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RE: heterosexual males sucking cock - 6/13/2009 9:25:41 AM

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How many of you demand this?

Demand it of everyone? No. But if I suspect that a boy will enjoy it and get off on it on some level, he might be volunteered for cocksucking for my amusement. I'd prefer that he was actually bi.

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RE: heterosexual males sucking cock - 6/15/2009 3:47:42 AM

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Wouldn't have it any other way.....It's all My way!

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RE: heterosexual males sucking cock - 6/15/2009 7:16:33 AM

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Boy...this thread just won't go away...

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RE: heterosexual males sucking cock - 6/15/2009 8:39:08 AM

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It's just too popular a thing, Step - for the ladies as well as the gents. My ex, who was nominally vanilla, really got her rocks off on the idea of me doing it to a man. I had a feeling that it was the only fantasy that tapped into whatever desire she had to dominate me. That is, she could only conceive of dominating with the aid of another person - and a male, as well.

So here's another little hypothesis: that a woman would feel that bit extra dominant because she's not dominating on her own, she's the 'head of a team'. But that's a hypothesis that I have a feeling will quickly be shot down in flames, somehow.

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RE: heterosexual males sucking cock - 6/15/2009 10:44:40 AM

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Well, I'm not interested in this activity, but love seeing a man sucking my dildo when it's strapped onto me, so perhaps you have a hypothesis for that? I've always thought it was because if there is going to be a centre of attention, it will be I. Your view may be different (in fact, I think I can guarantee that your view would be different

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RE: heterosexual males sucking cock - 6/15/2009 11:06:48 AM

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I think the sucking's irrelevant, V. I think your dildo-wearing gives you an entirely different buzz. You've noticed that as soon as it's strapped on, you become much more even-tempered, intelligent, balanced, and able to reverse cars into small spaces.

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RE: heterosexual males sucking cock - 6/15/2009 11:11:06 AM

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Except for the time I thought I was applying the parking brake and was moving my dildo up and down, instead.

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RE: heterosexual males sucking cock - 6/15/2009 11:13:43 AM

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I'd like to have seen that!

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RE: heterosexual males sucking cock - 6/15/2009 9:13:53 PM

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Boy...this thread just won't go away...

Nope. Probably never will either. There are enough of us who enjoy the activity to keep posting to it and enough folks who don't like it who are willing to weigh in on the subject.

When it's all said and done, this will probably end up being the most responded to and viewed thread on the Ask A Mistress board.

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RE: heterosexual males sucking cock - 6/16/2009 6:06:09 AM

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It's just too popular a thing, Step - for the ladies as well as the gents. My ex, who was nominally vanilla, really got her rocks off on the idea of me doing it to a man. I had a feeling that it was the only fantasy that tapped into whatever desire she had to dominate me. That is, she could only conceive of dominating with the aid of another person - and a male, as well.

So here's another little hypothesis: that a woman would feel that bit extra dominant because she's not dominating on her own, she's the 'head of a team'. But that's a hypothesis that I have a feeling will quickly be shot down in flames, somehow.

Sorry to be the one to disagree with you there, Peon, but in My way of thinking, this isn't the case. For these kinds of scenes, I am the ultimate authority. It's not a co-topping scenario or a joint venture. I call all of the shots. I find this works very well especially for those who are only situationally, orally bi. That's the category of males who would not seek out just a m/m encounter. For them, they are able to engage in the activity *because* of the influence of the woman, which in essence, gives her the power.

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RE: heterosexual males sucking cock - 6/16/2009 6:41:23 AM

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I think it is soooooooo hot to watch a man being forced to suck another man's cock, even more so to make him take it up his ass and I am a fem/sub.
But I do worry about men giving blow jobs cause they are just naturally stronger than us and do we really need more competition?

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RE: heterosexual males sucking cock - 6/16/2009 6:47:35 AM

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Please don't be sorry, LP. Sometimes I post one of my wee hypotheses in the express hope that it'll be brushed away. This was one of those occasions.

