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SteelofUtah -> RE: Creative Ideas, Please (6/13/2008 3:51:22 PM)
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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross
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ORIGINAL: SteelofUtah
The worst part about this is that so far all the posters have done nothing but show that they think some peoples Kinks are Silly and not okay. Rather than taking the Holier-Than-Thou Approach, why not either answre the question or ask to further your own education.
Mostly because it's laziness. I can be pretty lazy, but to expect other people to come up with suggestions for your kink when it's already a pretty bad idea is bordering on presumptuous. The worst part about these questions is that it's always so PERSON/CONTEXT dependent that any general discussion is meaningless.
As well- what's wrong with my suggestion? You don't consider it humiliating and mortifying? I think I both answered the question well AND pointed out the silliness.
It's not the kink that's bad, it's the way she's going about it.
Agreed Discussion is Meaningless however the Op never asked for discussion, the Op asked for Ideas and nothing more and in that I must agree with you what you did was give an Idea and I guess I hit the send key too quickly. The Point, however, still remains. Before we get too deep in this I have to say that I agree with the heart of what you said I see the practice as being counter productive and serves only to eventually stale. At some point the Threat must become real and then his secret is out and the game is no longer fun so the purpose of this excercise is meaningless to say the least.
If of course this is a strictly ONLINE relationship then all I can say is the OP is at least trying to maintain a PHYSICAL contol over an Implied connection. Basically the sub actually has something to lose and can't just dissapear. For that I respect the attempt and asking us all for creative ideas is just looking for an angle that she may not have seen.
Now I at times ask for Ideas or How other people feel about certain things. This is not because I am lazy but because I seek an angle I may not be able to see, that idea that is elluding me that once said makes perfect sence that I am a little embarassed that I had not thought of it before.
I applaud anyone who comes across and says "I do not know everything there is to know and am willing to listen to your input" because this is how people learn. When you are quick to answer and slow to question one can only ask where one is, are you Moving forward or standing still.
I honestly don't care for Cross Dressing however it is only through threads like this that I can learn others views and possible see the drive in others towards it however there are times when people jump the "Ass Chewing Bandwagon" and Threads like these fail to educate anyone who was hopeing to understand it better.
LA I am not directy talking to you or any particulat Poster and I am sorry if you felt I was calling someone particulat out. I was just stating my distaste for a particular action that I was starting to see in this thread.
Steel
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