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everhope -> RE: Fetish / BDSM - parties and dresscode (6/14/2008 4:00:21 PM)
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ORIGINAL: YourhandMyAss
For me personally I don't go to parties to be part of the ambiance, I go to play and get flogged spanked and beaten and maybe eventually fucked, in a play space with more room and equipment than I could ever dream of at home. [:D]
Edited to add, that's not to sayI don't shower or wash my hair or put something nice on. I do. But it's not fancy. It's more like my nice black demim skirt with a nice t shirt. or a nice one piece dress. but then again my nice clothes are every day clothing too.quote:
ORIGINAL: everhope
personally, i prefer being at events where everyone makes an effort to be part of the ambience.
headspace is the word i would describe what i seek. (gemini, that i am). i can have as intense of scene at home with our minds and our bodies (there is always a knife or something around) as i can in a dungeon with 85 pieces of equipment. the equipment just provides opportunities for a different headspace. i go to the same dungeon to demos that are held in the daytime...everybody dressed casual. ya know, when i pay 30 bucks to get in to a dungeon party, i don't want to see people in everyday T-shirts. i take effort to look my sexy best ..i appreciate when others do also.
Skully, had some valid points about being creative in ones attire. it really doesn't take that much people.
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