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RE: heterosexual males sucking cock - 6/16/2009 6:50:17 AM

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But I do worry about men giving blow jobs cause they are just naturally stronger than us and do we really need more competition?

In that case, men willing to 'perform the task' should worry about the competition of vacuum cleaners.

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RE: heterosexual males sucking cock - 6/16/2009 6:52:53 AM

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Please don't be sorry, LP. Sometimes I post one of my wee hypotheses in the express hope that it'll be brushed away. This was one of those occasions.

Yes, I know. You really just wanted someone to come along and say the Domme was in control. Should I add you to the list of those who think it's a bigger turn on that way?

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RE: heterosexual males sucking cock - 6/16/2009 7:16:45 AM

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. You really just wanted someone to come along and say the Domme was in control. Should I add you to the list of those who think it's a bigger turn on that way?

LP, the way it works for me is firstly, I'm one of those who believes that everyone is bisexual to a certain extent. However, I also believe that just thinking in terms of the three categories of "gay, bisexual, straight" is nearly as bad as thinking in terms of "gay versus straight". There are all manner of degrees and shades.

I'm bi, but nowhere near bi enough to get a buzz from doing anything with a man unless it's within the context of a dominant woman's desire. That is, the bi bit of me couldn't provide enough motivation on its own. It needs the hetero-sub/masochist bit of me, which is much more powerful, to which to attach itself.

The upshot is that if I were to see (at a BDSM club) a dominant woman becoming all submissive towards a Dom who asks her if it's OK to put his cock in my mouth, it's going to be a turn off for me. I wouldn't mind a vanilla vibe between said hypothetical Domme and Dom or even one which is FemDomme and malesub, but not one which is femsub and Dom.

Er . . . . I hope that's clear!

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RE: heterosexual males sucking cock - 6/16/2009 11:47:32 AM

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Boy, you men make stuff complicated!

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RE: heterosexual males sucking cock - 6/16/2009 11:53:34 AM

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Eh? It all feels pretty straightforward to me.

Tut. Women accuse men of being too complicated one minute then too crude a moment later. As per usual, the only thing of which we can be comfortably certain, at all times, is that we're thinking or doing something wrong.

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RE: heterosexual males sucking cock - 6/16/2009 12:28:20 PM

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It feels completely foreign to me to be taking your side, Peon, but I understood completely what you meant, and it didn't seem strange at all. Nevertheless, I do feel that you must, at this moment, still be doing something wrong.

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RE: heterosexual males sucking cock - 6/16/2009 12:31:54 PM

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For you to be taking my side, V, I'm absolutely sure I must be doing something wrong.

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RE: heterosexual males sucking cock - 6/16/2009 3:01:41 PM

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LP, the way it works for me is firstly, I'm one of those who believes that everyone is bisexual to a certain extent. However, I also believe that just thinking in terms of the three categories of "gay, bisexual, straight" is nearly as bad as thinking in terms of "gay versus straight". There are all manner of degrees and shades.

I'm bi, but nowhere near bi enough to get a buzz from doing anything with a man unless it's within the context of a dominant woman's desire. That is, the bi bit of me couldn't provide enough motivation on its own. It needs the hetero-sub/masochist bit of me, which is much more powerful, to which to attach itself.

The upshot is that if I were to see (at a BDSM club) a dominant woman becoming all submissive towards a Dom who asks her if it's OK to put his cock in my mouth, it's going to be a turn off for me. I wouldn't mind a vanilla vibe between said hypothetical Domme and Dom or even one which is FemDomme and malesub, but not one which is femsub and Dom.

Er . . . . I hope that's clear!

Actually, very much so. It's not far off from the line of thinking of why I feel My encounters in this area have been successful. I don't the experiences would have gone nearly as well had I taken any form of a passive role. Directing the action from an assertive standpoint helps to add to that buzz that you mentioned. It's a perfect example of what I meant. You may not desire the activity independently, but allow the subject to come up with a strong woman who openly encourages or commands you, all the while telling you how it sexually excites her, and you have a combination for success.

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