If you where going to see your Mistress for the first time what would you take her for a gift

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Puppy4goodHome -> If you where going to see your Mistress for the first time what would you take her for a gift (6/9/2008 6:33:01 PM)
If You where going to visit your Mistress or Prospective Mistress for the first time what would you take her for a gift :) Me i am fighting and arguing with myself about rope a flogger cuffs or something els i cant decide

daddysliloneds -> RE: If you where going to see your Mistress for the first time what would you take her for a gift (6/9/2008 6:36:28 PM)
i'd show up; that's the best gift they could hope for.

Puppy4goodHome -> RE: If you where going to see your Mistress for the first time what would you take her for a gift (6/9/2008 6:44:05 PM)
But i want to get her a gift :) She is a ProDomme and giving me the time without tribute and i wish to bring here wonderfull gift

DesFIP -> RE: If you where going to see your Mistress for the first time what would you take her for a gift (6/9/2008 7:00:42 PM)
Don't buy her something to be used on you. That's like buying your wife a big tv so you can watch football games. What personal things has she mentioned? If she gardens, get her a rose bush. If she's mentioned some music she likes, then buy a cd by her favorite artist. A tea drinker? You can get assortments of different flavored teas as well as a pretty cup and teapot for one. Show her that you appreciate her as a person and not just as life support for a flogger, as the phrase goes.

Puppy4goodHome -> RE: If you where going to see your Mistress for the first time what would you take her for a gift (6/9/2008 7:06:34 PM)
she did mention in her journals not to bring flowers she said to bring somthing that would be used in the doungeon to bring somthing that would be somthing to do with an activity i enjoy perhaps i was planing on brining her flowers plus what ever i get also am going to pick up a chocolat godiva cheescake from teh sheescake factory :)

azropedntied -> RE: If you where going to see your Mistress for the first time what would you take her for a gift (6/9/2008 8:05:50 PM)
Find out if she likes wine then get her a nice bottle if its a yes .

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: If you where going to see your Mistress for the first time what would you take her for a gift (6/9/2008 9:13:08 PM)
Did you ask? I'm not a pro dom, but my partner gave me flowers and chocolates- standard but very sweet.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: If you where going to see your Mistress for the first time what would you take her for a gift (6/9/2008 9:18:22 PM)
Cheesecake? EXCELLENT choice!! [:D] I think bringing a token is a fine idea, though it should not be a thing to be used on you, and really just needs to be a token of appreciation. I know that it sounds tacky as hell, but I had an out of town man come to visit and he didn't bring me a THING, not so much as a card. Sucking up is always appreciated.

suessub -> RE: If you where going to see your Mistress for the first time what would you take her for a gift (6/9/2008 9:29:06 PM)
if you are handy in the kitchen, make her something. Me, I'm known for chocolates. Or if some other skill, a gift that uses it. In the end, you will show your willingness to give of your time for her. She giving of her time for you.

Misstoyou -> RE: If you where going to see your Mistress for the first time what would you take her for a gift (6/9/2008 9:33:46 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Puppy4goodHome she did mention in her journals not to bring flowers she said to bring somthing that would be used in the doungeon to bring somthing that would be somthing to do with an activity i enjoy perhaps i was planing on brining her flowers plus what ever i get also am going to pick up a chocolat godiva cheescake from teh sheescake factory :) Since she specifically mentioned what she does not want, as well as given you a category of items she would like, I would say you should listen to her, not us. [:)]

MasterFireMaam -> RE: If you where going to see your Mistress for the first time what would you take her for a gift (6/9/2008 9:49:44 PM)
Buy her something she can use just for herself. A gift certificate for a local spa would be one idea. A gift certificate to Bath and Body Works or some place like that might be an idea...or a gift basket from there. Master Fire

BitaTruble -> RE: If you where going to see your Mistress for the first time what would you take her for a gift (6/9/2008 11:05:33 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Puppy4goodHome If You where going to visit your Mistress or Prospective Mistress for the first time what would you take her for a gift :) Me i am fighting and arguing with myself about rope a flogger cuffs or something els i cant decide If you take her rope (or whatever you ultimately decide), add in a book about knots, shibari or something that matches well with your chosen item. Rope is okay, but being thoughtful shows that you are really care about 'her' as a person and not just a fleshy machine to tie you up or flog you. If she journals, she probably likes to write which means she probably likes to read as well. That turns your gift into something personal for her as well as expands her toy collection. Whatever you decide on, make sure it's high quality and of excellent workmanship so that it will last. You will, of course, know her better than anyone else, so choose something appropriate for her while still meeting her desires and do so with thoughtful consideration. I'm not so sure I'd do the cheesecake thing unless you 'know' she likes cheesecake. I hate the stuff myself and it would get thrown into the trash. It would be even worse if she had some sort of food allergy or health concern in which she loves chocolate cheesecake but can't have it! Overall, think about what you know of her .. think back to conversations which you've had and what her reactions were to things you've said. What made her laugh or respond and you should be able to come up with something appropriate. Good luck and let us know what you end up getting for her .. and, of course, her reaction to it!

shivermetimbers -> RE: If you where going to see your Mistress for the first time what would you take her for a gift (6/9/2008 11:29:57 PM)
Flowers, chocolates if she likes them, and her favorite purfume. Bring something for her that shows you appreciate her as a woman first and foremost. Don't buy toys, those are for you, not her.

