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ORIGINAL: DominantJenny


Do you have a source of info for that that I could get a hold of? :)

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"Pay attention to what you and others say during the scenes you do, because the bottom in a trance state can easily pick up things as suggestions." 

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Less specificly NLP more on the idea of suggestion, I open the door a crack and dicuss the idea that while in a subspace trance, suggestion for post scene adjustment of training ideas you might already be working reinforcing concious work, might speed the process and drive both identity and thought proceses more deeply is quite possible. Example being that during the reconnection/ aftercare phase talk to them about self image items, beautiful creature, the infamous Good Girl/ Boy, communication items you're going to remember to be more open about _____ and talk to me with less embarasment about______.

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I see increadable potential for it's use and missuse, and want people to think about what they may have been doing subconciously already, and to conciously consider what they are feeding to their bottom's brains.

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Cathartic being a scene that causes a sudden release of emotion (not limited to crying releases of sadness or shame but also including anger releases).
Catalytic being scenes that trigger a perspective or life lesson, even scenes that are relativel dull or that go wrong can create change.

A scene can be either one the other, both or niether. There are some things you can do that will stack the deck in favor of achieving catharsis and change, but you cant force them.

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ORIGINAL: GimpinDenial

I didn't see this so.....
Just an idea:
Perfecting your "O" face:
The do's and dont's of facial expressions during coitus.

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ORIGINAL: crouchingtigress

you pay for you own travel to events?...wow....just to let you know, when i put on events and classes here i usually pay the airfare and let them crash at the house.

are you referring to SW when you say january? if so ill be there. :)

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ORIGINAL: Archer

Just back from Southeast Leatherfest and we presented two topics this year.

Deep Impact (Punching, Kicking, body stikes with large and or heavy items, Included dangerous places to strike including Kidneys Liver Heart. Locations of these blows to make sure you can avoid them. Psycological impacts of deep impact play (Both top and bottom perspectives discussed). Considerations of various safety equipment some folks might like to consider. (mouth guards, gloves, padding for the furniture in places many places don’t have it etc)

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S&M More than Meets the Skin- Useing S&M to assist in achieving your personal SM and relationship goals. Included discussions about Building trust through SM, Finding your real limits vs your percieved limits, Cathartic and Catalytic scenes (Scenes that clear the daily fog and allow you to gain clearer self perspectives)
Ordeals and initiations forging your identity with the heat and preasure of pain. Ideas and images of sacrifice and worship, Humiliation as a technique for working towards a freash start, and Sugestibility of trance states induced through pain play potentials for post scene help in changing things in your life. (NLP using SM to induce the trance state)

Classes I'd like to see most of the subjects I give classes on I'll attend anything that runs along the similar vein, because I tend to be one of those people who when they want a class for more than a year or so and nobody is giving one that I canreach, I start researching with a mind to give a class on it whenever I can gather enough information to fill and hour and a half (standard class length at most of the events I have attended).

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ORIGINAL: NumberSix

receiving blowjobs with grace and aplomb.


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ORIGINAL: HornyToadsMI

I am more basic.....

Flogging Fun - How to make creative marks and patterns
Rope Tricks - Fun and Decretive Knots the Boys Scouts Wish They Knew!