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MissMagnolia -> RE: Scat (6/11/2008 5:41:43 PM)
I'll say whatever I like Selena, because this is a public forum. You asked the question In order for my sub, to prove his submission to me, from time to time. He may beg and then pay to dine on an occassional snack of my feces. What do you other Mistresses and slaves, think of this vile act? I am a Mistress and I answered your question. You may not agree with the responses you get, but that's just tough luck. If you had bothered to read my entire post, you would have seen that I agreed with the posters that said if it's your thing, get on with it. You thank them for "supporting you" regardless of the fact that they all find it as repulsive as I did. I have two slave and have never felt the need to make myself do anything that repulses me for either of them. You yourself called shit eating a vile act, but you are prepared to do it. I have yet to find a Mistress who would do something they found repulsive to make their sub happy. I hope at some stage he tells you what a turn on it would be if YOU ate HIS shit. You want to make him happy, yes? To please him? To prove yourself to him? Don't forget to send us all photo's.

TNstepsout -> RE: Scat (6/11/2008 7:30:11 PM)
Disgusting, and not in a good way. The idea of someone eating shit it is so revolting I couldn't possibly watch. I couldn't even watch Fear Factor when they made people eat bugs and leaches and stuff. BLEH! I certainly couldn't watch someone real and in front of me eating shit. And imagine his nasty stinky breath- eewwwww!

torsionman -> RE: Scat (6/11/2008 9:05:45 PM)
It is my sincere mindset that if your slave performs as a toilet for you that it's for your pleasure not his (though it looks like it is pleasurable for him). In any other context it's an act of acquiescence on your part and not of Dominance. Do YOU enjoy using him for NO OTHER reason than you enjoy it? Some here read you as not a sincere Dominant. Good solid reasons from your own mind will make the stand for you in this case and any others you participate in. Though you may include his part, Your's is the one speaking. Speak your mind.

solvr70 -> RE: Scat (6/11/2008 9:55:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: selena123 In order for my sub, to prove his submission to me, from time to time. He may beg and then pay to dine on an occassional snack of my feces. What do you other Mistresses and slaves, think of this vile act? to each T/their own. i try to not judge. but this would be vile and discusting to me. but that is just me. if someO/one else likes it, to each their own...

dreamerdreaming -> RE: Scat (6/12/2008 12:36:46 AM)
Re: scat: Whatever floats your boat is fine, as long as you are not spreading disease. I think what's rubbing people the wrong way here, is the tone of the original post. It smacks of insecurity. And really Selena, as MissMagnolia said: if you yourself see it as a vile act, then who is really proving their submission to whom? If he enjoys it, (and by your own admission you're doing it mainly to placate him) he's not proving his submission by doing it. You're catering to his fetish.

HardToTame -> RE: Scat (6/12/2008 1:40:38 AM)
I think, if a woman has a sexy ass, then she's worth keeping. Because, if even the most disgusting part of her is beautiful, then ai carumba [:D] . Whilst it's not my cup of poo, I think it's great that 2 people can feel THAT comfortable with one another. The bond there must seriously be like nothing alot of us have ever experienced. Everyone has their kinks. Don't judge people because of them, because at the end of the day, reality is we're all freaks here. It takes courage to expose something like that publically on the net. .......................................................... What happens if he chokes on some of last nights corn? [;)] (sorry I couldn't resist) but no really, good on you Salena. Do what you do and do it well. Just, remind me to never go to yours for dinner [:D] jk

MissMagnolia -> RE: Scat (6/12/2008 1:51:39 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: selena123 . Each sub wants something and they get it or they leave,so don't assume that pleasing my sub makes me less of a domme than anyone else,cause I'm damn good at it - spend a week with me and you too will be my slave. A "new but well researched domme"? Oh yeah, I'll drop my 30 years of domliness and become a slave to someone who's read some books.[sm=biggrin.gif]And one who gives in to her slave so he won't leave her?[sm=biggrin.gif] I'm not sure which planet you're from, but you really need to understand that you're not special on Earth. Maybe on you're home planet...............................................[sm=biggrin.gif]

HardToTame -> RE: Scat (6/12/2008 2:11:59 AM)
Give her a break. What theres a rule book to being a domme now? Let the woman enjoy herself. The guy eats her shit. How many woman can honestly say that someone thinks so highly of them that they would eat there shit? And she wants to keep him? Fuck, he must be good to then. She's honest enough to admit she's new, and smart enough to research. Let them have their fun. They're not shitting on you so relax.

MissMagnolia -> RE: Scat (6/12/2008 2:16:06 AM)
Where did anyone say she was wrong? Where did anyone say she wasn't right or wrong? She asked a question and made remarks. I have the option to respond to them. Don't like it? Don't read them. Try actually READING what has been said.

selena123 -> RE: Scat (6/12/2008 6:31:41 AM)
Daydreaming-thank you I think you said it best. I am indeed catering to my subs fetish. I guess on my planet (to quote the seemingly very angry redhead) I am still the Domme here because I only cater to those fetishes of his that I want to cater to. Now if he had me doing something I got no satisfaction from, that would be a different story. Ms angry M suggested he may one day ask me to eat his , well No Way! Therein lies the difference for me, I can demand and refuse all things, he cannot. As for keeping my slave happy "so he won't leave" me (again quoting notorious Red) I certainly do plan on keeping his butt happy for the rest of his life as long as he keeps me happy too. The dominance in our relationship evidently must be different from that of others but so what, freaky is freaky to me . I would never attempt to tell anyone how to be a slave or master in their own relationship. If I wanted cookie cutter behavior I'd be vanilla. so why should anyone be rubbed the wrong way by the manner in which I practice my dominance over my property/sub/slave/pet or whatever. In fact if I let petie beat my butt every day and still called myself Domme, so what are they gonna do, report me to the kinky police? LOL. Big Red you were really starting to sound hostile. Isn't this site all about not following the norm? so I'm not, so I'm not following it! . Relax , get a couple of hot slaves and do your thing. No reason to get nasty.

selena123 -> RE: Scat (6/12/2008 6:40:51 AM)
HardtoTame-Thanks for your comments, can I buy you a drink? LOL I promise no dinner and no corn LOL Selena

peppermint -> RE: Scat (6/12/2008 10:46:07 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: HardToTame Give her a break. What theres a rule book to being a domme now? quote: ORIGINAL: selena123 spend a week with me and you too will be my slave. Selena's childish words have nothing to do with being a Domme.

