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male chastity device - 6/13/2008 6:19:15 AM   
selena123


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Status: offline 		okay this new gadget is driving me crazy!What has been your experience with male chastity devices if any?  Seeing my big muscle bound sub in one would be a huge turn on.
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RE: male chastity device - 6/13/2008 6:22:38 AM   
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Status: offline 		The look ok on, for a while, but in my personal experience the look under clothes is unappealing. Keep in mind, though, my boys are very little except in certain places...and so a big buldge where the chastity device lays is extremely noticable on a small body frame. Great for public humiliation play, though.
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RE: male chastity device - 6/13/2008 10:28:57 AM   
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Status: offline 		from the slaves point of view : i think that more then any thing else after a while it makes the salve feel secure when he is with him.
and also the fact that the slave is chasted makes him be more focused .
its strange but just  after i been chasted i started to understand the value of Cuming, and after a month with device I wanted to be with him even when I had the choice to decide  

maybe its becvouse it made  understand the valiw of cuming

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RE: male chastity device - 6/13/2008 10:32:16 AM   
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Status: offline 		It really does depend on the device. I keep my boy in chastity, although we have had problems in the past due to the poor design of them. We currently have a CB6000 which we have customised ourselves as accessories for this model remain unavailable, ensuring he cannot pull out of it as regardless of fitting, a submissive will always be able to extract his penis unless something else is utilised to prevent this. My boy is pierced, so that's another problem with chastity devices insofar as finding one which can be used in conjunction with a PA, and I'd recommend some of the german sites, which are excellent and which offer cages/tubes, etc...

Particular focus for Reality and I is in tease/denial, hence the chastity. It keeps him focused on me and not on his own sexual needs. The major problem with someone new to chastity is getting the correct fit and also getting used to wearing one. The nighttime 'rages' can be unbearable, so I'd recommend sleeping on the back with legs akimbo to reduce the pain, having one of those cool gel packs to hand is also good.

Soon we shall get a customised one from one of the german sites (if you want a link, I'm happy to provide) and which will be able to incorporate his PA and allow for him to also wear a princes wand.
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okay this new gadget is driving me crazy!What has been your experience with male chastity devices if any? Seeing my big muscle bound sub in one would be a huge turn on.
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RE: male chastity device - 6/13/2008 10:33:16 AM   
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Status: offline 		My boys are both chaste, just without the hardware. You learn the value of cumming when you ahve to teach yourself to say n, and you need to actively think about it rather than just knowing you cannot.
Selena, which device you get depends on how well your boy is hung. The smaller CB series is very blocky, the curve device is much smoother and (imho) more appealing, but it is also much bigger than the CB series. I got a Curve for Angel which he never wears becasue of hos obvious the piece is on him (he has a 30 inch waist and everything hangs on him, so a rigid plastic device was impossible to hide). If you are strictly going for looks, you might wat to browse some of the adult sides and look at some of the more attractive metal chastity options. They arent made for long term wear, but they are made to be appealing. The longer term wear ones arent as attractive as they are functional.

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RE: male chastity device - 6/13/2008 10:42:11 AM   
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Status: offline 		hello,
could you send me the adress site for the cb6000,

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RE: male chastity device - 6/13/2008 10:43:20 AM   
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RE: male chastity device - 6/13/2008 1:07:01 PM   
ThundersCry


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Status: offline 		When I was *In chastity* with devices, without*....I found...
 
Some...freedom.
 
I agree with shimson...I was secure....safe...
 
It was the mood swings that I had to deal with as there was always tease and denial along with....it.
 
Not something I see myself doing again, but...back then it was importatnt...it was a...need.
 
Have fun...

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RE: male chastity device - 6/13/2008 3:35:14 PM   
Skully7000


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Status: offline 		Since I didn't here anyone mention it: what's the longest you've kept your sub in one? i've heard 2-3 weeks any longer is pushing what is safe...  but that is just my memory from a class...anyone? anyone have scientific knowledge about it?
hurray learning:)

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RE: male chastity device - 6/13/2008 4:48:19 PM   
Reigna


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Status: offline 		The devices don't have a great deal of practical value with my sub, whose floppy bits remain maddeningly floppy when subjected to a lot of tease and denial. I use cock cages for a couple of days at a time, though, purely for esthetic value. I think they look smokin' hot.

