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Aestus -> RE: Is it normal to be annoyed by the majority of female dominants? (6/10/2008 7:11:05 PM)

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ORIGINAL: missturbation

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I do certainly hope so. But for now, it's my only appreciation of the idea of female dominance that keeps me from dedicating myself to female submission.

Just out of curiosity what is your 'idea' of  a female dominant?


It'd be more accurate to describe the ideal dominant woman after my own fantasies. Simply the sweet personality young girl combined with sadistic tendencies that do not overshadow the sweet personality. And must be attractive.



MissMagnolia -> RE: Is it normal to be annoyed by the majority of female dominants? (6/10/2008 7:11:31 PM)

I already consider you a man of no importance and didn't need your permission to think that, but thanks[sm=biggrin.gif][sm=biggrin.gif]



MySweetSubmssive -> RE: Is it normal to be annoyed by the majority of female dominants? (6/10/2008 7:12:02 PM)

FR

Aestus,

What you may not get -- because you've been here a matter of days -- is that lots of people do a lot of bitching about lots of other people here (been there, done that, got the t-shirt).  So your bitching and baiting (call it what it is), just gets mixed in with all the other efluvia.

How have you even had enough time to determine that all dominant women suck?  The ink on your profile is still wet.

Is your purpose on this site to find a woman that you dig?  Then, baby, find her!  Unless you are polyamorous, you only need one.  There will be lots of people who are not your cup of tea, but if you make friends, if you put yourself out there, if you're lucky, you may find one that respects you and dominates you and rings your bells. 

Mss



Aestus -> RE: Is it normal to be annoyed by the majority of female dominants? (6/10/2008 7:19:02 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Lynnxz
I do believe it takes an unhealthy amount of ego to believe that you are entitled to money for abusing someone. It takes an equally unhealthy amount to think that you deserve a woman to be your little fetish object and ram things up your ass for free.

Is it really that farfetched to expect the ass-ramming to happen out of love? Must such things happen out of the greed of one of the sides?


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For some reason, dominant women ..well, they seem to be on average among the less attractive. Could be that they grow insecure, and therefore find the dominant role to be an escape from this, without realizing how unhealthy it is. Why is it that only fat women are fat, but fat guys are "Husky" and "Robust"?

Actually, fat women are BBW. Both genders can be very good at trying to avoid facing the truth by phrasing it differently.

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It's probably best not to judge a group of people based on what you see on the internet- it's a lot different once you leave the basement.

I can accept this. I live in a small town that lacks any BDSM community, so my experience is limited to the internet. But I still can't help being demotivated by what I see on the internet.





Evility -> RE: Is it normal to be annoyed by the majority of female dominants? (6/10/2008 7:20:22 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MISTRESSKUMA
you actually liked his post? Always I knew you were another misogynist.
both you so called "men" are just AFRAID of women.
you hate what you fear.


Skully liked RedMagic's reply to the OP.

Try to keep up.



MadRabbit -> RE: Is it normal to be annoyed by the majority of female dominants? (6/10/2008 7:20:51 PM)

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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

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ORIGINAL: Aestus
Consider me a man of no importance.

Okay.



Isn't it great that we all found common ground?

Let's have a big Collarme.com hug



Aestus -> RE: Is it normal to be annoyed by the majority of female dominants? (6/10/2008 7:24:37 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MySweetSubmssive
How have you even had enough time to determine that all dominant women suck?  The ink on your profile is still wet.

I believe so. This isn't my first account here, and I've spent much more time looking through profiles then I want to admit to myself...

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Is your purpose on this site to find a woman that you dig?  Then, baby, find her!  Unless you are polyamorous, you only need one.  There will be lots of people who are not your cup of tea, but if you make friends, if you put yourself out there, if you're lucky, you may find one that respects you and dominates you and rings your bells.

...and with all the time I've spent on it, I haven't found a single person that even managed to tempt me to get to know them better.



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Is it normal to be annoyed by the majority of female dominants? (6/10/2008 7:28:22 PM)

Thank you for this laugh. I needed it very much. 

