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RE: turn ons & offs - 6/17/2008 4:44:58 PM

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Turn On's

Honest communication
Thoughtfullness
Intelligence
Playfullness

Turn Off's

Sir/Master, not for me
Evasiveness
Seeing her thinking and her denying that something said/done/asked has her brain working hard
"Poor me" syndrome

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RE: turn ons & offs - 6/17/2008 5:16:22 PM

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Turn ons:   Willingness to serve.
                    Honesty
                    Running mascara..... I say this as an homage to ResidentSadist.
                    Ligature marks

Turn offs: Do me attention whores.
                   Liars
                   Possesiveness or jealousy

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RE: turn ons & offs - 6/18/2008 10:18:30 AM

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Turns ons: Yes Master, willing to try new things, ability to count, have an inkling of what she likes, can follow direction, tears, genuine, can communicate.
Turn offs: unshaven, poor hygiene, whatever I like, smiling just to please me when it realy hurts.

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RE: turn ons & offs - 6/18/2008 10:32:33 AM

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turn offs: I followed by I followed by I followed perhaps by Me and then by I

if truelly a slave then there is NO i or me

the slave is defined by the Master and is the Masters property no longer its own property

but that is simply this ones humble opinion

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RE: turn ons & offs - 6/18/2008 10:48:01 AM

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It seems like being a true slave does horrible things to your grammar.

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RE: turn ons & offs - 6/18/2008 11:24:18 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: scslave4Master

turn offs: I followed by I followed by I followed perhaps by Me and then by I

if truelly a slave then there is NO i or me

the slave is defined by the Master and is the Masters property no longer its own property

but that is simply this ones humble opinion

stef

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RE: turn In's & offs - 6/18/2008 12:05:54 PM

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ORIGINAL: SylvereApLeanan

Turn-offs:

"Whatever you like" when I ask what her interests are.
"A strict owner who will put me in my place" when I ask what sort of person she is looking for in a Dominant.
Gushing declarations of adoration and/or wanting to announce they are "under consideration" during any of the first 10 encounters.
Inability to talk about something other than shopping or the latest celebrity gossip.

Turn-ons:

Intelligence
Good conversational skills
Artistic creativity (musical, writing, photography, etc.)
Life goals
A clear idea of what she likes, wants, needs from me
A clear idea of who she is as a person

What she said

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RE: turn ons & offs - 6/18/2008 1:12:13 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: StrictMaster979

Turns ons: Yes Master, willing to try new things, ability to count, have an inkling of what she likes, can follow direction, tears, genuine, can communicate.
Turn offs: unshaven, poor hygiene, whatever I like, smiling just to please me when it realy hurts.

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You mean like that, whatchamacallit....math?

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RE: turn ons & offs - 6/18/2008 6:02:52 PM

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Turn on's: Intelligence, sense of humor, a girl who takes care of her health.

Turn off's: A girl who's so insecure that she tries to alter herself to be what she thinks *I* want.

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RE: turn ons & offs - 6/18/2008 10:46:35 PM

WhiteFox77

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Turn Ons:

-Do things I like without me having to ask/tell you to. Whether it's bringing me a glass of ice-water after I'm done mowing the lawn, or walking up to me naked and asking permission to give me oral-sex, it's always twice as nice if I don't have to ask for it first.
-Wear sexy clothing regularly even if it's just around the house.
-Treat me with respect at all times, even if you are disagreeing with me about something.
-Get things done ahead of schedule. Just because I said you have 48 hours to get it done doesn't mean you have to wait 45 hours to start.
-Don't hold back, if your smarter, stronger, or more creative than me don't hide it. Just don't rub my face in it.
-Not asking for restraints to be removed. One of the most respectful things I can think of a slave doing is waiting until I'm ready to remove her restraints after sex, instead -of asking me to do it while I'm still lying panting from exhaustion on the mattress next to her.
Turn Offs:

-Disobeying to get punished.
-Asking "why". The answer is "because I asked/told you to do it." If you needed to know more than that I would have told you without you asking.
-If I ask for your opinion, give me you honest opinion, attempting to figure out "the right answer" or saying "what ever you like" will only piss me off.
-If I ask a "yes or no" question, answer with a "yes" or a "no". You don't need to explain yourself unless I ask you to. Nothing makes me want to walk away more than asking "Would you like to go out to eat tonight?" and having the response be something besides "yes" or "no".
-Don't pull a "Dobby" if you need to be punished, I'll do it and I'll decide what the punishment is. Don't punish yourself.
-Lying in any way shape or form (including pretending to enjoy something you don't enjoy).

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RE: turn ons & offs - 6/18/2008 10:54:38 PM

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Turn offs.

Insecure, self indulgent narcissism.

Knee jerk reacting.

Has dependents.

Victims.

Poor health-physically-emotionally-mentally. (fat, crazy, drama whores need not apply)

Stupidity.

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Turn ons.

Thinks for self, tries to see the big picture-ignores biased mass media, and looks for *actual* truth. Doesn't follow fads or herds to "fit in".

Uninhibited.

Knows that there is more than what we can see, touch and feel in the world.

Wildly creative, and good at making things with her hands.

Intense love of learning.

Knows that there is more to living then just looking after herself, and banal needs.

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RE: turn ons & offs - 6/18/2008 11:25:11 PM

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Offs - Lack of an opinion when requested, especially regarding extremely broad or important matters. Asking "Why?". Cloaking or obfuscating needs or desires (As in "Wouldn't you like to do X" when X is simply something she wants. Just state your needs or wants.) Anything that smells of manipulation. Meeting my desires or plans with obstructionist comments.
Ons - quiet personality. Asking for clarification. Can do attitude. Thinking. Physical qualities I like. Being able to take correction. Logical thinking.

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RE: turn ons & offs - 6/19/2008 12:07:42 AM

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Oh, one more turn on I'd like to add: When buying me gifts remember I am male. If you buy me anything related to looks or hygiene I'm not going to be thrilled. Cloths, cologne, shaving kits, and all other such things mean little more than "Well at least I don't have to go shopping for this myself now."

I want stuff I can do something with. Think food, alcohol, tools, electronic gadgets, video games or computer games.

For my last birthday my girl bought me a 30 piece lock-pick set. Ladies, you might not understand why a guy would ever want a lock-pick set (especially since I have no intention of breaking any laws with it), but it was easily the coolest gift any woman has ever bought me and every guy I've told about it agrees.

One exception I will add for cloths. A lover once gave me what I thought was a very creative gift. Under the Xmas tree was box after box of some incredibly sexy lingerie in her size, but with tags addressed to me. Watching her put on (and take off) all those outfits was an enormous amount of fun and resulted in a Xmas I'm not likely to forget.

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