greetings and salutations im LJ not only is this my first forum EVER (omg u must think i live under a rock) but im kinda new at this whole bdsm stuff my girlfriend is into it buuuuuuut im not use to that kind of lifestyle at all she said that this is the place to learn and i hope anybody who reads this can shed some light on the subject and hopefully your infinite wisdom will rub off on me hugs!!!! LJ