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RE: Nipple Rings - 6/12/2008 6:34:05 PM

ProtagonistLily

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Master has not told me to do this yet. He has simply informed me that he might want to in the future. So, I was asking these questions to better mentally prepare myself for when the time comes that he does tell me to do it.

Ahh, ok, that makes more sense. It appeared from your first post as if it was something he said, like "I'm keen to have your nipples pierced," and you were questioning it.

And I'm not saying that I *never* question him, nor am I suggesting that he is 100% infallible (he actually expects me to use my brain and 'check his work' as a general rule<not sure that makes sense....) but I misunderstood what was going on here.

I don't heal right as a general rule - I get Keyloids sometimes, so I'm not really a good candidate for piercings. If Sir really wanted this, knowing what he knows, I'd do it because I have the data to back up he doesn't do things frivolously, generally doesn't make one sided selfish decisions and takes his care of me seriously. So, if he were to say "I think you need your nips pierced", I'd trust that he knew what he was doing.

We have also been together a while now. I'm not so sure I would been able to comply so readily in the begining.

Good luck to you, I hope you've found some things that are helpful.

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RE: Nipple Rings - 6/12/2008 7:23:17 PM

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I had one nipple done a few years ago and it healed up fairly quickly, my Master at the time was able to have use of them again in a month or so. And it never really inhibited nipple play. I suppose that would depend on how well they heal though. Mine is out now sadly, I miss it.

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RE: Nipple Rings - 6/12/2008 8:22:04 PM

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ORIGINAL: ProtagonistLily

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Master has a keen interest in getting his slave's nipples pierced.

That's all I would have needed to know. I'm confused as to why there would be further discussion?

In our house, a desire on his part to do something does not always mean it will be done. Sometimes, after talking to others who have gone through it, it is deemed a bad idea, not worth the effort/risk, etc. For all we know, her owner may decide that he doesn't want to put up with the long time it takes nipple piercings to heal - during which he will not be able to manhandle them. Sometimes I must present him the information as to why the idea is a bad one, as I am required to do so.

I always applaud people seeking information to make better informed decisions.

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RE: Nipple Rings - 6/13/2008 11:08:00 AM

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I'd like to thank the OP for starting this thread - it comes at a great time for me as I am planning on getting one of my nipples pierced tomorrow :) I already have my labret, navel and tongue pierced (none hurt and all healed faster than average according to my body piercer) so although I'm expecting a shot of sharp pain, I'm hoping not to have a bad case of the gungies (great term!)

Nervously looking forward to it now!

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RE: Nipple Rings - 6/15/2008 11:51:43 PM

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i just got mine done about a month ago. it didnt really hurt but it really depends on the person how much pain you can take and everything. my piercer cleaned the nipples then put dots on them were she was going to do it. she applied the forceps shoved the needle through and then the rings in. let them heal listen to the aftercare instructions be gentle with them. dont play with them! i was having sex just after they got pierced and they accidentaly got hit, now that hurt. so just be careful. and they didnt make me more submissive but they are more sensitive way more sensitive. just do some research and really think about it.

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RE: Nipple Rings - 6/16/2008 11:17:01 AM

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Sorry, this may be a dumb question-what does it mean when it has "migrated"? This is something I desperately want to get done, but I too am afraid of it. So, if you can handle nipple clamps, you can handle piercings? I do not have sensitive nipples, but when we use the clamps, it increases the sensitivity immensly-he wants me to get it done as well, for his own reasons.

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RE: Nipple Rings - 6/16/2008 11:54:32 AM

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ORIGINAL: brynnegrl

Sorry, this may be a dumb question-what does it mean when it has "migrated"? This is something I desperately want to get done, but I too am afraid of it. So, if you can handle nipple clamps, you can handle piercings? I do not have sensitive nipples, but when we use the clamps, it increases the sensitivity immensly-he wants me to get it done as well, for his own reasons.

migrated is when the piercing hole actually moves through your skin... which can result in the hole drifting so far the jewelry can fall out. Migration is not good, it can make infections worse and completely waste a piercing. Usually to avoid it, the piercing has to be done with properly sized jewelry... for nipples it's usually 14 gauge or 12 gauge.

my nipples had increased sensitivity when I had them pierced, so it might turn out fun for you.

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RE: Nipple Rings - 6/16/2008 1:55:20 PM

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Well i didn't get my nipple pierced at the weekend (piercer was on holiday at Download festival), so it'll be done in a fortnight, still nervous, still excited and looking forward to it LOL.

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RE: Nipple Rings - 6/16/2008 2:02:24 PM

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ORIGINAL: IncarnateBeast

Master has a keen interest in getting his slave's nipples pierced. While I'm attracted to the idea, I have an extreme fear of needles. I want to do this to please Master, but I thought it'd be nice to see what other people experienced.

So, my questions to you are: When you were pierced.. 1) did it hurt? 2) What was involved in the process? 3) Has it somehow helped you feel more submissive/ owned,etc ?

1) Yes it hurt a lot, but pain is fleeting the piercings are there forever.

2) I got on my back opened my legs and my owner and a friend of ours debated where the piercing would go - it all felt pretty clinical. Then the piercer put the clamp/forcep things on one of my lips (which didn't hurt at all) and then the needle went through and it hurt a lot. Then I think he put the jewelry in (this was like five or so years ago so thats about the best I remember of it).

3) It didn't really do much in terms of feeling more connected to being submissive - it was nice having some sort of mark of ownership, but the brand was incredibly emotionally impacting to me and the piercing was minorly impacting (although i would be very upset if I had to take it out).

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RE: Nipple Rings - 6/16/2008 2:05:25 PM

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1) did it hurt? Yes, it hurt a LOT!! I said some really bad words to the piercer.

2) What was involved in the process? The piercings themselves did not take long. The nipples were so sore for a week that i cried when Gary cleaned them. One did not heal...i had dried gunk on it all the time... and after 6 months i went back to piercer. He changed out the jewelry and in a few days all was well.

3) Has it somehow helped you feel more submissive/ owned,etc ? No, the piercings did not make me feel more owned...they just cause me to think of my breasts as belonging to him all the time. I don't like to touch my breasts any longer. They are just there....

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RE: Nipple Rings - 6/16/2008 8:09:45 PM

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my experience is a blend of the above. Done very recently at Master's preference. W/we had discussed it a a long time, and it was emotional for me...very much a sign of commitment and slavery for me. No prior piercings except ears decadesa go; i'd done lots of research so knew what to look for in the piercer, and seeing the good things happening helped me relax and know i was in good hands. It was done professionally; no forceps...just a needle through followed by barbells. Master held my hand. i have the double issue of very large, very sensitive nipples...and it hurt a lot...but one big ouch and then some throbbing for about a week off and on. (again, i'm very sensitive). Lots of maintenance to aid healing; so far no complications. it enhances my "slave" feelings very much to know i'm modified for Master.

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