RavenMuse -> RE: If you where going to see your Mistress for the first time what would you take her for a gift (6/10/2008 5:17:27 AM)
she is a pro, this ain't about romance, its about what she is willing to accept as payment... the only person who can tell you that is her!

Lynnxz -> RE: If you where going to see your Mistress for the first time what would you take her for a gift (6/10/2008 5:20:42 AM)
If you get her a toy to be used in the dungeon, make sure it's a nice quality one. [:D]

malloves69 -> RE: If you where going to see your Mistress for the first time what would you take her for a gift (6/10/2008 5:23:22 AM)
if she is a pro-dom showing up with her donation in hand is fine [:)] with all the no shows she has you just earned some brownie points there [:)] flowers women always like [:)] good luck ..mal

RCdc -> RE: If you where going to see your Mistress for the first time what would you take her for a gift (6/10/2008 5:34:45 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Puppy4goodHome she did mention in her journals not to bring flowers she said to bring somthing that would be used in the doungeon to bring somthing that would be somthing to do with an activity i enjoy perhaps i was planing on brining her flowers plus what ever i get also am going to pick up a chocolat godiva cheescake from teh sheescake factory :) If the lady requested in her journals no flowers - DON'T take her flowers. Otherwise all you are showing is that you are disregarding her words. Do not take food or drink too many mixed signals there and with no imagination. Rope is a good choice, plain and simple. Perfume is good, or at least something in an attractive bottle. Spa treatments or a token is cool. A small hamper of bath products, or a token for nail treatment or pedicure. A piece of art work - does not have to be expensive like a small carving. If you know her birthmonth, her semi precious birthstone set in something would rock - again thoughtful but inexpensive - depends on your budget. the.dark.

Usako -> RE: If you where going to see your Mistress for the first time what would you take her for a gift (6/10/2008 5:59:23 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: daddysliloneds i'd show up; that's the best gift they could hope for. Indeed. I'd bring nothing at all. Gifts are for people I care about, if this is a first meeting then I obviously wouldn't know them well enough to shell out money for a gift. Seriously, a bunch of random people can't tell you what to get this chick. We don't know her at all. Chocolate is a good idea but then what kind? People like different types. Jewlery, perfume, blah blah blah...people can spew out a million ideas but none mean shit. If you want to know what she likes then ask, it's common sense.

GreedyTop -> RE: If you where going to see your Mistress for the first time what would you take her for a gift (6/10/2008 6:06:23 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Darcyandthedark quote: ORIGINAL: Puppy4goodHome she did mention in her journals not to bring flowers she said to bring somthing that would be used in the doungeon to bring somthing that would be somthing to do with an activity i enjoy perhaps i was planing on brining her flowers plus what ever i get also am going to pick up a chocolat godiva cheescake from teh sheescake factory :) If the lady requested in her journals no flowers - DON'T take her flowers. Otherwise all you are showing is that you are disregarding her words. Do not take food or drink too many mixed signals there and with no imagination. Rope is a good choice, plain and simple. Perfume is good, or at least something in an attractive bottle. Spa treatments or a token is cool. A small hamper of bath products, or a token for nail treatment or pedicure. A piece of art work - does not have to be expensive like a small carving. If you know her birthmonth, her semi precious birthstone set in something would rock - again thoughtful but inexpensive - depends on your budget. the.dark. Yeah, that kinda jumped out at me, too. If she said to bring something for the dungeon, perhaps a gift basket of cleaning supplies for the dungeon? if she's busy, she probably goes through it quickly... Perfume can be iffy..a lot of people have allergies to perfumes, either from the scents, or their skin (there are some that I cant wear, they make me break out). I think the rope is a good idea..

Puppy4goodHome -> RE: If you where going to see your Mistress for the first time what would you take her for a gift (6/10/2008 6:39:43 AM)
She Mentioned Somthing in her journal about not wanting flowers from every submissive that she meets quote: ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross Did you ask? I'm not a pro dom, but my partner gave me flowers and chocolates- standard but very sweet.

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