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Doll4Lady2Use -> Lesbian.. Dominas? (6/9/2008 3:11:31 PM)

Is that right term for Lesbian dominants?    Still not sure where I'm at in all this.  not really a submale because I had gender re-assignment in the late 80s been living female ever since.  I do know i like being around women and they treat me as one also.  I do have a submissive side I'd like to explore though.
thank you Ladies




darchChylde -> RE: Lesbian.. Dominas? (6/9/2008 4:18:59 PM)

In general, they are dominants; but individually, call them whatever they ask of you.




faerytattoodgirl -> RE: Lesbian.. Dominas? (6/9/2008 5:04:43 PM)

you can call yourself anything you want to be called.  who's gonna stop you from doing that?




Skully7000 -> RE: Lesbian.. Dominas? (6/9/2008 5:28:12 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Doll4Lady2Use

Is that right term for Lesbian dominants?    Still not sure where I'm at in all this.  not really a submale because I had gender re-assignment in the late 80s been living female ever since.  I do know i like being around women and they treat me as one also.  I do have a submissive side I'd like to explore though.
thank you Ladies



Personally if you as a woman 24/7 I would call you a woman. the fact that you had the surgery even more so.
my personal oppinion is that if you want to be treated like a woman by me you should be the embodiment of a woman. thats more important then having the body of a woman.

In NYC there is one group that does all male or all female outtings... but they specifiy that you must be born that way... I don't agree.
another group does the same thing but says "all Males or those that identify as a male 24/7" I agree with that more.

unfortunately the world needs to expand past the outdated "only 2 gender" system of male or female.




PsyVamp -> RE: Lesbian.. Dominas? (6/9/2008 5:33:54 PM)

There is just a certain ring to the name "lesbian sex mafia" that tickles me to no end..
to the OP, I agree with most everyone else, there isn't really a term to differentiate between a straight/bi/lesbian dominant

Lady Jag




ThundersCry -> RE: Lesbian.. Dominas? (6/9/2008 5:37:06 PM)

Dykes...
 
Leather Dykes...
 
But thats just one of my....fondness`s




DiurnalVampire -> RE: Lesbian.. Dominas? (6/9/2008 5:40:12 PM)

They're dominants.  A straight woman is a dominant.  A bi woman is a dominant.  A lesbian...still a dominant.  Anything else is a matter of preference depending on the dominant you are speaking to.

DV




Madame4a -> RE: Lesbian.. Dominas? (6/9/2008 6:09:58 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: ThundersCry

Dykes...
 
Leather Dykes...
 
But thats just one of my....fondness`s


[sm=ubanana.gif]

that would be me... and how I refer to myself...




Doll4Lady2Use -> RE: Lesbian.. Dominas? (6/9/2008 6:17:23 PM)

ok thanks everyone!  And yes, I do ID as female in life.




azropedntied -> RE: Lesbian.. Dominas? (6/9/2008 6:31:52 PM)

This reminds me of when i first started in communitys way back when there was no Online  and many were hiding , yet it was the lesbians who had no problem flogging whipping binding me and it was not about sexual roles  more focus was on pure bdsm .It was also when i learned NOT to say well you hit like a girl lol even in jest .I owe alot to the lesbian dyke leather Women of my youth .Even today i find them great people -cheeeers - smiles 




TermsConditions -> RE: Lesbian.. Dominas? (6/9/2008 6:41:04 PM)

How about Strict Women in Comfortable Shoes?

Could they just be acting like they enjoy the company of women? No wait, that's Thespian Dominas.




faerytattoodgirl -> RE: Lesbian.. Dominas? (6/9/2008 7:12:23 PM)

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Personally if you as a woman 24/7 I would call you a woman.


im impressed...not many men can do this...atleast..none that i met in real life.





MasterFireMaam -> RE: Lesbian.. Dominas? (6/9/2008 9:19:27 PM)

I assure you that not all lesbain are butch dykes. There will be many lesbian Dominants who like the Domina title. But, your best bet is to not assume....but to ask her what she likes.

Master Fire




jonathan -> RE: Lesbian.. Dominas? (6/9/2008 9:32:53 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: PsyVamp

There is just a certain ring to the name "lesbian sex mafia" that tickles me to no end..
to the OP, I agree with most everyone else, there isn't really a term to differentiate between a straight/bi/lesbian dominant

Lady Jag


ROTFL!!!!!! Have You ever been at a scene event with them? They are the best people. They do exist, they are flesh & blood Women. Have not heard that in so long.......i'm a transplant from NYC area.......and i have the matchboxes from Crazy Nanny's & Henrietta's to prove it. Tickles You no end, damn has tickled me no end since 1993...still does. Google Lesbian Sex Mafia. i'm usually the one that brings them up in a conversation...

For Lady Jag, i see why i never approached You, i was moving to AZ while You opened Your account here. Too bad, i have no desire to come back to the land of cold, rain, & snow. It's a very long ride. It would have been a possible, but i like my desert.

For the OP, dear, it's all the same, just call Her Ma'am until She says otherwise. You are in a good space geographically, Bucks County, north NJ, Manhattan, you have many friends out there, and you will find a few. And you have friends here. i would look into TES (local) & Black Rose (D.C.) and of course the LSM Web site.




Doll4Lady2Use -> RE: Lesbian.. Dominas? (6/10/2008 5:02:29 AM)

Everyone thanks for your input.  I do love being around women. I guess because I've worked so hard to be one and accepted in society.   Women do seem to more be supportive also.    I had a girlfriend that claimed to be butch.  She was my first real girlfriend.  Although we didn't get into any actual d/s she did stir up some new feelings in me that I never knew where there!  
thankyou  ladies and gents!  






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