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DelilahDeb -> RE: Anal training? (6/19/2008 2:33:20 AM)
Fast reply: quote: But, as much as there is nerve endings in your ass and so forth, fact is, a dildo is representive OF A PENIS!. There for any man copping it in the ass and liking it, is effectively liking the idea of a PENIS BEING INSERTED INTO HIS ASS. Now in my books, thats [sic] homosexuality. A butt plug, is not, by definition, a dildo. It is certainly NOT penis-shaped. Neither are prostate massagers, necessarily. Many men purchase these sex toys for their own individual pleasure whether or not they do anything more with a woman or a man. Nerve endings are nerve endings. If it feels good, great; if it doesn't, then don't. Simple. If YOUR reason for refusing even to attempt a little ass play or fingering or prostate massage is that YOU feel that such an act makes you homosexual in any degree, then you are, by definition, homophobic. (Oh, my gosh! my ass likes it when I have to use Tucks™! It gives me an erection; oh, NO!!! If anyone finds out, they might possibly think I'm queer! Shit!) The visual effect of the shape of a dildo is just that, visual. For most humans, the shape adds to the erotic associations. For the record, historically, heterosexual people have a good deal of anal sex, for the simple and practical reason that it is a pretty effective method of birth control. Delilah Deb

TallDevoted1 -> RE: Anal training? (6/19/2008 9:17:53 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: HardToTame I'm no homophobe. I dont hate gay people. I listen to the gay radio station BY CHOICE. I have gay friends and family members and have known them my whole life. But, as much as there is nerve endings in your ass and so forth, fact is, a dildo is representive OF A PENIS!. There for any man copping it in the ass and liking it, is effectively liking the idea of a PENIS BEING INSERTED INTO HIS ASS. Now in my books, thats homosexuality. If your liking that, if you like the idea of a WOMAN pumping your ass with a toy cock, then if I were these men woman, I'd seriously be asking questions about their views on DRAG QUEENS. Because after all, a drag queen would be the real deal to what your getting. Don't label me as stupid or ignorant just because I don't enjoy your homoerotic adventures. Your not SMART because you've found a way to be gay and straight at the same time with out being Bi. In my eyes, your just in denial. And really..... Some of you need to stop jacking off to your own posts... Thats even gayer than having some chick who wishes she had a dick fuck you from behind with a toy. Obviously you're just not anal-erotic at all, so you don't "get" it (pun intended..lol). Think of it this way, a lot of vanilla society would say that since you, HardToTame, are "submissive", then you can't claim to be a "man"! Is that true? Or is it just that they don't "get" it?

beargonewild -> RE: Anal training? (6/19/2008 9:30:21 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: HardToTame I'm no homophobe. I dont hate gay people. I listen to the gay radio station BY CHOICE. I have gay friends and family members and have known them my whole life. But, as much as there is nerve endings in your ass and so forth, fact is, a dildo is representive OF A PENIS!. There for any man copping it in the ass and liking it, is effectively liking the idea of a PENIS BEING INSERTED INTO HIS ASS. Now in my books, thats homosexuality. If your liking that, if you like the idea of a WOMAN pumping your ass with a toy cock, then if I were these men woman, I'd seriously be asking questions about their views on DRAG QUEENS. Because after all, a drag queen would be the real deal to what your getting. Don't label me as stupid or ignorant just because I don't enjoy your homoerotic adventures. Your not SMART because you've found a way to be gay and straight at the same time with out being Bi. In my eyes, your just in denial. And really..... Some of you need to stop jacking off to your own posts... Thats even gayer than having some chick who wishes she had a dick fuck you from behind with a toy. You just don't get it do you? Anal, play does not define a person's sexual orientation. Whether a person is straight, gay, lesbian, bisexual, many enjoy the delights of anal intercourse with a dildo, plug or insertion of fingers. They probably do so because they enjoy the sensations this activity produces. All males have a gland called the prostrate, which when stimulated produces pleasurable sensations. This is most likely why many males do enjoy being fucked by a dildo. Chances are that most heterosexual men who love anal play have NO homosexual tendencies, they enjoy it because it pleases their Dommes and they enjoy the pleasure they feel from their prostrate gland being manipulated in such a fashion.

GimpinDenial -> RE: Anal training? (6/19/2008 9:41:52 AM)
"hear hear" comes to mind in response to hardtotame: what makes one homosexual is who they are sexualy attracted to. I know of MANY straight men who enjoy receiving anal sex from a woman with a strap-on, this doesn't make them gay, just human and comfortable with their sexuality. feel free to flame me... I don't mind

SissyMichellePR -> RE: Anal training? (6/19/2008 3:21:42 PM)
Can a mod please come and erase all the posts that have nothing to do with anal training. If you want to discuss if anal sex = you gay then please make another thread already stop hi-jacking this thread.

tsatske -> RE: Anal training? (6/19/2008 5:02:52 PM)
yes, the whole 'if you don't use my specially approved Lingua BDSM definitions of your sexuality, you are in denail' always gets on my nerves. This is simple. When people tell me what their name is, that is what i call them. When they tell me what they liked to be called, i respect that. Likewise, when someone tells me what sexuality they identify with, i accept that. What would make someone else think they can identify my sexuality better than me? (mostly it is the whole, 'oh, no, i only have six boxes here, you are just going to have to pick one' thing. and, no, no, i don't have to pick one of YOUR boxes) This boils down to the most BASIC of good manners, really. When my friend tells me she is Indian, i don't lecture her on 'I'm sure you meant Native American'. It is HER race, she gets to chose her titles and identifiers. How hard is this? using the correct fork must be WAY over your fucking head. (Use the one farthest from the plate, first, and work your way in. But this presumes you can figure out on your own rather to use a fork or a spoon for this dish.)

unforegvn -> RE: Anal training? (6/21/2008 5:48:03 PM)
Lube up, not too much, wear as long as you can stand it - take it out and repeat. If it falls out try a larger size. Continue this process until you can wear it for several hours or as long as your Mistress tells you to.

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