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RE: male chastity device - 6/14/2008 12:26:58 AM   
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Status: offline 		I've never had to wear one of these things before. I came REALLY close once, but then she decided she wanted to "trust me" rather than force chastity on me. Years later, I kind of wish she hadn't trusted me cause I think it would have been an interesting experience to, um, experience.

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RE: male chastity device - 6/14/2008 2:35:34 AM   
MissMorrigan


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Status: offline 		Littlesarbonn, trust isn't an issue between and isn't why I keep Reality in chastity, I trust him implicitly, and vice versa. For us, it's just another tool to utilise in the tease/denial process. It's akin to having an itch and being unable to scratch it. He can see through the plastic, he attempts to get an erection but there's that little device preventing him from achieving it fully and the frustration he incurs delights me as a result.

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RE: male chastity device - 6/14/2008 3:31:54 AM   
SpiderInWaiting


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Status: offline 		I am not sure which chastity device you are refering to but I have a slave that I am currently working with and he has used the cb3000 and the cb6000. The cb3000 should be avoided because the pin in the device rubs against the skin and can be very painful and leave a blistered tender spot that can get easily infected. This is the reason why the cb6000 was created. It was redesigned to make the connecting parts easier to use however the 6000 is not as wide as the 3000 so if your slave is large or wide then it might be a problem. The curve is made to fit men with larger cocks but it can't be hidden under clothing so it can't be worn 24/7. 

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RE: male chastity device - 6/14/2008 3:32:38 AM   
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ORIGINAL: MissMorrigan

. For us, it's just another tool to utilise in the tease/denial process.


also, a tool the makes the sub think about he's owner and hes place.
for example everytime he goes to the toilet.
something that  glorifys he's owner.

trust is the most basic thing, without it there can't be a  true and good relations .


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RE: male chastity device - 6/14/2008 8:15:13 AM   
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Status: offline 		Hi there, I am using the Cb 6000 at the current time.  It is the first time we have tried Chastity, it's been a fantasy of mine(jay), so Ess and I talked about using chastity in our relationship and she was interested.  it is good value and very comfortable.  I was quite surprised at how comfortable it is.  It did and still is needing time to become fully comfortable wearing the device for extended periods.  The more we use it the longer the stints.  I think the longest time of contiunous use has been 2 and a half days.  Doesn't sound like much, but try to wear a plastic tube over your cock that doesn't allow any form of direct contact or ANY CHANCE of an erection for that long and you'll be able to empathise.
Ess loves the look of it when it is on, and I love the feel.  It is easy to wear under clothes.  The most noticable thing we've noticed is the psychological effect it has produced.  it is true the wearer becomes more focused on everything.  you just don't think about your cock.  you know there ain't no way in hell your gonna be able to use it so why even think about it.  But it also teases the hell out of the person, because they know their Top/Dom has that ultimate control, there is only one way out and that is the key holders discreation.  When wearing it i do feel safe and secure and calm.  When we play whilst wearing it, I feel more focused and concerned about Ess's needs and wants, her pleasure. which is a plus for us both.

We've also noticed that once i am out of the cage,( mind you after some torturous teasing) my erections are sooo much harder.  Don't know why , could be that i am so horny, but my erection is really hard and firm and lasts for ages. 
We are working towards wearing for longer periods of time, as it stands we are going for a continous week this week.  so wish me luck.

I've done a little reading and i've seen ppl say they only let the man out once aweek for cleaning. I see this may be acepetable with regular cleaning with cotton swabs, we take it off and wash both it and me at least every second day.  I feel this is good for personal hygeine, but i think also penis health.  Think about it, if you kept your legs constantly bent for a week without the ability to fully extend and move I am sure they with eventually crap and fall into some form of disrepair.  so don't let this happen to your cock.

well thats my 2cents, hope it helps ppl out there, and sorry if I have waffled on a bit.
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RE: male chastity device - 6/14/2008 8:34:23 AM   
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Status: offline 		I've worn one for my wife when I was married, she loved the power she felt over me! I am big and strong, she was very tiny and always felt like men were too much to handle... until she had my keys! This gave her the ability to determine how our sexual activities progressed. I loved that once i could not just take care of things in the shower that I was so focused on her and her desires, that made her very happy! It was all the little things, not the sex, that made it all so special for us.