MistressRouge -> RE: Scat (6/12/2008 11:56:27 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: darchChylde Were i required to prove my submission in this way, you'd be alone. As a matter of fact, were my Dominant to request or order me to do anything as a way to "prove my submission"; i might have some issues with that as well. To me it sounds like a weak manipulative ploy along the same lines of a teenage boy trying to get into his girlfriend's pants with the words "You'd do it if you loved me." Perhaps i'm wrong, but i believe that a strong relationship should be above such necessities of proving one's devotion in such grand gestures. I totally agree darchChylde :) I have heard some astonishing acts of "prove your servitude" across various forums, from subs too. Hands burning on stoves and such like, the mindset is not my bag at all, but if it works for others fair enough. Regarding scat, well, some subs enjoy the total degradation, and humiliation moreso, or some simply enjoy consuming from their Dominant, whether it be faeces, urine, roman showers etc.

Steponme73 -> RE: Scat (6/12/2008 1:04:52 PM)
Well selena123, if that is what you and your sub are into...Get it on! As for me and my simple mind...Uh No! I would probably throwup making an even bigger mess. That is on my hard limits side. I don't know about the health and safety issues...but it seems to me there could be some problems there. But if he likes and you like it that is all that counts.

pixelslave -> RE: Scat (6/12/2008 1:49:25 PM)
I think many here would be surprised at the real number of people who are into SCAT play. However, because of the rather judgmental and very vocal attitudes expressed in threads such as this one, they tend to stay underground. I think that's somewhat of a shame considering that most all of wiitwd would be judged similarly by the majority of the vanilla crowd, yet we seem to having difficulty accepting those in this lifestyle whose kinks some of us don't approve of or would define as hard limits for ourselves. While at SPLF last February in Dallas, there was a presenter by the name of Officer Wes who put on a presentation about Playing with "Poo" as he refers to it. At http://www.westom.com/leather/shit.htm, he goes into a great amount of detail regarding the why's, what's, how's, the risks, and even the history behind it. So if you'd like to learn more to educate yourselves rather than making assumptions based on incomplete information, I suggest you visit his very informative web site. He provides a number of links, including some to the CDC and other reputable sources, to support what he has to say on the subject. From there, you can draw your own conclusions on the risks involved and how to reduce them should you decide to include it in your play. - pixel

TermsConditions -> RE: Scat (6/12/2008 2:54:56 PM)
This is a bit like the Dennis Leary tirade on animal conservation: Everyone wants to save the cute and cuddly animals. The icky gross animals can fend for themselves. Likewise everyone wants to be supportive of the cute and cuddly kinks, like F / m strapon play, ass worship, or fisting, (all of which involves the poo-palace) but nasty ole poo-play gets a cold shoulder and short shrift. I think we're better than this. CM should be a place where all kinks, cute and cuddly -- gross and disgusting -- odd and incomprehensible, can exist together in a community of supportive understading to allow all of us, Dommes and subs alike, to gain greater understanding, and striving together to build a better and kinkier tomorrow. Except for the one where you spit in somebody else's mouth; that's just gross. [;)]

darchChylde -> RE: Scat (6/12/2008 3:23:59 PM)
Pixel and Terms, i think that the majority of the nay-sayers here have went along the lines of YKINMK, not judging the OP's choise in practicing this kink; instead, most of the issue is with the OP's presentation of it and her attitude in general. What i see mostly narrows down to "Do what you want, if that's what you want, for the reasons that you want; but do you have to have such a bitchy attitude when others disagree with it? You have every right to do what you do, and we have every right to not want to be in the room when you do it."

Venatrix -> RE: Scat (6/12/2008 4:30:46 PM)
Oh, come on. Everyone knows that REAL mistresses don't defecate.

pixelslave -> RE: Scat (6/12/2008 4:33:20 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: darchChylde Pixel and Terms, i think that the majority of the nay-sayers here have went along the lines of YKINMK, not judging the OP's choise in practicing this kink; instead, most of the issue is with the OP's presentation of it and her attitude in general. What i see mostly narrows down to "Do what you want, if that's what you want, for the reasons that you want; but do you have to have such a bitchy attitude when others disagree with it? You have every right to do what you do, and we have every right to not want to be in the room when you do it." darch, I'd agree there've been a number of "YKINMK" posts in response to the OP. There've also been so many other tangent posts including some about what's "Dommly" and what's not, as well other personalizations going on that it's been difficult for me to say how much of it is about presentation and how much is driven at least in part by the subject matter; thus my reason for posting and the providing the link. Otherwise, I'd have avoided stepping in the proverbial shit entirely. [;)] - pixel

pixelslave -> RE: Scat (6/12/2008 4:37:21 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Venatrix Oh, come on. Everyone knows that REAL mistresses don't defecate. Wrong! Since you're a Mistress, I'd think you'd know what every TWUE submissive knows; a REAL Mistress' poop doesn't stink! [:D] - pixel

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