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Owner4SexSlave -> Switching from D/s to Dom Couple mode? (6/10/2008 10:57:11 PM)

I figured I'd break down and make a post to "Ask a Switch" forum for a change.
Before I get into the questions I have here are some basic facts.
  • I'm sadomaso in nature.  I enjoy pain at times as much as enjoy inflicting it.
  • I've been in Dom/Domme power couple relationship and loved the hell out it. She was sadomaso as well.  The energy exchange was very wild and fluid.  Two smart-ass Doms pushing and playing with one another.  Not to mention the fun we had with people around us.
  • I've done D/s relationships as well.
  • I'm not submissive.
  • I have no issues with being a bottom to a range of activities provided I'm not treated like I'm slave boy. 
  • I've become open minded to poly type of relationships.
  • I don't consider myself as being a true switch because I'm a Dom.  Switching is limited to play provided it's reasonable.

Now here are some thoughts I have been questioning, and I don't know how practical it is for me to explore these options.
  1. sadomaso female switch, that can change gears between D/s to Dom couple mode.
  2. sadomaso female switch, that can pretty much function as part of a Dom couple.
  3. sadomaso female switch, that is D/s with me.  Provided she can top me on a few things without some mental hangup.  Meaning if I'm in the mood for some pain, she best well can delivery it to me.

Again, I'm not looking to take D/s then magically turn it around 180 where I'm in the submissive role.  I'm actually pretty experienced at what i do, that even when somebody is topping me, they won't feel that I've being all submissive and such.  A lot of s-types generally have some road block in inflicting pain upon a Dom partner. 

Anyways, how off the wall does this sound to you guys?   I've been debating about creating a couple of different profiles, because right now I'm keeping an open mind regarding... a Dom couple relationship, a M/s or D/s relationship, then here's this notion I have about exploring what is possible with "A switch".   I've honestly, never been in a relationship with "A switch" perhaps I this would make an interesting switch for a change.

I do know one thing, I need to have some form of a connection with somebody. 





selena123 -> RE: Switching from D/s to Dom Couple mode? (6/11/2008 9:57:52 AM)

I think you should take a chance and explore all of those options with someone, it sounds like a switch is just what you need to fulfill both sides of your interest. The only caviat is to be sure to tell someone switching will occur, its so bothersome to have a power struggle. good luck



earthycouple -> RE: Switching from D/s to Dom Couple mode? (6/18/2008 5:08:03 PM)

I gotta tell you, OP...you've described me to a T.  I'm very much a pushy topside with amazing bottom potential and I'm also sadomaso as is my partner.  Life is grand.  I say explore til your heart is content.  I've been in two relationships where I was on both the top and bottom at various times for various reasons and of all my encounters...long or short term, they have been my favorite.  YUM.



e01n -> RE: Switching from D/s to Dom Couple mode? (6/23/2008 2:35:39 AM)

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ORIGINAL: earthycouple: <snip>  I'm very much a pushy topside with amazing bottom potential and I'm also sadomaso as is my partner.  Life is grand.
Even so, it does come down to terms and definition - I personally don't identify as s/m. I'm into the connection and viscerality rather than pain. Even though The Woman Whose Bath Water I'm Not Worthy To Drink and I don't agree in the way it's described, we do agree in the way it's practiced.

Such is the chief hazard of (online) communities as research tool: the specific overrules the general.



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