Rubbing her shoulders, cooking her dinner (she would have starved me so I liked to cook anyways) snuggling up every night with my cage against her, we both loved the shift in power chastity creates.

I've made several in the past ten years and although I like the belt style for looks and feel of captivity, getting pierced and having a small metal cage made wearing it to work everyday possible. I can't fit in a CB series and don't like the tightness under the sack, but with a piercing it is very secure without pinching... unless I am getting teased!

Go for it Selena! You will be very happy you did! My recommendations are the Lori's tubes and the Chastity Steel. Both are very secure and comfortable for long term wear. Your sub will never feel so cherished and possessed as when you lock him up and hide the key!

HB

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RE: male chastity device - 6/14/2008 11:02:45 AM   
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Status: offline 		The cb6000 is more slimline and I've found that it doesn't allow for cleaning with the use of cotton buds even though there are slits provided for this purpose. The fit is 'too close' and the slits are what causes the most discomfort as a result. Cleaning we do every other day and it's a full removal, thorough clean, replacement to ensure a continued high level of personal hygiene.
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I've done a little reading and i've seen ppl say they only let the man out once aweek for cleaning. I see this may be acepetable with regular cleaning with cotton swabs, we take it off and wash both it and me at least every second day.  I feel this is good for personal hygeine, but i think also penis health.  Think about it, if you kept your legs constantly bent for a week without the ability to fully extend and move I am sure they with eventually crap and fall into some form of disrepair.  so don't let this happen to your cock.


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RE: male chastity device - 6/14/2008 12:04:19 PM   
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Status: offline 		Skully7000, I hope you don't mind me offering my experience, but I have been in my metal cage for two weeks at a time with no reason to be out other than i really really wanted sex! One week straight was regular wear for me, then out once every weekend. Because it is not real tight, it is very easy to clean in the shower... as long you don't get excited! After a few years, it becomes very natural and does not interfere with your every day life. Unless you skip a weekend!

For full belts, i spent a weekend in a Chastity Steel CS-100 and think that I could learn to enjoy wearing one all week. It is also easy to clean, a squirt of water when you pee and since there is no back bar, there are no problems at all with cleaning. When you first get put in it you have to take some time to adjust the belt to fit your body, then it does not dig in. In the shower you can let soapy water run inside the tube as long as you don't get excited, then make a make it suck in and out by covering the pee hole in the tube with a finger while wiggling the belt back and forth before you rinse. None of the smell I've read about in other full belts.

Selena123, for visual impact, it is very hot! The Domme who shared hers with me could not stop talking about how good it looked (she even took pictures!). For feeling trapped, it is even hotter! Once that thing is locked on you know that you won't be getting out without a visit to a machine shop! I can't say enough about how well designed and well made it is (it's from Germany), and measuring is not difficult like other full belts. It's adjustable. You will love watching your guy walk around in just the belt! Got "stimulus" check?

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RE: male chastity device - 6/14/2008 2:42:28 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MissMorrigan

Littlesarbonn, trust isn't an issue between and isn't why I keep Reality in chastity, I trust him implicitly, and vice versa. For us, it's just another tool to utilise in the tease/denial process. It's akin to having an itch and being unable to scratch it. He can see through the plastic, he attempts to get an erection but there's that little device preventing him from achieving it fully and the frustration he incurs delights me as a result.


Sounds great. Wish it would have worked out that way for me in the past.


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RE: male chastity device - 6/16/2008 12:04:27 AM   
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okay this new gadget is driving me crazy!What has been your experience with male chastity devices if any? Seeing my big muscle bound sub in one would be a huge turn on.
Selena


Well, OK, i need to bed soon, but i cannot ignore this topic. There are two major classes of male devices, the polymer style, Phoenix Chastity & CB, or steel, as in Cabrera or Neosteel. The former are bulky, jeans are right out, the latter snugger and custom fits. And EXPENSIVE. For cheap, go with the CB-2000 or CB-6000 if he's small, the Curve if not. i have had problems with the guide pins on the 6000 breaking from their moorings. Some extra glue. Piercings put a whole other thing on it, go with the solid Phoenix Chastity tubes or CB-6000 if he's got a some sort of frenum. i work best in a Curve or a Phoenix Talisman, do the math. :-)

Any questions, please contact me off-thread here or at the IM listed in my profile. i haved LOADS of data and experience. After 8 years, i would hope so.

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