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shykitty1 -> Slaves in WheelChairs (6/12/2008 9:09:53 AM)
As a Master would you be afraid to own a slave that has to be in a wheelchair?

papabear1969 -> RE: Slaves in WheelChairs (6/12/2008 9:19:30 AM)
I don't think the wheelchair should have an effect on a relationship unless it was preventing something in paticular that the master really preferred. Then again it is only a matter of the Dom/Masters preference as to thier liking.

CruelDesires -> RE: Slaves in WheelChairs (6/12/2008 10:02:53 AM)
No. CD

padrepugno -> RE: Slaves in WheelChairs (6/12/2008 10:15:03 AM)
Not at all. It could open up incredible possibilities depending on what the slave were into. P

Dnomyar -> RE: Slaves in WheelChairs (6/12/2008 10:40:36 AM)
I agree with what papa said. I know of a couple of subs in wheelchairs who are doing good with their Doms. The only thing to hold you back here is you yourself.

shykitty1 -> RE: Slaves in WheelChairs (6/12/2008 11:00:38 AM)
I'm glad to hear that. Seems some i have talked to have decided i wasn't for them due to my handicap. I guess that means they weren't for me either.

antipode -> RE: Slaves in WheelChairs (6/12/2008 11:45:15 AM)
Generically? No. If she drools? Yes.

CalifChick -> RE: Slaves in WheelChairs (6/12/2008 11:52:09 AM)
As a Master would you be afraid to own a slave that has to be in a wheelchair? Why do you think this question is any different than this: As a man, would you be afraid to have a girlfriend that has to be in a wheelchair? As a man, would you be afraid to have a wife that has to be in a wheelchair? There is nothing special about D/s or M/s in this regard. People are well, people (most of the time). If people decide you aren't for them, you wouldn't necessarily be for them as vanilla either. Cali

shykitty1 -> RE: Slaves in WheelChairs (6/12/2008 11:54:11 AM)
drools?? lol thats just bad.

RedMagic1 -> RE: Slaves in WheelChairs (6/12/2008 12:50:23 PM)
Your profile and journal look like a philosophy essay, and provide no details about you except your fibromyalgia. It's ok that you are figuring things out, and expressing that, but jeez. Do you own a dog? What's your favorite food? What do you do with your time besides go to the doctor and think about BDSM relationships? It seems as though part of what is going on here is that you are allowing yourself to be defined as "the fibromyalgic one" instead of "a person who does all kinds of cool stuff and also happens to have fibromyalgia."

SteelofUtah -> RE: Slaves in WheelChairs (6/12/2008 1:33:30 PM)
I had a friend once, His slave was in a wheelchair because on a surgury the doctor screw up and then sent her home to die. I saw her do more things from a wheelchair then most able bodied people can do on thier own. I'm Sure there were restrictions but one thing that she did learn is that she had to alter her design of what she wanted because being in a wheelchair changes things and the Fantasy in her head wasn't as realistic as the one in real life. She had to learn to be happy with what she could do rather than be miserable about what she couldn't. Steel

shykitty1 -> RE: Slaves in WheelChairs (6/12/2008 1:37:22 PM)
mixing fantasy with reality is a downfall of many people not just people in chairs. One must always know what they are capable of, and where they want to try..Tis communication that helps keep people from getting hurt because of it

PanthersMom -> RE: Slaves in WheelChairs (6/12/2008 1:52:08 PM)
as a newly disabled person, only a year in the chair now, it's a huge adjustment. there are things i can't do. ok, so what? there always were things i couldn't do, play the piano, fly a plane, walk a tightrope, whatever. you're only limited by what you choose to limit yourself to; are you going to sit and sulk or are you going to live? dominant or submissive, top or bottom, whatever your chosen role, you still are who you are, a person who has wants and needs and dreams to fulfill who just happens to come with a few extra accessories. besides which, i'm always in perfect position for giving otk spankings! [sm=banana.gif] PM

Evility -> RE: Slaves in WheelChairs (6/12/2008 2:53:25 PM)
In and of itself, no.

MistressSybella -> RE: Slaves in WheelChairs (6/13/2008 12:21:28 PM)
Scene-wise, that opens up some real possibilities with "control" and so on. A slave in a wheel chair could be hot. Assuming she was small enough for the average man to pick her up, the Master could put her where he wants her and so on. I think that would provide for some intensely hot scenes. Oh, if I were a voyeuristic fly on the wall. :) To tie this up...No, I don't believe it would make a damn bit of difference to the person that is right for you. Miss 'Bella ServeMeWell

sunshinemiss -> RE: Slaves in WheelChairs (6/13/2008 2:50:25 PM)
Dear Kitty, The reality is that many people will say no but when the rubber meets the road, they just won't like it. It's not really any different from age, race, religion, body type, smoking, etc. Everybody has their preferences... some are very specific (my buddy who wanted a size 2 Jew - and bless him, he found her after years of looking), to very vague - someone who makes me laugh. You can sit around and worry about "what if" or you can say fuck off to anybody who gives you shit. That's what many people have to do. Good luck, sunshine

azropedntied -> RE: Slaves in WheelChairs (6/13/2008 7:07:17 PM)
As a Switchy type i have done BDSM D/s exchanges with people that had to use a wheelchair , and not one of them was handicapped more so i found they disliked that term . A quote from a wonderful lil subbie gal , telling people i am handicapped means places limits upon myself and people wish to place limits upon me . Now i am by no means saying not to use the term instead i am saying do not let it project and be yourself . Your 100% correct in the fact that they are not ment for you if all they see is a wheelchair and not the person you are . However if i do Tops someone that needs the use of a wheelchair or discloses some form of disability i also take the time to educate myself prior to an exchange .Just as i feel full disclosure should be made between parties prior to anything happening to be safe . One example would be a Domme friend who "played" with a bottom male he did not disclose certain blood thinner meds he was on and when some cuts and open wounds happened they were not easy to stop bleeding .If he only would have disclosed this prior things would have been much better , fortunately for him she had medical training . kitty best wishes to you upon your journey and always keep great communication . Be picky and be safe . quote: ORIGINAL: shykitty1 I'm glad to hear that. Seems some i have talked to have decided i wasn't for them due to my handicap. I guess that means they weren't for me either.

MzMia -> RE: Slaves in WheelChairs (6/19/2008 8:19:08 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: shykitty1 As a Master would you be afraid to own a slave that has to be in a wheelchair? Hello sweetshykitty, and welcome to the boards. We are all going to develop some sort of medical conditions, if we live long enough. Many of us are walking around and forget that we are a car accident, household accident, fall, diving, swimming, boating, freak accident or illness away from being disabled or in a wheelchair. The RIGHT man for you, will not care at all sweetheart. The WRONG men will care. Good luck in finishing your degree and accomplishing your goals, I hope the RIGHT one comes your way soon.

HalloweenWhite -> RE: Slaves in WheelChairs (6/20/2008 11:07:39 AM)
Not on Your nelly-I'm in a wheelchair too!. Can You say "easy access"? ;).

HalloweenWhite -> RE: Slaves in WheelChairs (6/20/2008 11:13:16 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: shykitty1 I'm glad to hear that. Seems some i have talked to have decided i wasn't for them due to my handicap. I guess that means they weren't for me either. Rejection is something felt on both side of the fence, so to speak. in terms of attraction (or lack there of! lol) BDSM is no different to vanilla because people in the lifestyle are still people and have the same bagage, hang ups etc. as vanilla. I've been passed over, it happens and will happen again I've no doubt. Don't stop loking for what you need, there are a lot of good people around and if you stop looking you'll never find them.

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