doesn't that make you a cock sucker?
If I drink a pepsi, aren't I a pepsi-drinker?


Your point is logical and correct, MzMia. And if a submissive guy performs oral sex on another male, then there should be no animosity on his part if a dominant woman chooses to call him a cock sucker.



Not sure if that holds, UPSG.  I once read a biology book, but that doesn't make me a biologist.  When I was a little boy, a bus driver let me sit in his bus and ring the bell, but that doesn't make me a bus-driver. 

[I'm not sure why I'm helping to keep this argument going because it seems so pointless to me.  But, let's face it, it's fun.  I know that just seeing the title of this thread brightens up the whole forum for many people.]




Well, calling a slave a cocksucker would seem to be a natural part of the teasing in this kind of scene even if it's not a real cock.



PeonForHer -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (1/27/2009 5:05:39 PM)

True.  Not a problem for me in that context at all. 



OttersSwim -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (1/27/2009 6:37:31 PM)

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer
... I imagine lying on my deathbed thinking, "I always wanted to do X, and it wouldn't have hurt anyone if I'd done X, but I didn't do it, and now it's too late."  ....


"Any last words my Son?"

"Yes Father...would you put your cock in my mouth?"

Am I going to hell?  I imagine for that...I am probably gonna go to hell.  Ah well...Heaven for the climate, Hell for the company! [;)]



subtex -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (1/27/2009 8:33:06 PM)

After post 500 I started getting the idea that this might be a hot button issue.  There seems to be a problem with the way the title is worded.  How can a Heterosexual man suck cock?  Funny I've seen this thread generate a lot of posts on other forums in the past with the title "Forced Bi."  Apparently there the problem was the word forced. I can't quite put my finger on it.  Maybe heterosexuality is an exclusive club that we can't let just anyone join. 

For the record I've never done it, although my former Mistress did ask me if I'd do it for her and I said yes.  Where does that leave me?  I think I still qualify as a heterosexual in that I only think about women sexually.  To be fair though I have thought about getting a Mini Cooper and I once watched Vanity Fair on cable.





MsEmpwr2 -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (1/27/2009 8:34:56 PM)

I enjoy it quite a bit as well!



FullfigRIMAAM1 -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (1/27/2009 8:41:11 PM)

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ORIGINAL: liks2plzlf
I have never sucked one, but have been called a cocksucker many times.
[sm=rofl.gif][sm=rofl.gif]  M



UPSG -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (1/27/2009 9:50:57 PM)

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

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ORIGINAL: UPSG

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ORIGINAL: MzMia
The title of this thread is "heterosexual males sucking cock".
If you suck cocks, doesn't that make you a cock sucker?
If I drink a pepsi, aren't I a pepsi-drinker?


Your point is logical and correct, MzMia. And if a submissive guy performs oral sex on another male, then there should be no animosity on his part if a dominant woman chooses to call him a cock sucker.



Not sure if that holds, UPSG.  I once read a biology book, but that doesn't make me a biologist.  When I was a little boy, a bus driver let me sit in his bus and ring the bell, but that doesn't make me a bus-driver. 

[I'm not sure why I'm helping to keep this argument going because it seems so pointless to me.  But, let's face it, it's fun.  I know that just seeing the title of this thread brightens up the whole forum for many people.]



No, no, I wasn't meaning to imply it makes a guy homosexual or even "bisexual" (I'll hazard to guess there are various degrees of 'bisexuality'), I was just imply it makes a guy a "cock sucker" even if he's heterosexual.

Of course, I'm not saying a person past activities means they "stay that way" so to speak. I suppose one could be a reformed cock sucker like one could be a reformed murder. Hehe. [:D] (no... in all honesty, outside of specifically chosen lifestyle, e.g. slave in BDSM, people are more than the sums of their orally performed sexual activities)



UPSG -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (1/27/2009 9:58:54 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Petruchio

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Really? perhaps that holds true for you... but it might not for others...


I'm sure you're right, M4a. Even if I weren't dom, it would cross a line for me. Try to force me and you'll think Lorena Bobbitt was angelic.

As you suggest, I recognize what holds true for me won't hold true for others. I wouldn't be surprised, though, if happy participants would slide more toward the bi- to gay end of the continuum.



I agree with, M4a, of course. But regarding your comments, you know... I never understood why guys being forced (raped basically) to give oral sex in prison, just didn't bite down, and shake their head like a pit bull?





FullfigRIMAAM1 -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (1/27/2009 10:30:10 PM)

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ORIGINAL: UPSG
But regarding your comments, you know... I never understood why guys being forced (raped basically) to give oral sex in prison, just didn't bite down, and shake their head like a pit bull?
Well, in that case, it is really forced bi, and I would say, even for the most heterosexually inclined men, sucking cock is preferable to being killed any day.    M



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