Off to be my bitter, fat, ugly, moneygrubbing self!  [:D]



Lynnxz -> RE: Is it normal to be annoyed by the majority of female dominants? (6/10/2008 7:29:50 PM)

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Is it really that farfetched to expect the ass-ramming to happen out of love? Must such things happen out of the greed of one of the sides?
You don't understand that many, MANY guys... don't think about the domme at all. The emails are all, "OMG! I want to be your slave so you can ram me all day" It gets boring very quickly if all of your conversations center around your fetishes. These guys will NEVER get it, and are better off paying a pro that has the patience to deal with them. Contrary to popular belief, pro dommes are usually very patient human beings for the most part. :P

I can accept this. I live in a small town that lacks any BDSM community, so my experience is limited to the internet. But I still can't help being demotivated by what I see on the internet.Welllll... then I suggest you take a road trip to some kind of Domcon or something. The internet is where everyone can show their worst side without consequence.





DiurnalVampire -> RE: Is it normal to be annoyed by the majority of female dominants? (6/10/2008 7:31:06 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Aestus
I can accept this. I live in a small town that lacks any BDSM community, so my experience is limited to the internet. But I still can't help being demotivated by what I see on the internet.


Well, hell if thats the problem...
I am demotivated by what I see on the internet too. You think you got it bad, take a peek into my mailbox. You want ot know why there are so many profiles out there starting with "Hey Pig" you shuld see how many first emails we get that say "I am nothing more than a pig". I should introduce your Domme to the submales that email me, theyd be so happy together.
If I had gone only by what I had been introduced to online, and not bothered with real life communities and meeting people, I would have stayed single. All I was reading was unrealistic crap from male and female subs, lots of "I am worthless" and "I do not deserve to be breathing the same air as you" stuff. The 2 boys I have I met without any interest in being involved with, but we did meet face to face before there was a spark. Online, there was nothing. There has never been anything online.

But instead of trying to fnd the brighter side of things, you doomed it all and came looking for validation or for us to prove you wrong. Well, you're right. There are a lot of very unrealistic dominant profiles. Now, keep in mind, there is a good number of those who are scams. There is a very big number of them who are actually created by males who are playing out a fantasy. There are some who are 2 and 3 and 4 of the same over the top profiles from bored girls (meaning young girls who have nothing better to do than see if theyb can get boys attention) for shits and giggles.  So, it IS normal to be annoyed by the DOMINANT PROFILES on the site.  However, you havent actually gotten to know any of the dominants, you just read a lot of profiles that dont come near matching what you want. Reword your OP and we might agree more.

DV



Owner4SexSlave -> RE: Is it normal to be annoyed by the majority of female dominants? (6/10/2008 7:31:57 PM)

I don't know if I should be laughing my ass off... or rolling my eyes....
What's with all the threads slamming Dommes lately?







Leatherist -> RE: Is it normal to be annoyed by the majority of female dominants? (6/10/2008 7:36:40 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Owner4SexSlave

I don't know if I should be laughing my ass off... or rolling my eyes....
What's with all the threads slamming Dommes lately?







I have no idea. They buy leather gear and fetish fashions with the money they get from male subs. They are WONDERFUL people-really.[:D]



Owner4SexSlave -> RE: Is it normal to be annoyed by the majority of female dominants? (6/10/2008 7:37:19 PM)

To answer your question "Is it normal to be annoyed by the majority of female dominants?", the answer is.... It's normal for you...



Aestus -> RE: Is it normal to be annoyed by the majority of female dominants? (6/10/2008 7:38:02 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Lynnxz
Welllll... then I suggest you take a road trip to some kind of Domcon or something. The internet is where everyone can show their worst side without consequence.

No car or driver's license, barely enough money to be able to make it through next year of school. Good idea, but it won't work that well.



Lynnxz -> RE: Is it normal to be annoyed by the majority of female dominants? (6/10/2008 7:40:22 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Aestus

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ORIGINAL: Lynnxz
Welllll... then I suggest you take a road trip to some kind of Domcon or something. The internet is where everyone can show their worst side without consequence.

No car or driver's license, barely enough money to be able to make it through next year of school. Good idea, but it won't work that well.



Well then, to quote my Drill Sgt, you shall have to suck it up and drive on.

Forget the  "OMFG bad pro domme!" posts, whats with all the posts complaining about life, but doing nothing to change it? Last year I said to myself, "Self, you are broke, and I am fricking tired of ramen." So I got a better job, went back to school, and now I am meeting lovely people and traveling around to places I would have otherwise never been able to go. Hurray for motivation!



Skully7000 -> RE: Is it normal to be annoyed by the majority of female dominants? (6/10/2008 7:42:44 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MISTRESSKUMA

you actually liked his post? Always I knew you were another misogynist.

both you so called "men" are just AFRAID of women.

you hate what you fear.




I will assume you misunderstood my comment. I was congradulating REDMAGIC1 not the OP.
but even with that assumption I am curious as to why you "Always Knew" I was a misogynist?
I am quite unsure how I have given you that impression prior to this post.
And if you truly feel that way i'm perfectly open to hearing your complaints. either publicly or privately.

To be honest Overall my preference leans greatly towards women in general. be they friends lovers or play partners...there are exceptions towards men I like as friends or as play partners...but that is definitely an exception rather then the rule.

I neither hate nor fear women as a general rule. and since you are a new yorker feel free to ask around. I am quite comfortable with the reputation I have earned. Also if you ever wish to discuss this with me in person I would be happy to give you a schedule of TES events or club events that I attend.

Cheers
Skully

P.S. Thank you to those who tried to stick up for me(or at least correct her regardless of your feelings towards me) I'll take either



Aestus -> RE: Is it normal to be annoyed by the majority of female dominants? (6/10/2008 7:43:22 PM)

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ORIGINAL: DiurnalVampire
But instead of trying to fnd the brighter side of things, you doomed it all and came looking for validation or for us to prove you wrong. Well, you're right. There are a lot of very unrealistic dominant profiles.


I guess it'd be self-deceptive of me to claim I didn't seek any validation at all. And I can't really think of a way to witness the brighter side of things (imagining that it'll all be better if I meet someone offline doesn't help at all). I believe the only option that I have is to play the date-lottery and hope to get something exciting. But I'm not really motivated for that. I'm not much of a gambling man.



Aestus -> RE: Is it normal to be annoyed by the majority of female dominants? (6/10/2008 7:46:38 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Lynnxz

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ORIGINAL: Aestus

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ORIGINAL: Lynnxz
Welllll... then I suggest you take a road trip to some kind of Domcon or something. The internet is where everyone can show their worst side without consequence.

No car or driver's license, barely enough money to be able to make it through next year of school. Good idea, but it won't work that well.



Well then, to quote my Drill Sgt, you shall have to suck it up and drive on.

Forget the  "OMFG bad pro domme!" posts, whats with all the posts complaining about life, but doing nothing to change it? Last year I said to myself, "Self, you are broke, and I am fricking tired of ramen." So I got a better job, went back to school, and now I am meeting lovely people and traveling around to places I would have otherwise never been able to go. Hurray for motivation!



Sure enough, nothing will change if I don't take action, but my situation doesn't really allow that much freedom, unless I give up on my ambitions. After a busy year of school that might not even allow me any recreation between study and sleep, things will hopefully get better. But for now, motivational speeches have no effect.



MsLadySue -> RE: Is it normal to be annoyed by the majority of female dominants? (6/10/2008 7:48:09 PM)

Perhaps the Op is just PO'd because no Dommes are sending him emails and with the attitude he's displayed in this thread he won't have reason to check his inbox any time soon.

And for the record Op of many unfounded generalities, the fact you find BBW's not to your liking is no reason to say most Domme's are unattractive. The majority of subs and slaves I've corresponded with like the fact I am a large woman. You are entitled to your opinion, but many males don't share it.



MySweetSubmssive -> RE: Is it normal to be annoyed by the majority of female dominants? (6/10/2008 7:52:31 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Aestus

...and with all the time I've spent on it, I haven't found a single person that even managed to tempt me to get to know them better.



Then the problem is your eyes. 

If everthing looks unappealing, the common denominator is you.  Until you change that, the dominants will continue to not tempt you.

Among other people, I happen to think I'm pretty great.  I am sometimes bitchy, but more often thoughtful, sensitive, reflective and consensually shitty!  (smiling)

Mss



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